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Blackpill ULTIMATE TEENLOVEPILL: PROOF THAT TEEN LOVE IS IMPORTANT (EVERYONE GTFIH)

Many people who are bluepilled say that teen love doesn't matter and that missing out on it doesn't do any harm. Here's proof that missing out on teen love is harmful.

In a pivotal study about involuntary celibacy from 2001, they talked to three involuntarily celibate groups of people: Involuntary virgins (those who never had sex and still are sexually inexperienced), singles (those who had sexual experience in the past but no longer are able to, and a good amount of these people resorted to hookers or even sexual surrogates), and partnered celibates (those who are married or in a relationship but their partner won't have sex). 91% of the virgins said they never dated as teenagers, compared to 52% of singles. Here's an important quote:

"In summary, while most of our sample had discussed sex with friends and experimented with masturbation as teens, most of the virgins and singles did not date. Singles were similar to partnered persons in terms of first sexual experiences, while the majority of virgins reported first sexual experiences that did not include another person. As the data illustrates, virgins and singles may have missed important transitions, and as they got older, their trajecto- ries began to differ from those of their age peers. As Thorton (1990) noted, patterns of sexuality in young adult- hood are significantly related to dating, steady dating, and sexual experience in adolescence. It is rare for a teenager to initiate sexual activity outside of a dating relationship. Thus, persons reaching young adulthood without dating may have missed an important opportunity for sexual experience. While virginity and lack of experience are fair- ly common in teenagers and young adults (Sprecher & Regan, 1996), by the time many of our respondents reached their mid-twenties they reported feeling left behind by age peers. We suspect that this is especially true for gay, lesbian, and bisexual youth. In fact, all eight of the nonheterosexual respondents in our sample were either virgins or singles. As previous researchers have shown, a major reason for becoming off time in making sexual tran- sitions is the process of coming out to oneself and others (Gonsiorek & Rudolph, 1991). Even for the heterosexuals in our study, however, it appears that lack of dating and sexual experimentation in the teen years may be precursors to problems in adult sexual relationships (Thorton, 1990)."

Another quote I found from another study (which has more to do with juvenile sex offenders and autism):

"The foundation for a healthy sexuality in adulthood lies in childhood and adolescence, with the discovery of one’s own sexuality oftentimes going in phases (De Graaf et al.2009). A large population study in the Netherlands amongst 7841 boys and girls aged 12–25 has shown that half of all 15-year-old adolescents have been intimate with a partner (e.g., touching each other’s genitalia). At age 16, half of all youths have experience with mutual masturba- tion and at age 17, half of all youths have experienced sexual intercourse and/or oral sex (De Graaf et al. 2015). Eventually, relationships and sexual intimacy become more serious; relationships last longer and are more exclusive, eventually leading to the ‘adult’ model of a committed relationship (Furman and Shaffer 2003)."

Here's another study:

“One study showed that adult virgins have higher odds of being overweight and of being perceived as physically unattractive. Four additional studies reported that adult virgins have greater probabilities of never having been in a romantic relationship. Moreover, in a qualitative study conducted among 82 involuntary celibate adults aged 18 to 64 years, Donnelly and colleagues found that nearly all adult virgins never dated anyone, including in adolescence. Thus, findings converge to support the importance of romantic and sexual experiences during adolescence for ongoing romantic and sexual development in adulthood. Additionally, this study revealed that these adult virgins perceived themselves as being very shy and unable to establish social contacts, and reported body image issues, such as being overweight and perceiving their physical appearance to be an obstacle to their sexuality.”

Sources

Donnelly, D., Burgess, E., Anderson, S., Davis, R., & Dillard, J. (2001). Involuntary celibacy: A life course analysis. Journal of Sex Research, 38(2), 159–169.doi:10.1080/00224490109552083

Baarsma, M. E., Boonmann, C., ’t Hart-Kerkhoffs, L. A., de Graaf, H., Doreleijers, T. A. H., Vermeiren, R. R. J. M., & Jansen, L. M. C. (2016). Sexuality and Autistic-Like Symptoms in Juvenile Sex Offenders: A Follow-Up After 8 Years. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 46(8), 2679–2691. doi:10.1007/s10803-016-2805-6

Boislard, M.-A., van de Bongardt, D., & Blais, M. (2016). Sexuality (and Lack Thereof) in Adolescence and Early Adulthood: A Review of the Literature. Behavioral Sciences, 6(1), 8.doi:10.3390/bs6010008
 
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HeroinNihilism said:
All trucels should watch Ken Park, it’s about how better it would be to not exist
the sex scenes are kinda suifuel.
 
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i still feel like im a teenager, like my mind didnt develop beyond
 
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Well, it makes sense that if you are a virgin at 30, you were also a virgin at 17. It's a, what do you say? Self fulfilling prophecy? Like, there couldn't be any other way. Which makes me doubt the importance of this study. I don't get it
 
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Of course it is. It always was. From the start. You'll never be a girl's erotic dream. Get used to it. It's not for you. Anyhow, it's too late. All your sexual failures since adolescence, the frustration dogging you since puberty, have scarred you forever. Even if you could find a woman, which I frankly doubt, it wouldn't work. It will never work. You're orphaned by the teenage loves you never had. It's already hurt you. It'll keep getting worse. An agonizing bitterness will fill your heart. There's no redemption. No release. That's how it is.
-Quote from film whatever 1999-
 
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waste matter said:
Of course it is. It always was. From the start. You'll never be a girl's erotic dream. Get used to it. It's not for you. Anyhow, it's too late. All your sexual failures since adolescence, the frustration dogging you since puberty, have scarred you forever. Even if you could find a woman, which I frankly doubt, it wouldn't work. It will never work. You're orphaned by the teenage loves you never had. It's already hurt you. It'll keep getting worse. An agonizing bitterness will fill your heart. There's no redemption. No release. That's how it is.
-Quote from film whatever 1999-
 
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fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck
 
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I don't really care about that stuff, and the people who actually care that much are probably pedocels
The most common thing people say when talking about this stuff from you guys is, "I wish I could have sex with a JB girl", so yup it is just a bunch of pedos
 
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anon2719 said:
I don't really care about that stuff, and the people who actually care that much are probably pedocels
The most common thing people say when talking about this stuff from you guys is, "I wish I could have sex with a JB girl", so yup it is just a bunch of pedos
just deny scientific evidence lmao
 
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imagine not having a gf during highschool, taking her to the beach on your motorcycle, holding hands cuddling while watching the sunset, having sex while her parents are gone, taking pictures together, texting each other all day long, skipping class to go into the city, traveling together while she sleeps on your shoulders
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
this study revealed that these adult virgins perceived themselves as being very shy and unable to establish social contacts, and reported body image issues, such as being overweight and perceiving their physical appearance to be an obstacle to their sexuality.
JFL, as if adult virgins were all 10/10 with a problem "self perception". Reality is foids are the ones having a problem of perceiving others. You can't suddenly ascend just by changing how you perceive yourself. It's how OTHERS perceive you.
 
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FOIDCRUSHER420 said:
"Thus, findings converge to support the importance of romantic and sexual experiences during adolescence for ongoing romantic and sexual development in adulthood"

well this is retarded, the adolescent experiences have nothing to do with future success, it's just that if you're good looking you'll have adolescent success as well as future success, if you aren't good looking you will have no adolescent success and then no future success
This tbh, muh experience pales in comparison to looks which is what matters here.
 
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tiredofthisshit said:
imagine not having a gf during highschool, taking her to the beach on your motorcycle, holding hands cuddling while watching the sunset, having sex while her parents are gone, taking pictures together, texting each other all day long, skipping class to go into the city, traveling together while she sleeps on your shoulders
Amazingly summed up, chads are privileged beyond there understanding.
 
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Fancy Alcoholic said:
JFL, as if adult virgins were all 10/10 with a problem "self perception". Reality is foids are the ones having a problem of perceiving others. You can't suddenly ascend just by changing how you perceive yourself. It's how OTHERS perceive you.
Your perceptions of yourself are based on social norms tbh, these men would likely not face this problem many decades ago, but nowadays they will begin to believe that they are very subhuman.
 
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JosefMengelecel said:
Teen love/losing virginity is such an important milestone in your life. If you aren’t able to reach that milestone in time then your life is ruined. It’s like not learning how to walk or talk at the respective ages that one should. Even if you are able to learn those later you will still be disabled to a degree. Same thing with losing virginity. Imo you should be considered legally disabled if you aren’t able to lose your virginity before 20
 
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Your past failures will haunt your present and your present will haunt your future, such is the life of a trucel
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
“One study showed that adult virgins have higher odds of being overweight and of being perceived as physically unattractive."
Retarded normies always confuse the cause with the consequences. :feelsPop:

You are not ugly because you are virgin

But

YOU ARE A VIRGIN BECAUSE YOU ARE UGLY :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
 
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Byronic Incellino said:
Retarded normies always confuse the cause with the consequences. :feelsPop:

You are not ugly because you are virgin

But

YOU ARE A VIRGIN BECAUSE YOU ARE UGLY :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
This clown world is truly retarded.
 
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JosefMengelecel said:
Teen love/losing virginity is such an important milestone in your life. If you aren’t able to reach that milestone in time then your life is ruined. It’s like not learning how to walk or talk at the respective ages that one should. Even if you are able to learn those later you will still be disabled to a degree. Same thing with losing virginity. Imo you should be considered legally disabled if you aren’t able to lose your virginity before 20
I guess I’m disabled, rope
 
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virgeorgen said:
I guess I’m disabled, rope
Everyone here is tbh. Inceldom itself is a disability
 
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JosefMengelecel said:
Everyone here is tbh. Inceldom itself is a disability

JFL no, lets not latch on to the term "disabled" in the same way that gays in america latched onto the "civil rights movement" of blacks, and then the trans latched onto it from the gays, it just waters down the meaning and lowers its importance.
 
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anon2719 said:
I don't really care about that stuff, and the people who actually care that much are probably pedocels
The most common thing people say when talking about this stuff from you guys is, "I wish I could have sex with a JB girl", so yup it is just a bunch of pedos
Attraction to young, sexually mature women is pedophilia?
Before feminism women were married off as soon as they could physically breed, but no, I guess the entirety of men that made up human civilization before the Industrial Revolution were pedophiles, right?
If you even look at a girl 1 day under the arbitrary, magical age of 18 you are pedo scum right? Despite 16 actually being the arbitrary age of consent where I live (for all the FBIcels watching this thread, I would fuck a teen if I could, it's legal. Seethe more lol), & in fact it's even lower in most countries!
I guess everyone In my state is a pedo or at the very least, endorses pedophilia; because they don't live up to your modern arbitrary standards.
Everyone in the world, outside of your little bubble of acceptability is a pedo too right?
If being attracted to legal (for most of the world for most of history) & reproductively mature foids makes me a pedophile then I am proud to say that I am a pedophile & fully endorse pedophilia & sex with children.
note to all FBI, I don't actually & this is satire
 
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Sheepcel said:
Attraction to young, sexually mature women is pedophilia?
Before feminism women were married off as soon as they could physically breed, but no, I guess the entirety of men that made up human civilization before the Industrial Revolution were pedophiles, right?
If you even look at a girl 1 day under the arbitrary, magical age of 18 you are pedo scum right? Despite 16 actually being the arbitrary age of consent where I live (for all the FBIcels watching this thread, I would fuck a teen if I could, it's legal. Seethe more lol), & in fact it's even lower in most countries!
I guess everyone In my state is a pedo or at the very least, endorses pedophilia; because they don't live up to your modern arbitrary standards.
Everyone in the world, outside of your little bubble of acceptability is a pedo too right?
If being attracted to legal (for most of the world for most of history) & reproductively mature foids makes me a pedophile then I am proud to say that I am a pedophile & fully endorse pedophilia & sex with children.
note to all FBI, I don't actually & this is satire
I am just trying to reason out the fascination with the teen love stuff, to me being an incel is far beyond just not having had a GF in high school, it consumes everything in my life, I can't do real things because people are biggoted against people like me and the only thing you care about is some temporary satisfaction from fucking a girl you consider attraction
 
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anon2719 said:
I am just trying to reason out the fascination with the teen love stuff, to me being an incel is far beyond just not having had a GF in high school, it consumes everything in my life, I can't do real things because people are biggoted against people like me and the only thing you care about is some temporary satisfaction from fucking a girl you consider attraction
It's mostly cope probably, people want to think that if they had just fixed this one problem in their life then they would've made it. When it reality it's mostly an entire range of issues caused by things outside of your control that have caused you to not only fail in that one specific area (meaning that it isn't even the root cause) but also in other multiple aspects of your life too.
So yes I agree with you that obsessing over sex with JB teens (as a weird cope or a cause or cure for your own shitty life) is rather foolish.
I just wanted to call you out on slandering a bunch of dudes (fellowcels) who are desperate & bitter over being denied the right to mate as "pedocels"
With everything said I personally as an Giga-Terminal Autist understand how Inceldom is something all pervasive & not just about sex alone.
(I only started calling myself an Incel after I realised that I couldn't have normal friends, & this was even after I gave up on having sex or dating)
 
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Can't believe I'm too old to experience any original or unique devoted love.
 
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How valid is this TeenLovePill?
 
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FullTimeLoser said:
Can't believe I'm too old to experience any original or unique devoted love.
I mean not that any girl would love me any way nor are they capable
 
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High IQ thread. The worst part about missing out on teen love is mental issues it brings later on in life that is permanent regardless if you get love further in your life.
 
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This is absolutely brutal

Im starting to see the validity of this thread by scrolling through these pages of posts
 
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Pain And Hatred said:
High IQ thread. The worst part about missing out on teen love is mental issues it brings later on in life that is permanent regardless if you get love further in your life.
and everyone will be an expert on relationship skills while you’ll be a novice
 
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To think that at this very moment theres teens feeling emotions that will only be felt once in their life as they express their emotions and go through it all rendering them to never see any relationship that comes after to the same effect again whilst many men are slowly deteriorating, rotting, and decomposing in a wage slave establishment having never felt a single second of natural interest in the decades of their entire life is the definition of genocide.
 
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Feces said:
To think that at this very moment theres teens feeling emotions that will only be felt once in their life as they express their emotions and go through it all rendering them to never see any relationship that comes after to the same effect again whilst many men are slowly deteriorating, rotting, and decomposing in a wage slave establishment having never felt a single second of natural interest in the decades of their entire life is the definition of genocide.
When i was in 12th grade excited about cool stuff happening in the future (eg: college and a girlfriend) despite knowing i'd miss HS, i had no idea that I would end up a kissless virgin at 23 who had nothing in college. i was all excited only to find out the dark truth and be disappointed in the end. now i feel anger and hatred towards those fucking faggot ass greek life students.
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
When i was in 12th grade excited about cool stuff happening in the future (eg: college and a girlfriend) despite knowing i'd miss HS, i had no idea that I would end up a kissless virgin at 23 who had nothing in college. i was all excited only to find out the dark truth and be disappointed in the end. now i feel anger and hatred towards those fucking faggot ass greek life students.
My outlook was already deteriorated at the start of grade 9, by 12 my mental state slipped so much I had to finish school elsewhere. Its been nearly a decade and I sure feel the same anger any time i see someone even your age with foids. But the years wisened me to see what alot of people dont see here- that the foids always end up taking advantage of those males and leaving them drained and destroyed. I dont know what the answer is at this point.
 
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Feces said:
My outlook was already deteriorated at the start of grade 9, by 12 my mental state slipped so much I had to finish school elsewhere. Its been nearly a decade and I sure feel the same anger any time i see someone even your age with foids. But the years wisened me to see what alot of people dont see here- that the foids always end up taking advantage of those males and leaving them drained and destroyed. I dont know what the answer is at this point.
i'm surprised Emba @Emba hasn't paddockmaxxed yet. he's 58 and still incel. imagine enduring that without roping. (come to think of it, he would've inevitably roped at 58 if he never escortmaxxed)
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
i'm surprised Emba @Emba hasn't paddockmaxxed yet. he's 58 and still incel. imagine enduring that without roping. (come to think of it, he would've inevitably roped at 58 if he never escortmaxxed)
Being older myself, that isnt really much of an answer either. Best thing to do is step away from this degenerate cycle and devote yourself to something outside of it.
 
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Feces said:
Being older myself, that isnt really much of an answer either. Best thing to do is step away from this degenerate cycle and devote yourself to something outside of it.
how old are you?
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
i'm surprised Emba @Emba hasn't paddockmaxxed yet. he's 58 and still incel. imagine enduring that without roping. (come to think of it, he would've inevitably roped at 58 if he never escortmaxxed)
I'm a nice guy. Quiet. Keep to myself...
 
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Edmund_Kemper said:
Many people who are bluepilled say that teen love doesn't matter and that missing out on it doesn't do any harm. Here's proof that missing out on teen love is harmful.

In a pivotal study about involuntary celibacy from 2001, they talked to three involuntarily celibate groups of people: Involuntary virgins (those who never had sex and still are sexually inexperienced), singles (those who had sexual experience in the past but no longer are able to, and a good amount of these people resorted to hookers or even sexual surrogates), and partnered celibates (those who are married or in a relationship but their partner won't have sex). 91% of the virgins said they never dated as teenagers, compared to 52% of singles. Here's an important quote:

"In summary, while most of our sample had discussed sex with friends and experimented with masturbation as teens, most of the virgins and singles did not date. Singles were similar to partnered persons in terms of first sexual experiences, while the majority of virgins reported first sexual experiences that did not include another person. As the data illustrates, virgins and singles may have missed important transitions, and as they got older, their trajecto- ries began to differ from those of their age peers. As Thorton (1990) noted, patterns of sexuality in young adult- hood are significantly related to dating, steady dating, and sexual experience in adolescence. It is rare for a teenager to initiate sexual activity outside of a dating relationship. Thus, persons reaching young adulthood without dating may have missed an important opportunity for sexual experience. While virginity and lack of experience are fair- ly common in teenagers and young adults (Sprecher & Regan, 1996), by the time many of our respondents reached their mid-twenties they reported feeling left behind by age peers. We suspect that this is especially true for gay, lesbian, and bisexual youth. In fact, all eight of the nonheterosexual respondents in our sample were either virgins or singles. As previous researchers have shown, a major reason for becoming off time in making sexual tran- sitions is the process of coming out to oneself and others (Gonsiorek & Rudolph, 1991). Even for the heterosexuals in our study, however, it appears that lack of dating and sexual experimentation in the teen years may be precursors to problems in adult sexual relationships (Thorton, 1990)."

Another quote I found from another study (which has more to do with juvenile sex offenders and autism):

"The foundation for a healthy sexuality in adulthood lies in childhood and adolescence, with the discovery of one’s own sexuality oftentimes going in phases (De Graaf et al.2009). A large population study in the Netherlands amongst 7841 boys and girls aged 12–25 has shown that half of all 15-year-old adolescents have been intimate with a partner (e.g., touching each other’s genitalia). At age 16, half of all youths have experience with mutual masturba- tion and at age 17, half of all youths have experienced sexual intercourse and/or oral sex (De Graaf et al. 2015). Eventually, relationships and sexual intimacy become more serious; relationships last longer and are more exclusive, eventually leading to the ‘adult’ model of a committed relationship (Furman and Shaffer 2003)."

Here's another study:

“One study showed that adult virgins have higher odds of being overweight and of being perceived as physically unattractive. Four additional studies reported that adult virgins have greater probabilities of never having been in a romantic relationship. Moreover, in a qualitative study conducted among 82 involuntary celibate adults aged 18 to 64 years, Donnelly and colleagues found that nearly all adult virgins never dated anyone, including in adolescence. Thus, findings converge to support the importance of romantic and sexual experiences during adolescence for ongoing romantic and sexual development in adulthood. Additionally, this study revealed that these adult virgins perceived themselves as being very shy and unable to establish social contacts, and reported body image issues, such as being overweight and perceiving their physical appearance to be an obstacle to their sexuality.”

Sources

Donnelly, D., Burgess, E., Anderson, S., Davis, R., & Dillard, J. (2001). Involuntary celibacy: A life course analysis. Journal of Sex Research, 38(2), 159–169.doi:10.1080/00224490109552083

Baarsma, M. E., Boonmann, C., ’t Hart-Kerkhoffs, L. A., de Graaf, H., Doreleijers, T. A. H., Vermeiren, R. R. J. M., & Jansen, L. M. C. (2016). Sexuality and Autistic-Like Symptoms in Juvenile Sex Offenders: A Follow-Up After 8 Years. Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders, 46(8), 2679–2691. doi:10.1007/s10803-016-2805-6

Boislard, M.-A., van de Bongardt, D., & Blais, M. (2016). Sexuality (and Lack Thereof) in Adolescence and Early Adulthood: A Review of the Literature. Behavioral Sciences, 6(1), 8.doi:10.3390/bs6010008
Edmund_Kemper said:
I found studies confirming teen love is important and you still deny it because you’re stubborn and unwilling to hear information you don’t like

Studies here confirm teen love is important

and how old are you? Because women lose their looks in their early 30s sometimes even late20s

But you’re still a virgin and had any sexual activity (intercourse, oral sex, etc)?
im 23 and i didn't even kissed, it affects ur self esteem cos everyone ranks among sexuality, i can't feel manly, im just a little child. I can't react or respond any females, but in first sight they think im capable male, and since i started nofap they really stick to my energy. I really don't have body problem as well. I used lots of drugs and no one tell me that im gonna regretin to put all these years to waste. i overthink to much but meditating and sticking out of downward spiral is very helpful. I had to silence my mind cos its too sharp man, every minute that passes i feel losing.
 
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