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Tomorrow I turn 30 officially. Mom asked what I've done to "fix my situation"

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fix my situation = not be single anymore

I told her some nasty stuff happened this year.

I will never tell her about the mission because she won't understand.

She will say I am an idiot.

I will just make up something or simply tell her only about the dates rather than the whole thing.
 
unleash your power level on her. Let her know what kind of a person she's brought into this world, and how said person is perceived by the very sex she's part of
 
If I ever reach 30 and I’m still a virgin I’m roping
 
K1p9eb5nk7x11
At least you're not a soycuck
 
"So, my lovely son, what have done so far to fix your situation?"

"Oh, you know, mom, not much. I asked out 1000 girls..."
 
Please tell her and let us know her reaction lol.
 
my mother stopped asking.
just make it clear that you don't appreciate the question
 
My mom told me something similar when I turned 30. Told her she gave me the ugly and that women don't give a fuck about ugly guys.
She never asked again.
 
My parents don't even ask, deep down I think they know.
 
My parents don't even ask
My mother asked around 2 days ago. I told her i want to stay alone lmao. Which isn't that far from the truth.
 
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You joining wizarddom? Only answer my post if the answer is "yes". If it's a "no" just ignore me, because if you say "no", people will say that means you are saying you got laid before and thus are bragging ...

Tricky world we live in ...
 
My mom told me something similar when I turned 30. Told her she gave me the ugly and that women don't give a fuck about ugly guys.
She never asked again.
based
 
My mother asked around 2 days ago. I told her i want to stay alone lmao. Which isn't that far from the truth.
I’m slowly transitioning from incel to volcel. I think that’s a good thing tbh.

The posionous nature of women has turned me off.
 
Noticed you:

Just broke 3,000 posts
Just broke 1,000 approaches
Just broke 30 years old

You're all about the milestones for this birthday. Have a good one. You earned it.
 
My mother asked around 2 day ago. I told her i want to stay alone lmao. Which isn't that far from the truth.

If my mom asked me I'd tell her the same thing, they wouldn't understand otherwise, just let them believe I have a choice in the matter.
 
If my mom asked me I'd tell her the same thing, they wouldn't understand otherwise, just let them believe I have a choice in the matter.

Much better to blackpill them. It took a lot of work but I blackpilled my mom and now she has no expectations for me.

Caveat is you can't be reliant on your parents while you're blackpilling them. They will use that against you eg. if you live with them. But if you are independent, they will have no leverage over you when they start disliking the things you are saying. They can only either listen or leave you alone - both of which work in their own ways.
 
If only she knew of the great lengths you went to during your appraochmaxxing journey
 
As a 33, nearly 34-year-old incel, I have tried to get through to my mom numerous times.

As of late, she has been recommending therapyyyyy because "you're so down on yourself." But as I pointed out, telling me I'm "down on myself" is an indirect admission that what I just said about myself is true...otherwise she would have denied it.

I mean, foids have no problems lying/denying shit anyway...so for her to not even bother denying it means she really knows it's true to the point where she can't even bring herself to lie about it.
 
I’m slowly transitioning from incel to volcel. I think that’s a good thing tbh.

The posionous nature of women has turned me off.
inb4 a woman shows you any affection and you instantly fall in love jfl
 
Tell her you tried with 1000 girls, and record it for us
 
I’m slowly transitioning from incel to volcel. I think that’s a good thing tbh.

The posionous nature of women has turned me off.
Same here, mate. If I was 100% beta and willing to please the shit out of a woman and do whatever she wants I might have gotten like a 4/10 gf by now. Inb4 :chad:
Anyways I really don't want to deal with a woman's bullcrap, they are only sweet and interesting for actual Chad.
 
inb4 a woman shows you any affection and you instantly fall in love jfl
No man. I can say for sure that I am blackpilled. If a woman shows me affection I would be thrilled but everything I’ve learned would be drilled into the back of my head. My feelings probably wouldn’t last for long tbh..
 
No man. I can say for sure that I am blackpilled. If a woman shows me affection I would be thrilled but everything I’ve learned would be drilled into the back of my head. My feelings probably wouldn’t last for long tbh..
Oh well, you and I will probably never have to worry about it anyway. I’ll never betabux, so female affection is never something I will experience outside of the fake acting of escorts.
 
At this point blackpill your mom.
 
Please tell her and let us know her reaction lol.

This needs to happen, @uninstall, you already tried and it didn't work, there is nothing to hide as there is nothing more noteworthy than you trying your best and failing, maybe she was blackpilled and always knew
 
fix my situation = not be single anymore

I told her some nasty stuff happened this year.

I will never tell her about the mission because she won't understand.

She will say I am an idiot.

I will just make up something or simply tell her only about the dates rather than the whole thing.
I would have said to her if you want me having a girlfriend so bad than hire an escort for me. That would shut her up.
 
Congrats in advance boyo.

I turned 30 this year too.
 
Much better to blackpill them. It took a lot of work but I blackpilled my mom and now she has no expectations for me.

Caveat is you can't be reliant on your parents while you're blackpilling them. They will use that against you eg. if you live with them. But if you are independent, they will have no leverage over you when they start disliking the things you are saying. They can only either listen or leave you alone - both of which work in their own ways.
Thing is: I don't think most moms are able to take a blackpill
 
Thing is: I don't think most moms are able to take a blackpill

Of course they can. They were women long before they became moms. They have all the elements of the blackpil built into their genetics. They know it is true. It just takes some work and patience to deprogram them back to that basic level.

Moms add an extra layer of beliefs on top of their blackpill basics that are essentially "my son is special so he is DIFFERENT". They also usually grew up in a generation where looks were less important and being a good provider mattered more. Plus women didn't used to hate ethnics as much back then.

I showed my mom the graph in my signature. I showed her other stats like from OK Cupid. I sent her long blackpilled emails. I had blackpill conversations. It took a lot of work but eventually she came to understand that how she sees me is not how a modern woman will see me, and yes, I am majorly disadvantaged.

She even apologized to me for picking my dad as my father, which is fundamentally meaningless because if she picked someone else I wouldnt exist at all, but I understood the sentiment she was trying to express.
 
See you the day after you reach 30.

Yeah it's really not that big a deal in the end. A year of coping in your thirties feels no different than a year of coping in your teens or twenties. Life never changes much except you look older in the mirror which is obviously no fun but really doesn't matter either since your appearance has never been good enough anyway.
 
Of course they can. They were women long before they became moms. They have all the elements of the blackpil built into their genetics. They know it is true. It just takes some work and patience to deprogram them back to that basic level.

Moms add an extra layer of beliefs on top of their blackpill basics that are essentially "my son is special so he is DIFFERENT". They also usually grew up in a generation where looks were less important and being a good provider mattered more. Plus women didn't used to hate ethnics as much back then.

I showed my mom the graph in my signature. I showed her other stats like from OK Cupid. I sent her long blackpilled emails. I had blackpill conversations. It took a lot of work but eventually she came to understand that how she sees me is not how a modern woman will see me, and yes, I am majorly disadvantaged.

She even apologized to me for picking my dad as my father, which is fundamentally meaningless because if she picked someone else I wouldnt exist at all, but I understood the sentiment she was trying to express.
Damn, that's as bit impressive, because of how far you went to blackpill her, as it is sad. Having to apologize for choosing your dad as your dad... man, that's harsh

But you actually got me thinking about something: isn't it ironic how the previous generation fucked us over? They thought a lot less about looks, so some people absolutely wasted their genetics with a sub5 partner, only for their kids to grow up as sub5 as well. Thing is: looks matter so much more now. Essentially, they made us ugly, but created a new generation that started actually caring about how we look. They pretty much created Incels
 
Damn, that's as bit impressive, because of how far you went to blackpill her, as it is sad. Having to apologize for choosing your dad as your dad... man, that's harsh

But you actually got me thinking about something: isn't it ironic how the previous generation fucked us over? They thought a lot less about looks, so some people absolutely wasted their genetics with a sub5 partner, only for their kids to grow up as sub5 as well. Thing is: looks matter so much more now. Essentially, they made us ugly, but created a new generation that started actually caring about how we look. They pretty much created Incels

Yeah it's kind of fucked up. The previous generation acted more the way we want women to act now and in the process created us. Eg. My mom picked my dad because he was a good and stable provider who deeply cared about her. And thus I was created.

It's not really our parents' fault. No one could have reasonably anticipated the degree to which the culture would change and male appearance/height/race would become so critical. I never would have expected this 10-20 years ago. I thought the world would become less racist over time not more. It's crazy really.

As for my mom's apology, I didn't ask for it or really want it since it doesn't matter and I don't blame her for that. She was doing what she thought was right. But yeah I think it pretty clearly indicates that she "got it" by the end.
 
You gonna be a wizard too bro'? It sucks we don't get powers like in hentai.
 
My mom told me something similar when I turned 30. Told her she gave me the ugly and that women don't give a fuck about ugly guys.
She never asked again.
This works after the few futile attempts she'll give saying you're not ugly, she thinks you're handsome, etc...
 

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