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Blackpill Treating inceldom with bluepill advice is like treating an fracture with aspirine

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Before I start, I make it clear that it is a real outburst. Probably no one will read, but I'm happy to let it out anyway.

Normies and foids believe that advice to normal "be yourself", "go out with friends", "improve your mood" and others would be enough to help incels, and clearly get annoyed when incels ignore such advice and even mock the counselors. And the hatred against incels reaches such grotesque levels that these normies do not realize the stupidity of their advice and how to deal with the inceldom problem.

First, it is extremely unproductive to try to deal with a problem without knowing what you are dealing with. Normies fail here miserably because they do not seek to properly inform themselves about what problems lead a man to inceldom.

Due to the little experience that I, an incel, had in contact with other incels and blackpill, inceldom is the result of a number of factors combined, such as a shapeless appearance, a troubled family, severe bullying from teachers, standards of growing beauty and highly exclusionary, among others.

I myself have been bullied both by schoolmates and neighbors and even by my brothers and my father. It is no wonder that today I carry a certain aversion to them all and try to keep my distance. Even in my work I have been bullied by colleagues and even by clients, even though I always strive to improve the workplace climate and seek results for the company.

Secondly, once you know the problem, it is highly unproductive to try to deal with it without using proper tools. Putting fire out of flammable liquids with water is stupid. Likewise, believing that an ugly autistic person who has been bullied will find a girlfriend simply taking a shower, dressing in cool clothes, and attending nightclubs is utterly stupid that verges on dementia. That won't work with this guy in a thousand years, and even a monkey would come to that conclusion.

Similarly, someone with such a deformed face that makes him indistinguishable from a monster will not find a girlfriend before fixing this face, no matter how hard he tries. This is not a problem of degree of effort, but a fundamental question that precedes any attitude.

And thirdly, it's a complete stupidity to believe that you have the ultimate solution to all incels. Each incel has its own set of problems, each with a possible solution (or not) and each incel with its own way of dealing with its problems and finally abandoning the inceldom. If there is any solution to my case (which I don't think there is), it will only apply to me, and it will be useless for any other incel. And that makes the fight to get out of inceldom so frustrating, because no incel will find its way out of the dark by studying the case of other ex-incels. To paraphrase the mgtow, each will have to find its own way (and if there is any way).

I believe no normie will read this text. There is no misogyny, racism, hate speech and other things to mock incels and defame them. But I'm still glad I vented.
 
Plato IQ, I especially like the title
 
Except treating fractures with aspirine is more effective than giving bluepilled advices
 
People should at the very least be honest. I'd rather have a doctor tell me "I don't know how to cure you, it's over" than making me lose my time and money with some bullshit that doesn't help at all.
 
You are speaking the holy word. If only people would take time to understand things, just a little bit, it would help them to see things how they really are.

I dont waste my time talking to or reading anything by normies or foids. Like you say, they completely lack any type of understanding about incels, or any issue for that matter. They talk about everything as if they are experts.

“The solution to school shootings is to....”

“The way to stop racism is to...”

“The way to stop bullying in schools is...”

They talk about whatever problems that are big in the media, because they are too stupid to know about anything that is not shoved in their face by an outside source. When they hear their friends say “incels are stinky misogynistic hateful virgin losers!:soy:” they just accept that as the truth.

When you talk to these people, its worse than talking to a monkey. I really mean that, it is no exaggeration. If i give a monkey a jar with food in it, he will examine it and test out multiple solutions until he finds that you have to unscrew the lid. He will use all of his reasoning and logical faculties when he is faced with a problem. When a normie or a foid is presented with a problem, they do not examine it, they do not think about it, they don't even do the most basic examination. They take one look and say “I KNOW WHY, THIS IS THE PROBLEM!!” Some combination of attention whoring, inflated ego, and social validation is what drives them. They do not think, they do not reason, they just react.

I wish that we could explain things to people, in a straightforward and logical way, and that they would at least try to understand it. But they don't. It wouldn't matter if they read one sentence or a whole novel, they will always react the same.

I wish you the best brother, you are obviously smart, and I hope you can use that to make things better for yourself, at least as good as things can be in this clown world.
 
At least Aspirin would dull the pain a little.

Bluepill advice is more like homeopathy: delusional bullshit that could only provide a placebo effect for people who already believe it
 
literally no one cares about incels suffering. not your freinds, family or anyone else
shut up and pay your taxes to sex havers!
 
Plato IQ, I especially like the title
Thanks bro
You are speaking the holy word. If only people would take time to understand things, just a little bit, it would help them to see things how they really are.

I dont waste my time talking to or reading anything by normies or foids. Like you say, they completely lack any type of understanding about incels, or any issue for that matter. They talk about everything as if they are experts.

“The solution to school shootings is to....”

“The way to stop racism is to...”

“The way to stop bullying in schools is...”

They talk about whatever problems that are big in the media, because they are too stupid to know about anything that is not shoved in their face by an outside source. When they hear their friends say “incels are stinky misogynistic hateful virgin losers!:soy:” they just accept that as the truth.

When you talk to these people, its worse than talking to a monkey. I really mean that, it is no exaggeration. If i give a monkey a jar with food in it, he will examine it and test out multiple solutions until he finds that you have to unscrew the lid. He will use all of his reasoning and logical faculties when he is faced with a problem. When a normie or a foid is presented with a problem, they do not examine it, they do not think about it, they don't even do the most basic examination. They take one look and say “I KNOW WHY, THIS IS THE PROBLEM!!” Some combination of attention whoring, inflated ego, and social validation is what drives them. They do not think, they do not reason, they just react.

I wish that we could explain things to people, in a straightforward and logical way, and that they would at least try to understand it. But they don't. It wouldn't matter if they read one sentence or a whole novel, they will always react the same.

I wish you the best brother, you are obviously smart, and I hope you can use that to make things better for yourself, at least as good as things can be in this clown world.
I also Will Hope you can find your way, bro. No one care about us, but I am happy because this forum exists.
 

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