Serious Trying is the worst thing you can do.

[Highfield78]

The humiliation of rejection, the immasculation of the friend zone, the ridicule from others, and the knowledge that other guys are beating you with less effort simply due to their genetics.

Trying is the worst.

I know guys who swipe daily and get no matches. Go out every weekend and get nowhere. Spent years in the friendzone with no hope of escaping it. It's just the worst existence.

 

[JustAnotherCynic]

Exactly.

 

[Paladin]

It's so hard to keep trying after failing in the past.

 

[Janaki]

I still try but I don't really care as much as I used to. I expect failure at this point.

 

[NorwoodVictim]

That and unrealistic expectation, both will fuck you up

 

[Choler]

it's over for most men if we are being honest