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SuicideFuel Trucel Depression: How can you stop feeling depressed if you have no friends?

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If you have no friends, you have no one to emotionally support you except for a therapist that wants to scam you out of your money. :blackpill::cryfeels:
So my chadlite cousin (and one of my best friends) fell sick and has high fever, and he has to submit a project in his college whose deadline is very close. He was extremely stressed out about it on how will he complete. Even i couldn't help because his course is very different from mine.

Eventually his girlfriend offered to help. She stayed awake all night and made the entire project, and made it very beautifully. In her own words, she couldn't see him stressed out like that and it was hurting her a lot.

And this isn't the first time i see them supporting each other. Last semester his girlfriend's mental health dwindled a lot, around the same time her exams were scheduled. She went into severe depression, and here in curryland because of the taboo it carries getting treatment for it is very difficult. As a result she failed her exams. She got depressed even more, locked herself in the toilet and cried a lot. [UWSL]My cousin helped cheer her up by taking her out on shopping and restaurants blowing away his entire pocket money. And sl[/UWSL][UWSL]owly but steadily, pushed her into working harder and harder in college work. Initially he asked her to study with no breaks and no distractions for atleast 30 mins every day, and few weeks later increased it to 1 hour, and 1.5 and so on, and taking her phone away whenever she was studying. [/UWSL]

[UWSL]And because of him, in the reexams she scored very well. She was jumping in happiness hugging him thanking him for all that he did for her. [/UWSL]

Looking at him makes me see for myself how blessed are people who have loyal, loving partners. They always help and support each other, to the best of their abilities. They are always there for each other, to share all good and bad news.

And the only reason why he can be loved, and I can't is because of how our facial bones are arranged :cryfeels::cryfeels: i understand my cousin is a very good friend of mine and he helps me too, but it's different from having a romantic partner.
 
up the copium. since you're a youngcel like me, you can find friends in college :whitepill:
 
Never had true friends so it's easy, i only get depressed when i sit and think/worry about it.
 
up the copium. since you're a youngcel like me, you can find friends in college :whitepill:
Been there, done that. This is a recipe for suicide. This just results in an even more crushing experience because college is even more degenerate and you cant escape the mogging because youre forced to live in a dorm where everyone else is partying and fucking but want nothing to do with. And since you put all of your hope in this one last chance for things to be different you become eveb more despaired and absolutely hopeless.

Better to just hermitmaxx and train yourself to regard NPCs as the sheep they are who provide nothing of value aside from material resources
 
Don’t want friends I enjoy my time alone
 
If you have no friends, you have no one to emotionally support you except for a therapist that wants to scam you out of your money. :blackpill::cryfeels:
Makes friends then.
 
its impossible to not be depressed as a man without access to women. we're biologically hardwired to be that way.

the only thing that keeps me alive is my escort , if i cant afford her anymore or she stops escorting im fucking DONE with this shit.
 
If you have no friends, you have no one to emotionally support you except for a therapist that wants to scam you out of your money. :blackpill::cryfeels:
My (male) theRapist told me that part of the healing process involves me:
-- leaving the house a bit and getting used to meet people and make friends.
-- having healthy relationships with good friends and/or a foid.

I don't disagree with him that my mental health would improve tremendously if I had other people close to me in my life. The problem is that I'm too undesirable, too weird, too autistic for anyone to relate to. I'm also old (37), past the age people form their true friendships, which is usually up to their early 20s.

Normal healthy men are often friendly to me as acquaintances in an isolated situation, such as talking one-to-one on a bus stop, queue, taxi or something, but they don't really need or desire to cultivate a friendship with a sperg such as myself -- this is a waste of time for them, as they have their own normie priorities such as family, work, professional networking, and their actual friends from childhood, adolescence, school, early work etc. who have relatable life experiences (such as family) and are capable of adding value to their lives and are not a creepy recluse weirdo sperg with obscure interests, emotionally immature and psychologically needy.

Foids are disgusted by the sight of a sperg in a matter of milliseconds. The mere sight of me activates their gag reflex. Zero chance.

Therefore I often tell my theRapist that I'd much rather just learn to cope with the loneliness and lovelessness and the fact that I'm an outcast of society because these ideas of forming new connections while being 37 year old sperg don't seem even remotely realistic to me. He nods, expressing he understands, but there isn't really much more he can do other than tell me that the way forward is precisely to form new relationships -- which is true, but I haven't managed to crack it.

Loneliness rots a man, it's a fact, but I can't get out of loneliness because normies are either indifferent or disgusted by me. The problem I have (derpression, alcoholism, PTSD, hopelessness, etc.) is not caused by something is inside my head, it is a consequence of being a mentally ill loner living in a society that abandons me and treat's me like trash. :society:
 
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If you have no friends, you have no one to emotionally support you except for a therapist that wants to scam you out of your money. :blackpill::cryfeels:
How do you quote someone else's writing like this? I can't find the feature to do it
 
Movies, video games and porn
 
you have frens here in the computer :):fuk:
 
Make imaginary friends :feelsLSD:
 
Make imaginary friends :feelsLSD:
I have a lot of imaginary friends and a girlfriend. I am a Chad in my imaginary world and sleep after having sex with her in my imagination :feelsrope:
 
Depression happens when there's not enough neurotransmitters in the brain to keep you motivated and happy. I would try keto diet, I recommend it highly because it made my anxiety go away completely. Carbs make my brain too excited and I become anxious. Keto, meditation and HIIT, those are proven to improve your brain chemistry
 
By trying to clear your mind. Jigsaws are a very good pastime for doing this I find.
 
Depression happens when there's not enough neurotransmitters in the brain to keep you motivated and happy. I would try keto diet, I recommend it highly because it made my anxiety go away completely. Carbs make my brain too excited and I become anxious. Keto, meditation and HIIT, those are proven to improve your brain chemistry
You have friends?
 
i just do my best to not think about it and watch videos and stuff.
 
friends will look down on you and make sure you know that you ar ebeneath them in subtle and overt ways. dont glamorise fuck shit :feelsUgh:
 
Live with your parents? How u cope with loneliness?
I live alone. I very rarely feel lonely, probably because I'm a hermit. I guess you get used to being alone.
 
- music
- this forum
- get a pet (i'm getting a kitten soon)
 
Cope, having friends is bad for your mental health especially if they're Normies/Chads. Imagine, they talk all the time about how many foids they've fucked and where to go on their next date. It would make you just more depressed.
 
I live alone. I very rarely feel lonely, probably because I'm a hermit. I guess you get used to being alone.
True, after a while you'll get used to it. I don't care about friends tbh. If I feel lonely It's because of foid
 
I hate being lonely because I feel it all the time. Then again I hate retard normies.


Someone that is considered officially retarded is someone with an IQ of 70 which is two standard deviations below the norm (100).
As someone with an IQ of 129, most people come off as retarded to me because its 2 standard deviations above the norm (100).
 
therapist that wants to scam you out of your money. :blackpill:
True,therapy is waste of time and shekels.
The best therapy is staying in your room 24/7,that will make you acclimated to loneliness and ease the suffering.
 
I have no online friends or real friends. I have stopped caring:feelsautistic::feelsautistic:
 
No friends also means no obligations.
 
I used to have a friend at work, he was a Normie who was fun to hang out with. Lately, I have been talking to another Normie who like anime and video games.
 
How do you quote someone else's writing like this? I can't find the feature to do it
It’s to the left of reply button, alternatively, you can click reply to a thread/post, go turn on BB code, and copy the code.
 
What matters is having a girlfriend, but i still wish a group of friends, a selective one, a special, idealized one
 
Friends are useless. You need physical and emotional intimacy. For that, you need a girlfriend.
 
It's worse having friends then losing them. I've found that feeling much harder. Now I have a cat and that helps.

Therapy was OK when I tried it but the foid couldn't relate to my struggles as an incel. Bringing up the blackpill made her looked worried so I stopped doing that.
 
No one wants to be my friend. :cryfeels:
You can find other friendless autists who don't care. If you can't do that, live a lifestyle as solitary as possible so you don't even have to lay eyes on humans. that will boost your mood.:society:
 
What matters is having a girlfriend, but i still wish a group of friends, a selective one, a special, idealized one
But you would probably need friends in order to get a girlfriend, most foids would find it a huge turnoff if you don't have any regardless if you a genuinely a nice guy
 
If you have a family tht doesn't hate u, then that's probably the next best thing
 
Tulpa-maxing. But be warned, you’ll have times where it won’t be enough
 

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