Bluepill is certainly true to an extent, I think the widespread hatred and condemnation of it by incels is sort of unfounded, because, yeah, like you said in the DnD nichmaxxing example, personality, viewpoints, etc. CAN help you have a decent social life. But, like you said, your still not going to get laid, and you're probably not going to get any attention from foids. And also, your friends are going to to be losers if you nichemaxx, so the social benefits of chadery are still void in this scenario. At the end of the day, you're still a loser unless you win the genetic lottery.
As for being woke/frauding wokery? I don't know, man, couldn't be so cucked, I can't really speak on this because my scizo mind is uncapable of contemplating such a thing.