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I (28M) got married to my wife (25F) last 2 years and recently she confess saying she wasn't a virgin when I married her. She doesn't want to keep it secret from me as she feels it's a betrayal.
The moment she did, I've made my mind on divorcing her cuz virginity is a deal breaker for me. Am not trying to make a rash judgement rightnow so I can assess the situation pragmatically. Although am certain, that's the end of our relationship.. We have a 1 year old kid which makes the scenario more complicated.
Ever since my wife's confession, I've lost both love and bedroom responds towards her (even though she's a lady you'll consider a 9 or 10) which was what made me proceeded my decision.
My wife is very understanding of the situation and although she's sad with my verdict, she understood the magnitude of such act, I explained to her no marriage should be build with a weak foundation. Lies, Unchastity and deceive are all remedy to failure and disaster.
She wanted to remain in the house with me till her 3 months Idah period elapses. I've decided I will gift the big house to her since she has our son to raise as well. She has a decent job although I make a lot to support the entire family as the breadwinner.
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/MuslimMarriage/comments/yyqwh9/mym28_wife25_confess_she_had_a_past/?utm_source=embedv2&utm_medium=post_embed&utm_content=post_body
The moment she did, I've made my mind on divorcing her cuz virginity is a deal breaker for me. Am not trying to make a rash judgement rightnow so I can assess the situation pragmatically. Although am certain, that's the end of our relationship.. We have a 1 year old kid which makes the scenario more complicated.
Ever since my wife's confession, I've lost both love and bedroom responds towards her (even though she's a lady you'll consider a 9 or 10) which was what made me proceeded my decision.
My wife is very understanding of the situation and although she's sad with my verdict, she understood the magnitude of such act, I explained to her no marriage should be build with a weak foundation. Lies, Unchastity and deceive are all remedy to failure and disaster.
She wanted to remain in the house with me till her 3 months Idah period elapses. I've decided I will gift the big house to her since she has our son to raise as well. She has a decent job although I make a lot to support the entire family as the breadwinner.
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/MuslimMarriage/comments/yyqwh9/mym28_wife25_confess_she_had_a_past/?utm_source=embedv2&utm_medium=post_embed&utm_content=post_body