Serious Users 26 or older: how brutal is the reality of being closer to 30 than to 20?

[lifeisfucked215]

I don't really think about it too much. I just accept my situation for what it is. It is what it is and life goes on. Sure I look back and think maybe if I did this or that it would be different but I just accept my situation for what it is now

 

[Vector2800]

It’s brutal to me. I’m 28. Even if only illogically, I didn’t have a chance at any age.

But experience wise 16 or younger. I’m so short. 1.62m/5’4” as a German. I’m white but that doesn’t help. You also can’t tell my age (I could be 16-24) or that I’m even a man, due to my height, many missing facial bones and head shape, proportions make me look uncanny.

It’s just so weird, to think I’m almost THIRTY (30!). In 10 years I’m 38, if I make it till then that is, and 10 years ago I was 18.

Age coupled with inexperience is brutal.

25.5 year olds can reply to if you want

I’m 47 man

 

[j10009504]

In my 30s. been over for a while. I think at some point though you start to let go and things improve. white pill kind of thinking.

 

[TheGrayWolf]

In my 30s. been over for a while. I think at some point though you start to let go and things improve. white pill kind of thinking.

Interesting, good for you!

I did “ accept ” being forever alone more and more over the last months. Heck I’m a deformed 1/10, 5’4/1.62m in height. I’m still sad about it though. And I get very envious and upset when I see young couples in movies or on my throwaway insta account feed

 

[TheGrayWolf]

I’m 47 man

Brutal dude. Still it’s over at a certain age especially when you have no experience, friends or a minimum looks level

 

[j10009504]

Interesting, good for you!

I did “ accept ” being forever alone more and more over the last months. Heck I’m a deformed 1/10, 5’4/1.62m in height. I’m still sad about it though. And I get very envious and upset when I see young couples in movies or on my throwaway insta account feed

I mean I do still get upset like that but I think my main focus has become trying to be as comfortable as possible in life

 

[avoidthefoid2]

It’s brutal to me. I’m 28. Even if only illogically, I didn’t have a chance at any age.

But experience wise 16 or younger. I’m so short. 1.62m/5’4” as a German. I’m white but that doesn’t help. You also can’t tell my age (I could be 16-24) or that I’m even a man, due to my height, many missing facial bones and head shape, proportions make me look uncanny.

It’s just so weird, to think I’m almost THIRTY (30!). In 10 years I’m 38, if I make it till then that is, and 10 years ago I was 18.

Age coupled with inexperience is brutal.

25.5 year olds can reply to if you want

I'm 35 and things are getting worse and worse with age

 

[TheGrayWolf]

I'm 35 and things are getting worse and worse with age

Things - you mean body, mind, coping, loneliness, no gf…? Or…?

 

[avoidthefoid2]

we NEED a time machine to be younger

 

[WorthlessSlavicShit]

I think there are few stuff:
You're no longer that young man people despise solely because of his appearance, you’re starting to be seen as true waste. The ''potential of youth'' , which used to make people hold back when silently predicting your future compared to theirs, is gone.
You’re beginning to feel the first effects of aging, even baldness for some.
You notice your sexual needs have slightly diminished (though not the frustration), but the need for love remains and mainly increased.
Years of isolation and depression have deeply affected your entire being, even your body.
Rage gives way to melancholy, and you sigh more than you scream.
The horizon of possibilities has drastically narrowed, and among the few remaining options, suicide often seems the most satisfying.

A small positive point : facing your destiny might give you a final boost to try one last time, hoping for a stroke of luck before ultimately sinking into suicide or the madness of a loveless, enslaved life.

Great post.

we NEED a time machine to be younger

 

[Anthrofurrcel]

@BricABrac ur thoughts on this