to approach a foid or not.

[oliverbarefoot]

Option a) i get over my extreme fear of talking to people and approach a toilet and try my wee hardest to sound somewhat normal .maybe she'll pity me and give me a chance?

However, one MASSIVE con of making the first move is that it makes you look needy', desperate, and somewhat of a loser. All while giving the foid in question a huge ego boost.


Option second would be i wait for a roastie to approach me.... could happen tomorrow for all i know or never .

I don't think my looks can improve anymore than it already has . Time is running out. Fuck. Idk. What to do bros

 

[caninemane60]

I would approach a girl, but im scared of how awkward that situation would be. So if you dont care about getting embarassed and making her uncomfortable do it

 

[oliverbarefoot]

I would approach a girl, but im scared of how awkward that situation would be. So if you dont care about getting embarassed and making her uncomfortable do it

How many foids have you approached bro

 

[Mecoja]

Do you have specific foid in mind or a random one? Cold approaching a foid you dont know cant work no chance, you could do an friendly approach and see how she reacts to you.

 

[oliverbarefoot]

Do you have specific foid in mind or a random one? Cold approaching a foid you dont know cant work no chance, you could do an friendly approach and see how she reacts to you.

I don't know any people so warm approaching is not a possibility sadly
Can you elaborate on the friendly approach

 

[Ellsworth]

Do you have specific foid in mind or a random one? Cold approaching a foid you dont know cant work no chance, you could do an friendly approach and see how she reacts to you.

Correct cold approach is retarded for incels. Even a poor technique for normies. Always establish some sort of base relationship before asking for a date.

 

[Deleted member 3129]

I don't know any people so warm approaching is not a possibility sadly
Can you elaborate on the friendly approach

just LDAR man, nothing good will come from this, if u got no friends u are non-NT, and if u arent very good-looking zero chance.

 

[oliverbarefoot]

Correct cold approach is retarded for incels. Even a poor technique for normies. Always establish some sort of base relationship before asking for a date.

Again what do y'all mean by "establishing base relationship"
Like if I see a foid at the mall instead of asking her out on a date right away, i should chit chat with her , maybe get the number and stuff?

 

[Mecoja]

I don't know any people so warm approaching is not a possibility sadly
Can you elaborate on the friendly approach

Correct cold approach is retarded for incels. Even a poor technique for normies. Always establish some sort of base relationship before asking for a date.

This, if she doesnt know you, straight up asking her out on date wont work, try getting in her social circle or do like friendly approach, basic chit chat, talking about mundane things etc just to see how she reacts to you.

 

[oliverbarefoot]

just LDAR man, nothing good will come from this, if u got no friends u are non-NT, and if u arent very good-looking zero chance.

I think i look better than most people
But that could just be one of my many delusions

But I'm non nt to the core. So much so that i feel shy even talking to my brother / parents .

 

[Cristo]

Foids do enjoy being chased and desired by guys (Chads) they like.

 

[caninemane60]

How many foids have you approached bro

I tried once 3 years ago and got called creepy

 

[Valiant Virgin]

Depends on what you're looking to get out of it. If it's just to overcome your fear of talking to people, it should definitely help with that, especially if you've never done anything as 'out there' as approaching a random girl, which I'm guessing you haven't. If you're looking for a girlfriend, it's extremely unlikely you'll get one doing this.

 

[Deleted member 34664]

Cold approaching a foid you dont know cant work no chance, you could do an friendly approach and see how she reacts to you.

actually true, cold approach only works if you're very good looking and have a nice body. Better to approach a woman you already kinda know if you want at least a chance

 

[Saint Cho]

Approaching is cope because women make it blatantly obvious when they're into a guy. No choosing signals = Over.

 

[Deleted member 36576]

Approaching is mostly stupid. Cold approach is pretty dumb, this guy said it pretty well:

Depends on what you're looking to get out of it. If it's just to overcome your fear of talking to people, it should definitely help with that, especially if you've never done anything as 'out there' as approaching a random girl, which I'm guessing you haven't. If you're looking for a girlfriend, it's extremely unlikely you'll get one doing this.

This site is not good for dating advice for obvious reasons, but if you want it I think redpill content is mostly ok on this front if you know how to sift through the bullshit.

 

[jerkjocky]

no point approaching women that don't want to be approached by you. 3rd world maxx is pretty much the only time you can approach. in 1st world countries all you can do jerk your cock off to porn and pay for hookers

 

[Indari]

Depends on what you're looking to get out of it. If it's just to overcome your fear of talking to people, it should definitely help with that, especially if you've never done anything as 'out there' as approaching a random girl, which I'm guessing you haven't. If you're looking for a girlfriend, it's extremely unlikely you'll get one doing this.

FUCK YOU!! FUCK YOU!!!

 

[Biocel]

Approaching is cope because women make it blatantly obvious when they're into a guy. No choosing signals = Over.

Yeah

 

[CarcassFramework]

Don't ever bother trying to approach a woman that's not your friend. It won't work and all you're doing is making yourself look desperate and creepy. Bonus menace points if you are under six feet/ugly. The only chance you really have is with a female 'friend' that you've known.

 

[Deleted member 41988]

I would approach a girl, but im scared of how awkward that situation would be. So if you dont care about getting embarassed and making her uncomfortable do it

 

[Sennacherib]

What to do bros

If you're a truecel it's a waste of time to approach toilets,you only boost the toilets ego.
If you're a fakecel then gtfoh, idgaf about you.

 

[CopeKeith]

Option a) i get over my extreme fear of talking to people and approach a toilet and try my wee hardest to sound somewhat normal .maybe she'll pity me and give me a chance?

However, one MASSIVE con of making the first move is that it makes you look needy', desperate, and somewhat of a loser. All while giving the foid in question a huge ego boost.


Option second would be i wait for a roastie to approach me.... could happen tomorrow for all i know or never .

I don't think my looks can improve anymore than it already has . Time is running out. Fuck. Idk. What to do bros

I'm literally in the same position. Trying to break awkward silence with a girl I see for literally 1 minute before work...I sound delusional but I haven't spoken to anyone new in years.