Truecel nd trait : You are a only child.

[saito.]

Most only children are children who grow up without guidance and without relying on a particular male figure. Most of them grow up without emotional support and even more so if the parents are distant , They then spend most of their childhood in loneliness and isolation and it gets worse as they grow up if they don't develop enough social skills.

Many people neglect the importance of having siblings for the development of your social abilities during your first years of social development, understanding how to live in the society and not ending in an autistic neurodivergent who does not know how to talk to women or make friends in adulthood.

 

[Yabadadabadoo]

fakecel trait

 

[saito.]

fakecel trait

Keep reminder only child Have more chance to ending up as a mentalcel nd than a kids with sibling

 

[tulasdanslos]

More like parents of trucels subconsciously know their genes are shit and stop at the first kid.

That was my case, at least, with my parents stopping with me. But I see it as a chicken or the egg situation. You can't tell which came first that easily.

 

[Luganki]

More like parents of trucels subconsciously know their genes are shit and stop at the first kid.

Idk, my parents were both in their mid 40's when I was born, thankfully I was their only child. I would've hated to have siblings tbh

 

[qCubed]

Try being an only child with helicopter parents.
Never had a chance.

 

[Luganki]

Try being an only child with helicopter parents.
Never had a chance.

My parents are like that, despite me being 21 and having traveled by myself across most of Europe they still treat me as if I can't do anything right and am unable to do anything properly without constant supervision.

 

[ItsOverMan]

Many people neglect the importance of having siblings for the development of your social abilities during your first years of social development

I was an only child and I think it's part of the reason I'm socially stunted and have social anxiety and don't really know how to interact socially. I needed a sibling near my age , preferably a brother.

 

[ItsOverMan]

I would've hated to have siblings tbh

I feel like if I had a sibling he would've turned out a NT social butterfly extrovert and probably better looking, and would have given my mom grandkids, and therefore my mom would have liked him a lot more (my dad died when I was 10). My mom would've been asking me all the time "Why can't you be more like your brother?"

 

[Luganki]

I feel like if I had a sibling he would've turned out a NT social butterfly extrovert and probably better looking, and would have given my mom grandkids, and therefore my mom would have liked him a lot more (my dad died when I was 10). My mom would've been asking me all the time "Why can't you be more like your brother?"

Same here, I said something similar to this in a previous thread. It would've been so brutal to have a NT brother or sister who is more attractive, and they'd be accomplishing normal social and relationship milestones all while I am perpetually alone. My parents would've probably kicked me to the curb as well, and focused their time and money on trying to get my sibling to become successful instead of "wasting" it on me. But since I'm an only child and my parents are older I feel like they are less inclined to do that, though they both have admitted to me multiple times how I'm their "greatest disappointment"

 

[ItsOverMan]

though they both have admitted to me multiple times how I'm their "greatest disappointment"

Ouch, sorry about that. The good thing about being an only child is you get all the parental resources and inheritance (if any) and there's no sibling for them to gaslight you about and compare you to.

 

[saito.]

I feel like if I had a sibling he would've turned out a NT social butterfly extrovert and probably better looking, and would have given my mom grandkids, and therefore my mom would have liked him a lot more (my dad died when I was 10). My mom would've been asking me all the time "Why can't you be more like your brother?"

I can say that it's cope or that we can never know what would have happened in a different reality, but the truth is that as you say if you had a big brother you will probably be an "nt social butterfly extrovert"

A big brother makes you discover the world, he teaches you to approach your first social relationships and your first relationships with women, he passes you to do a team sport which makes you much more nt and above all he teaches you to defend yourself against your peers, having a male figure in a boy At a low age is very important for his future development.

I am an only child myself, I spent all my childhood as a faggot by staying 24 hours a day in my house, I didn't talk to anyone, I developed a speech disorder a stuttering because I almost never spoke, I never made friends or girlfriends despite my rather average appearance and today I'm just an incel khhv without friends at 19, that's life it was fucked up from the start.

 

[saito.]

I feel like if I had a sibling he would've turned out a NT social butterfly extrovert and probably better looking, and would have given my mom grandkids, and therefore my mom would have liked him a lot more (my dad died when I was 10). My mom would've been asking me all the time "Why can't you be more like your brother?"

During my very first years of life I had an uncle who represented a little of this male figure for me, he was a professional footballer and often brought me to play football when I was 3 years old, I played with him and these friends I was already rather social at my age.

Unfortunately at the age of 4 I went to live with my father and my uncle passed away since that day I never had this male figure to lean on because my father did not really take care of me and I never practiced sports again, I wonder what person I could have become if I had grown up with my uncle and he would not have died. I would probably be a popular footballer having had various romantic relationships and many friends, I could have been more attractive more social more sure of myself and I would have had a halo status because I practice a high-level sport, I would never have been the unathletic and ugly shit that I am today

 

[ItsOverMan]

I can say that it's cope or that we can never know what would have happened in a different reality, but the truth is that as you say if you had a big brother you will probably be an "nt social butterfly extrovert"

A big brother makes you discover the world, he teaches you to approach your first social relationships and your first relationships with women, he passes you to do a team sport which makes you much more nt and above all he teaches you to defend yourself against your peers, having a male figure in a boy At a low age is very important for his future development.

I am an only child myself, I spent all my childhood as a faggot by staying 24 hours a day in my house, I didn't talk to anyone, I developed a speech disorder a stuttering because I almost never spoke, I never made friends or girlfriends despite my rather average appearance and today I'm just an incel khhv without friends at 19, that's life it was fucked up from the start.

I did tee ball when I was 7 but the team was part boys part girls. I was too intimidated to play little league because I would have been on a team of all boys, and I guess at age 8 I was already intimidated of that kind of social interaction. Maybe you're right that a brother would've made me more NT.

 

[ItsOverMan]

During my very first years of life I had an uncle who represented a little of this male figure for me, he was a professional footballer and often brought me to play football when I was 3 years old, I played with him and these friends I was already rather social at my age.

Unfortunately at the age of 4 I went to live with my father and my uncle passed away since that day I never had this male figure to lean on because my father did not really take care of me and I never practiced sports again, I wonder what person I could have become if I had grown up with my uncle and he would not have died. I would probably be a popular footballer having had various romantic relationships and many friends, I could have been more attractive more social more sure of myself and I would have had a halo status because I practice a high-level sport, I would never have been the unathletic and ugly shit that I am today

Sorry about your uncle

 

[megaloser]

can’t relate

 

[Ryo_Hazuki]

Pretty sure this is ragebait. 13 year old me would have wanted to fight you over this post, lol.

But I noticed from a very young age that only children generally had it easier. As a kid I noticed they had nicer clothes and their parents were generally less strict and generally held them to a lower standard. They always had their own bedroom too. Then when they were 18 their parents were much more likely to buy them a car, even if it was a used beater, at least it was something. They were also more likely to go to private school. Their parents were more likely to pay for them to go to college as well. Makes sense though, if you have 4 kids you can't afford to do these things for all of them unless you're rich. Plenty of other advantages too. You actually got to have the house to yourself sometimes. You didn't have to worry about one of your brothers doing something and you getting blamed for it. Then there's the whole inheritance thing. If you're an only child you damn well know you're getting everything, assuming there's anything to get in the first place.

Of course socioeconomic status of your parents matters a lot more, but when it comes to parents of comparable socioeconomic status, only children have it objectively easier.

For what it's worth, I had the worst of all worlds. Poor parents, middle child, bad (not just poor, but also high crime) neighborhood. At one point in my early teens I had to sleep on an inflatable mattress in the dining room because one of my cousins moved in with us and of course she had to have her own bedroom.

 

[GloriousMisanthrope]

Pretty sure this is ragebait. 13 year old me would have wanted to fight you over this post, lol.

But I noticed from a very young age that only children generally had it easier. As a kid I noticed they had nicer clothes and their parents were generally less strict and generally held them to a lower standard. They always had their own bedroom too. Then when they were 18 their parents were much more likely to buy them a car, even if it was a used beater, at least it was something. They were also more likely to go to private school. Their parents were more likely to pay for them to go to college as well. Makes sense though, if you have 4 kids you can't afford to do these things for all of them unless you're rich. Plenty of other advantages too. You actually got to have the house to yourself sometimes. You didn't have to worry about one of your brothers doing something and you getting blamed for it. Then there's the whole inheritance thing. If you're an only child you damn well know you're getting everything, assuming there's anything to get in the first place.

Of course socioeconomic status of your parents matters a lot more, but when it comes to parents of comparable socioeconomic status, only children have it objectively easier.

For what it's worth, I had the worst of all worlds. Poor parents, middle child, bad (not just poor, but also high crime) neighborhood. At one point in my early teens I had to sleep on an inflatable mattress in the dining room because one of my cousins moved in with us and of course she had to have her own bedroom.

Your parents gave a whole bedroom to your cousin while you had to sleep in the dining room? Having siblings really sucks, I was at least lucky on that.

 

[Pikacel]

I feel like if I had a sibling he would've turned out a NT social butterfly extrovert and probably better looking, and would have given my mom grandkids, and therefore my mom would have liked him a lot more (my dad died when I was 10). My mom would've been asking me all the time "Why can't you be more like your brother?"

Brutel

 

[Prophet]

Most only children are children who grow up without guidance and without relying on a particular male figure. Most of them grow up without emotional support and even more so if the parents are distant , They then spend most of their childhood in loneliness and isolation and it gets worse as they grow up if they don't develop enough social skills.

Many people neglect the importance of having siblings for the development of your social abilities during your first years of social development, understanding how to live in the society and not ending in an autistic neurodivergent who does not know how to talk to women or make friends in adulthood.

deeply relatable

 

[TheSlavicCel]

Most only children are children who grow up without guidance and without relying on a particular male figure. Most of them grow up without emotional support and even more so if the parents are distant , They then spend most of their childhood in loneliness and isolation and it gets worse as they grow up if they don't develop enough social skills.

Many people neglect the importance of having siblings for the development of your social abilities during your first years of social development, understanding how to live in the society and not ending in an autistic neurodivergent who does not know how to talk to women or make friends in adulthood.

Im only child raised but single mom

 

[NickelodeonCel]

fakecel trait

 

[NickelodeonCel]

I wish I was a only child.
My sibling only made my life living hell.

 

[saito.]

I wish I was a only child.
My sibling only made my life living hell.

Sorry for You.