I guess it's because they don’t face the same consequences for failing. Society will always pick them up no matter what, all while men have to actually prove themselves and make something of their lives to survive. They just do whatever feels 'right' because they don't have to worry about survival—she knows that even if she fails, she can always find someone to fall back on.
Another reason could possibly be the feminist propaganda. They’ve brainwashed foids into thinking they need to 'prove themselves' in the same way men do, even though they don’t face the same struggles or consequences. It’s all about promoting this retarded narrative of equality and 'empowerment.'