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Serious Tips on getting rid of oneitis?

iamsubhuman

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Been trying to focus on my job and vidya and avoid checking out her instagram. Any more tips on helping me forget? Do I just have to give it time and not "relapse" or something?
 
I've realized that I have no ability to get over my memories of group therapy.

As such, I distract myself by focusing my energy on things I enjoy: Research and fantasizing.

This site becomes much more pleasant to use when I don't mention Justus Grossbier's oneitis' name.
 
easy all you gotta do is fuck other women bro, that should get rid of oneitis :feelsLSD::feelsLSD:
 
watch some blackpill compilations on youtube to remind yourself that foids really are all the same
 
Been trying to focus on my job and vidya and avoid checking out her instagram. Any more tips on helping me forget? Do I just have to give it time and not "relapse" or something?
ffm hentai only
 
It has never been an issue for me because I know how much women are manipulative (based on my sibling). I would not touch a real women with a 10 foot pole. There is nothing for you, its just a deceiving human shell with a black pit under.
 
easy all you gotta do is fuck other women bro, that should get rid of oneitis :feelsLSD::feelsLSD:
it's funny when you search up something like "how to get rid of oneitis" on google, that's usually the first result
 
Don't. You're meant to be together
 
realize that she's a roastie whore whos only use is fap material
 
I'm so aware that it's over that I don't feel anymore
 
you never really get over it

you will still have preference for her looks

it is like chads that took teens virginities
 
not really much of a drug user.
@nicokush420 your thoughts?
I would not smoke if its to forget someone you dont even smoke it only helps if you smoke the ganja daily and use as your source of coping but yeah dont bother would just make you overthink shit :smonk::smonk::smonk:

do a gram of fentanyl you will forget her :feelskek::feelsdevil::feelsdevil:
 
aversion therapy, whenever you find yourself thinking about her, just imagine her taking a smelly shit or getting fat and old
 
Imagine how she would reject you if you asked her out. Corollary, if you think you have a chance then go ahead and ask her out.
 
There is no way other than getting her to reject you or applying some other dead-end procedure. If you were giga-obsessed like me and had feelings you had no control over it’s best doing away with all possible ways of contact that could lead to ascension with her (if you were chad obviously). After all the feelings will always be there, you didn’t ask for them in the first place, and if it’s already involuntarily taking control over your life there is no other way than going straight for the root of the problem. It’s best you do this as soon as possible because as an incel a oneitis is only cuckery.

Personally what I did was remove her on snap after she sent me a humiliating and sluttish snap which I am not sure she meant. At that point I had already learned somehow that she had a boyfriend. That was the breaking point. I had no intent on voluntarily making a clown of myself aimlessly chasing a girl which couldn’t care less about me, I felt it was incredibly disrespectful how I had such intense feelings for her but it was bound to never be reprociated. I was already intending to give it up at that point. All it took was removing her after the salt on the wound snap and she was gone from my mind. Make a move, and couple it with the thought that you are done with her. The more you fantasize the more you lose. It’s important during this you also remind yourself that you could never be with her. She doesn’t want you.bMake use of all the blackpills you swallowed, it applies if not even more strongly here.
Imagine how she would reject you if you asked her out. Corollary, if you think you have a chance then go ahead and ask her out.
yeah, i already asked her out and she rejected me

i'm so starved of affection that the few times she was kind, i developed an obsession. fuck that bitch, wish she got out of my mind.
 
Why would you care about a foid that doesn’t care about you?
 
yeah, i already asked her out and she rejected me

i'm so starved of affection that the few times she was kind, i developed an obsession. fuck that bitch, wish she got out of my mind.
Kudos to you for having the balls to ask her out. Since she rejected you then fuck her, she can piss off. Find another girl to take interest in, assuming you haven’t given up.
 
Kudos to you for having the balls to ask her out. Since she rejected you then fuck her, she can piss off. Find another girl to take interest in, assuming you haven’t given up.
i'll likely get rejected by another foid that i'm interested in :feelskek:

but anyway, it's not that i have truly given up, but my life mainly consists of going to work, coming home, playing vidya/being on this forum/jacking off, sleep, repeat. i don't really meet any women now compared to high school. maybe i'll eventually forget after some more time. i guess if i go to college, i'll find another interest.

still, me being 5'4 and ugly, i'm pretty fucked.
 
realize that she sees you as a worthless piece of dogshit that should be tortured then gassed :feelsaww: that she would rather crawl through broken glass than touch you or god forbid kiss you :feelsaww: then coom and go to sleep :feelscomfy:
 
-embrace the darkness: blackpill overdosis isn't a coping mechanism. it will numb your mind and make you forget you even had feelings. so instead of just suffering you will have despair and rage all the time. watching blackpill content, conversation and chat with incels online and rotting will be a lifestyle that numbs both your mind and feelings to the point that benefitial cope to such problems would be deemed an unnecessary asset, don't forget that you can find joy in the smallest things or changes you do, even this life which others deem miserable may bring some joy or relief, having to know that you are unable to do or change anything.


-coom everyday. after a while your mind will get bored of cooming to her and find other coom material and kind of ease some of the oneitis thinking.


-let time handles it: as time flows a lot of things can change, including your feelings towards certain femoids. your desperation will eventually turn into a realization that you was never even enough to have her in your imagination, not even close.
 
I've been struggling too. I just watch blackpill clips to remind myself of reality. If she really cared about you she would have been talking to you. Best to move on and block her.
 
Aggressive masturbation or visiting a whore.
 
Wank like there's no tomorrow in addition to accumulating alot of copes.

watch some blackpill compilations on youtube to remind yourself that foids really are all the same
Yep that's a good one.
 
Ask her to see her boyfriend that'll kill your interest in her in my experience.
 
Idk man. I just don’t have any romantic feelings for any girls I see. I used to have problems like this but it just went away. Nowadays it never happens:fuk:
 
Been trying to focus on my job and vidya and avoid checking out her instagram. Any more tips on helping me forget? Do I just have to give it time and not "relapse" or something?
Escorting. Duh :smonk:
 
you forget it by taking the blackpill. You still haven't swallowed it.
 
Wizard here. :feelsmage:

You don't forget your oneitis, any of them. I still remember all of my oneitises, and they all rejected me.

7th grade: A Filipino foid
8th grade: Another Filipino foid, and a Latina foid (students were seriously dating at that age)
9th grade: Foid in my math class
10th grade: A bug-eyed biracial foid with a nice ass
11th grade: A foid who looked like Miley Cyrus
12th grade: The same Miley Cyrus-looking foid

Freshman year of college: I was just concerned about partying tbh
Sophomore year of college: A foid I met at my job (she rejected me over Facebook chat, awkward af when I saw her at work), and a Ukrainian foid I met in my Philosophy class (she rejected me).

After that I dropped out of college (I'm back in school now, by the grace of Allah).

You don't forget them. You just grow older.
 

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