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Discussion Ugly men need to have the right to try & not be punished

Approachcels: Chance to get harassment allegations for approaching as ugly male is high?

  • Not really. Allegations do mostly happen to those who (un)knowingly cross clear boundaries

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Somewhat. If an ugly guy acts weird on top of being ugly

    Votes: 4 14.8%
  • Yeah, you can never do it right as an unattractive male and WILL get reported if you approach 100x

    Votes: 20 74.1%
  • I don't know the reality of it

    Votes: 2 7.4%
  • Other (make a post)

    Votes: 1 3.7%

  • Total voters
    27
Norton

Norton

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What I'm talking about is the stereotypical story, where a guy approaches a girl, trying to get some degree of romantic action going, but instead of merely getting rejected, he unexpectedly gets sued for harassment or some shit.

That kind of punishment is cruel and makes no sense, even if a women hates ugly males talking to her.

I do understand that there are examples of clear harassment. For example, if the girl says in no uncertain terms that she is not interested, but the guy keeps talking to her about dates and touching her.
I get that some PUAs used to tell red pillers that women "play hard to get", but this kind of mind games works only for attractive males, and only MAYBE. It's true that many times a no means no.

It's fair to say that some cases of harassment allegations are true, but the average sub5 male should not have to worry about being fined or put in jail or some crazy stuff, just by merely trying to get a date/sex with someone.

But is it actually likely for the average incel to get sued just for existing and talking to a girl?
Or is there usually a behavioral component to it? Even for the reported cases in the media, and we just don't get the full story?

Feel free to share some your harassment allegation stories.

If so, what do?
>Some rules for men and women that are clearly fair game, where it's behaviorally clear that no harassment has taken place/undoubtadly no harassment was intended?
>"Just be attractive bro"? Surely that can't be it.

In a free society as in the west, where there is no repercussions for free people to have sex with each other, as long as mutual consent is given, ugly males must be able to have hope through being able to get into contact with women.
 
If a pleb approached a princess, he would get his head chopped off. Not saying that it is fair, but it is the way it is.

You have to judge smv accurately. Otherwise its like going to buy a ferrari with 100 bucks. It would be an insult.
 
You have to judge smv accurately. Otherwise its like going to buy a ferrari with 100 bucks. It would be an insult.
Fair enough. I've experienced that "being insulted" thing before, but not been reported for approaching.
Then again I don't approach that often, I know my value at this point lol.

Also, goddamn I forgot about "approaching only makes sense if she gives IOIs first".
 
Fair enough. I've experienced that "being insulted" thing before, but not been reported for approaching.

There was a thread from a guy here who got reported for hitting on someone at a hotel. I will add the link if i find it.

Edit: Couldnt find the damn thing. :cryfeels:
 
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Between 2 and 3.
 
If a pleb approached a princess, he would get his head chopped off. Not saying that it is fair, but it is the way it is.

You have to judge smv accurately. Otherwise its like going to buy a ferrari with 100 bucks. It would be an insult.
Exactly. Know your place never died
 
Fair enough. I've experienced that "being insulted" thing before, but not been reported for approaching.
Then again I don't approach that often, I know my value at this point lol.

Also, goddamn I forgot about "approaching only makes sense if she gives IOIs first".

Chadlite: OK dude, you know when a girl makes eye contact with you across the bar...

Incel: No.

Chadlite: ..................
 
I've approached girls in a mall before and nothing happened. Kinda lucky lol
 
I've approached girls in a mall before and nothing happened. Kinda lucky lol
All it takes is one girl to be disgusted by your attempt to approach and you will get reported. They will always heavily embellish the story to make it seem worse than it actually was. You could just say hi and ask for a number, she will say you asked for sex and try to make you out to be a creep.
 
All it takes is one girl to be disgusted by your attempt to approach and you will get reported. They will always heavily embellish the story to make it seem worse than it actually was. You could just say hi and ask for a number, she will say you asked for sex and try to make you out to be a creep.

Interesting, I didn't do a lot of approaches but when they were disgusted they just walked away. I suppose it caught them off guard that a stranger would approach them in public like that.
 

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