People here talk a lot about height, face, autism etc, but dyspraxia (DCD) is almost never mentioned, even though it can mess up your life in similar ways.
I have it myself, so I’m not speaking theoretically.
It’s not just “clumsiness” like normies think. It affects basically everything that matters socially:
-awkward body language
-bad coordination
-weird posture and movements
-bad timing in conversations
-difficulty reading social cues
-slow reactions
-constant feeling of being “out of sync”
Even if you try to act normal, something always feels off and normies pick up on it instantly.
One thing people don’t talk about is practical life skills.
For example, driving.
For most people it’s normal, but with dyspraxia it can be extremely hard or even impossible to learn properly (I already post a thread about before). Coordination, reaction speed, multitasking — all of that is required. If you fail at something basic like that, it lowers your status automatically.
Same with sports, physical jobs, even simple everyday tasks. You constantly feel behind other men.
And then people say “just be confident”.
Confidence doesn’t come from nowhere. If your whole life is:
failing basic things
being seen as awkward
getting negative reactions
being excluded
then of course your confidence is going to be low.
Socially it creates a loop: you act awkward → normies react badly → you get more anxious → you act even worse → repeat
After years of this, you’re basically locked out.
This is why I see dyspraxia as a legitimate truecel condition.
Not only because of looks or mindset, but because it directly affects how normies perceive you and how you function in everyday life.
I have it myself, so I’m not speaking theoretically.
It’s not just “clumsiness” like normies think. It affects basically everything that matters socially:
-awkward body language
-bad coordination
-weird posture and movements
-bad timing in conversations
-difficulty reading social cues
-slow reactions
-constant feeling of being “out of sync”
Even if you try to act normal, something always feels off and normies pick up on it instantly.
One thing people don’t talk about is practical life skills.
For example, driving.
For most people it’s normal, but with dyspraxia it can be extremely hard or even impossible to learn properly (I already post a thread about before). Coordination, reaction speed, multitasking — all of that is required. If you fail at something basic like that, it lowers your status automatically.
Same with sports, physical jobs, even simple everyday tasks. You constantly feel behind other men.
And then people say “just be confident”.
Confidence doesn’t come from nowhere. If your whole life is:
failing basic things
being seen as awkward
getting negative reactions
being excluded
then of course your confidence is going to be low.
Socially it creates a loop: you act awkward → normies react badly → you get more anxious → you act even worse → repeat
After years of this, you’re basically locked out.
This is why I see dyspraxia as a legitimate truecel condition.
Not only because of looks or mindset, but because it directly affects how normies perceive you and how you function in everyday life.
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