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Serious Using Insecure Perfectionism is like using a diesel engine in your car, instead of hydraulics (zen)

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Living in the human mind is like trying to decide on what power source to use.
The notion I hate is that insecurity isn't a :clean: power source.
And that zen/ calmness is. I'd say ASPECTS of zen is.
It's like using a water powered car vs a gas powered car.
Living in the human mind is like trying to make a viable power source out of yourself while you're surrounded by suffocating flammable gas.
The weak people try to work with their problems in acceptance IMO, rather than ignite that flammable gas and make a SUPER powered car.
Water cars CAN be as fast/ powerful as muscle diesel cars. BUT, it takes time/ organization that isn't realistic (equating technology with human focus/ insulation). AND YOU STILL HAVE THE GASSES TO DEAL WITH (insecurities) that you can ignite for power (hate/ anger/ perfectionism/ insecurity.)
YOU CAN TAKE ZEN IN SOME WAYS (Cooling fires, rather than having a full blown water powered car). But FIRE cares are easier technology and move FASTER. (serenity methods to tone down insecurity for operable malleability).

It gets you from A-B faster, (BURNS OIL AND NEED GOOD MAINTENANCE, AND IF YOU USE IT RIGHT YOU WILL BE A HARDCORE HARE, AND YOUR ENEMIES WILL BE A SLOW TORTOISE).

Diesel though is hard to manage, oil is dense and needs a good pressurizer, and if there is no proper ventilation/ cloggage/ internal ignition then there's an explosion (emotional collapse). Hydraulics is easier/ less prone to devastation. ANGER NEEDS TO BE BETTER REFINED.

Being insecure is good, perfectionism, feeding from insecurities. but dangerous.

I think ppl should use insecurity, AND use some aspects of zen, like cooling in a diesel engine. but not be fullblown hydraulics.
I hate when ppl like incels LDAR and try to make it by through zen. BEING AN INSECURE PERFECTIONIST IS GOOD AND HATING ON PPL who didn't get on board with your narcissism.
It helps having a sensitive ego/ entitled narcissism and needing narcissism supply. And perfect results to get this done. Being zen is cultural cuckoldry.
Beating someone down with rage is funner anyway. Beating ppl down allows you to keep your delusions while they got bashed down needing to be more realistic/ pragmatic lol. It serves your ego better to be winning on an easier format.
Needed to think less/ and training is easy/ gives you a better look when gymmaxxed.
 
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This makes me think of Pixar's Cars, just vroom fast tbh.
 
It is better to put embrace on rage (free/ raw motivation), and micromanagement on thought/ intellectualization.
Than it is to put embrace on intellectualization (more complex), and micromanagement on motivation (when rage is right there waiting). Motivation should be perpetual, and rage helps with that.

Always put embrace on what is easy/ more needed component, and always put microscope on moving factors.
Being filled with rage is a great wellspring to embrace. But how it is used is what needs micromanagement.
Any microthought on anything that can just be embraced and not be problematic is needless burden. It's like constantly putting thought on how many grains of soil are sitting under of your business, when it doesn't matter.
The trick is getting the biggest buck with the lowest amount of output. Not having to constantly think of your brain falsely as a muscle. Whatever doesn't kill you won't make you stronger. Only so many times the arm can lift things up before the muscle pops. The brain is no different.
Chronic stress has a shrinking effect on the prefrontal cortex, the area of the brain responsible for memory and learning. / Too much cortisol = decline, etc.
hatred and rage need to be easebreezed, and not prone to pop from a clog of frustration.


Hydraulics (zen takes another100 years.)
Diesel (more accessible technology, and goes faster, but hard to control).
When people snap at you in life, and hurt your ego, anger/ perfectionism take over. And that's good.
But pussies wait on the zen to be good before they go ahead and stand up for their pride.
 

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