Ready for a truth nuke? This will be a bit of a read, tl;dr at the bottom.
You've probably experienced this: after enough time to become delusional and think you have a shot on a dating website in the hopes that a sub5 will show mercy, you create an account. After weeks of 1, maybe at best 3 matches that have never replied- if you get any at all- you buy a premium membership in the hopes of getting someone. Anyone. After 2-3 months, you give up, dejected and delete your account. What happened?
Not only are you unattractive but you weren't even seen.
After spending hours swiping on females, seeing who all you can match with, the truth is that barely anyone sees your account. Let's have a look at some diagrams that show the makeup of datings apps in the US:
The worldwide trend reflects this brutal truth: the ratio on these apps is about 75% male, 25% female. Or 4:1. Let's demonstrate how a dating app works in a very simple example:
Imagine a deck of cards. For simplicity's sake, there are 100 cards in the deck. These will represent females on dating apps. Out of these 100 cards, we can already discard 70% - these are inactives/unserious accounts. Females who make an account and never log back in, get bored, only want attention..etc. We can technically even narrow the remaining 30 cards down even more, such as those with a very specific taste, demand and whatnot. However for this example, let's keep it at 30.
These 30 "cards" are available to a deck of... 400, if we use this ratio. So, how does this look in practice?
When you first make an account, your "card" will be among the top of this "deck" that females can "draw" from. But only within the first 24 hours or so. Because of the overabundance of males and the few amount of females, the "male deck" is shuffled pretty quickly. So in short: those first few hours where you are visible will determine how your stay goes.
Let me repeat that:
The first 24 hours will determine if your stay on a dating app is successful at all or not!
Surely you know of that one guy who joins a dating app, within hours gets a bunch of matches, trades info with girls, deletes his account and then in 2 months repeats the cycle. Because he knows how this works. And he doesn't pay a single dime, either.
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Because of their choices, females can allow themselves to "punch above their weight" and go for the 8s, 9s, and 10s. Even the ugly ones. They'll be rejected, since Chad is only going for his looksmatch, but a slampig will always go for what she can't have. Perhaps the biggest lie we allow ourselves to hear is when females talk about "personality matters" when none of this does. You can be a serial rapist who killed his mother as long as you're 6'4 and have a sharp jawline.
Dating platforms are aware of this massive discrepancy. So, how do they combat it?
Paid premium memberships.
Dating platforms are an industry. They don't make money off Chad. Why? Because they don't make money off of people finding partners, they make money off of men looking for partners. Remember the "deck of cards" analogy earlier? After 24 hours, your "card" slips further and further down the deck as newer "cards" are created. Things go very fast on these platforms. And don't forget that 25 or so "cards" in the female deck have around 400 to choose from. You simply are never seen again.
This is exactly why these platforms offer paid features so you're seen again >>> but remember: The first 24 hours will determine if your stay on a dating app is successful at all or not! So paying for expensive features will not get you any matches, messages or dates.
Surely there are some autistcels here who have amazing math skills and can probably tell you the exact probability % of you getting a match. However reality speaks for itself: we wouldn't be here if we were getting matches.
Tl;dr DNR: Not only are you not getting any matches, but after a short period of time, you're not even getting seen at all. If you haven't found any success within the "hot" period of your account, it's already over for you.
You've probably experienced this: after enough time to become delusional and think you have a shot on a dating website in the hopes that a sub5 will show mercy, you create an account. After weeks of 1, maybe at best 3 matches that have never replied- if you get any at all- you buy a premium membership in the hopes of getting someone. Anyone. After 2-3 months, you give up, dejected and delete your account. What happened?
Not only are you unattractive but you weren't even seen.
After spending hours swiping on females, seeing who all you can match with, the truth is that barely anyone sees your account. Let's have a look at some diagrams that show the makeup of datings apps in the US:
The worldwide trend reflects this brutal truth: the ratio on these apps is about 75% male, 25% female. Or 4:1. Let's demonstrate how a dating app works in a very simple example:
Imagine a deck of cards. For simplicity's sake, there are 100 cards in the deck. These will represent females on dating apps. Out of these 100 cards, we can already discard 70% - these are inactives/unserious accounts. Females who make an account and never log back in, get bored, only want attention..etc. We can technically even narrow the remaining 30 cards down even more, such as those with a very specific taste, demand and whatnot. However for this example, let's keep it at 30.
These 30 "cards" are available to a deck of... 400, if we use this ratio. So, how does this look in practice?
When you first make an account, your "card" will be among the top of this "deck" that females can "draw" from. But only within the first 24 hours or so. Because of the overabundance of males and the few amount of females, the "male deck" is shuffled pretty quickly. So in short: those first few hours where you are visible will determine how your stay goes.
Let me repeat that:
The first 24 hours will determine if your stay on a dating app is successful at all or not!
Surely you know of that one guy who joins a dating app, within hours gets a bunch of matches, trades info with girls, deletes his account and then in 2 months repeats the cycle. Because he knows how this works. And he doesn't pay a single dime, either.
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Because of their choices, females can allow themselves to "punch above their weight" and go for the 8s, 9s, and 10s. Even the ugly ones. They'll be rejected, since Chad is only going for his looksmatch, but a slampig will always go for what she can't have. Perhaps the biggest lie we allow ourselves to hear is when females talk about "personality matters" when none of this does. You can be a serial rapist who killed his mother as long as you're 6'4 and have a sharp jawline.
Dating platforms are aware of this massive discrepancy. So, how do they combat it?
Paid premium memberships.
Dating platforms are an industry. They don't make money off Chad. Why? Because they don't make money off of people finding partners, they make money off of men looking for partners. Remember the "deck of cards" analogy earlier? After 24 hours, your "card" slips further and further down the deck as newer "cards" are created. Things go very fast on these platforms. And don't forget that 25 or so "cards" in the female deck have around 400 to choose from. You simply are never seen again.
This is exactly why these platforms offer paid features so you're seen again >>> but remember: The first 24 hours will determine if your stay on a dating app is successful at all or not! So paying for expensive features will not get you any matches, messages or dates.
Surely there are some autistcels here who have amazing math skills and can probably tell you the exact probability % of you getting a match. However reality speaks for itself: we wouldn't be here if we were getting matches.
Tl;dr DNR: Not only are you not getting any matches, but after a short period of time, you're not even getting seen at all. If you haven't found any success within the "hot" period of your account, it's already over for you.
