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Tinder advises men to not look too attractive in profile pics
The best you can be may be the worst thing you can do when it comes to dating online. In a recent interview, Tinder’s sociologist Jessica Carbino explained how men looking too attractive on profile pictures deters women.

Carbino says her time at Tinder has shown her men and women swipe left and right for completely divergent reasons. “Women, according to my dissertation, are less likely to respond to messages from men who are incredibly attractive,” Carbino says in her Fast Company interview. But, she offers some sage advice to prevent this from happening. “We tell our users, mainly men, that they shouldn’t upload head shots.”

The idea of being incredibly attractive being a deterrent on a dating app seems incongruous with a dating platform where you swipe a picture and make a connection, but it makes sense. Carbino explains, “Women associate attractiveness with negative characteristics like arrogance and narcissism.” This thinking falls in line with recent findings from a July study from researchers at the University of Iowa that found people who choose to showcase their most flattering pictures were perceived as arrogant and untrustworthy.

Later in the interview, Carbino revealed that 80 percent of Tinder users are looking for a relationship beyond a one-night hookup. So, the discovery process may be quick, but the relationships are not.

Carbino admits her job as Tinder’s sociologist sometimes involves analyzing thousands of photographs to understand how people present themselves, but the findings do offer some intriguing insights. A few findings that Carbino found to be counterintuitive centered around people’s tendency to downplay themselves when, in fact, they were promoting themselves as potential dates.

“Approximately 72 percent of our users present themselves wearing very muted colors rather than a bold color,” which Carbino suggests would stand out more. Carbino also advises users to not load group pictures on dating sites, to make sure your date is thinking about you and not your hot friends.

With 15 percent of U.S. adults engaged in online dating, it might be time to freshen up on your Tinder etiquette.

Link to the article.
 
I lol'd. Tinder is all looks what is this "expert" talking about? Brb uploading my profile pic on tinder "don't look too attractive" they said.
 
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“Women, according to my dissertation, are less likely to respond to messages from men who are incredibly attractive,” Carbino says in her Fast Company interview. But, she offers some sage advice to prevent this from happening. “We tell our users, mainly men, that they shouldn’t upload head shots.”

>tfw 11/10 Gigachad mentalcel whose only mistake was using head shots because he has no friends :feelsohh:
 
makes sense. I don´t get matches because I look too attractive.
 
That's the biggest load of shit ever written, ever. I think the whore who wrote this shit needs a dump taken on her chest. Anyway, way to write an article persuasively, and NOT include a single fucking example of these so called "not attractive" men that gets the tinder bitches.

You know why it's not there??

Because this article is a lie, and my bullshit detector is working like my dick on nofap.
 
That's the biggest load of shit ever written, ever. I think the whore who wrote this shit needs a dump taken on her chest. Anyway, way to write an article persuasively, and NOT include a single fucking example of these so called "not attractive" men that gets the tinder bitches.

You know why it's not there??

Because this article is a lie, and my bullshit detector is working like my dick on nofap.
I lol'd. Tinder is all looks what is this "expert" talking about? Brb uploading my profile pic on tinder "don't look too attractive" they said.
 
Kek, it's exactly what I thought is happening, all sub 8 males are giving up on tinder. Just go to tinder/okcupid subs on reddit. Hundreds of posters are complaining they are not getting any match/reply after trying over the years. I am sure their user base is shrinking, because it's bound to shrink. All these dating apps are nothing but chad's electronic portable harems. They pulled out this bs from their ass in order to save their business.
 
Here’s another example of women only being able to perceive attractive men. Only the top 20% of men are attractive to women so this is hardly an issue since majority of the male user base is AVERAGE looking. I bet this article is written because men are waking up, and knowing about female hupergamy, are deleting this app in droves. This article is basically trying to get back as many bluepilled cucks as they can to pump those stats up
 
Here’s another example of women only being able to perceive attractive men. Only the top 20% of men are attractive to women so this is hardly an issue since majority of the male user base is AVERAGE looking. I bet this article is written because men are waking up, and knowing about female hupergamy, are deleting this app in droves. This article is basically trying to get back as many bluepilled cucks as they can to pump those stats up
Just went to the tinder sub in reddit and all i see is guys bragging, one having 700 matches, and girls posting guys theg matched, 0 complaint in the front page
 
Just went to the tinder sub in reddit and all i see is guys bragging, one having 700 matches, and girls posting guys theg matched, 0 complaint in the front page
The front page usually shows only the most popular posts which is a compilation of successful posts. The ones that have issues hardly ever get brought up due to the opposite culture that tinder has cultivated. I urge you to google up the ones that do have issues and you’ll see pages of men having the same issue where they hardly get anything.
 
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Just went to the tinder sub in reddit and all i see is guys bragging, one having 700 matches, and girls posting guys theg matched, 0 complaint in the front page

Count on the fucking Rational fucking Redditor to exaggerate his success by two powers of ten. Numales are conceited about absolutely everything, but only some are aware that they have to fabricate things in order to impress. "Just Incel Things" tried to stun me with the power of personaliteehee by saying he got about 10 matches in the first week (inclusive of boost period) of using the app.
 
The front page usually shows only the most popular posts which is a compilation of successful posts. The ones that have issues hardly ever get brought up due to the opposite culture that tinder has cultivated. I urge you to google up the ones that do have issues and you’ll see pages of men having the same issue where they hardly get anything.

But thastill means the manjority of guys there have good experiences with Tinder, else why would they upvote those posts and downvote negative posts.

Obviously there are men having 0 matches talking about it, it's not like we don't already know that, but they are not a majority in reddit like you made it sound
 
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But thastill means the manjority of guys there have good experiences with Tinder, else why would they upvote those posts and downvote negative posts.
First what makes something successful needs to be defined. A 7/10 guy slaying 2/10 foids is hardly success. Since tinder is looks first and coupled with female hypergamy, I believe that this is the case on average where men are NOT getting their looksmatch.

Second, there’s also the investment that people put into tinder. Maybe it’s not money, although some do pay, but it’s for sure time and ego. To make a net positive investment the cuck has to believe that the steps he’s doing is correct and that success (real success from point 1) is achievable. So his time is already spent therefore he stays. Next is his ego. Most bluepilled cucks thinks that being average is enough to pull in mad pussy, but in a tinder model where looks is first, it is incorrect to think that. There’s two options for he can stay and think that it’s bound to happen sooner or later and it’s tinder that’s wrong OR admit that he’s not good enough and leave on a bad investment shattering his ego and wasting his time. Well knowing that majority of people are not blackpilled he chooses the first.

This brings us back into why the upvotes. This is because to perpetuate the idea that tinder game does work for these cucks (coping) and to delude themselves that they made a good investment they pick on one example of it working (usually with chad) and use that as a frame of reference of the validity of their investment. In reality it’s just a bunch of guys worshipping Chads success and using that to cope and motivate themselves to continue with tinder. It’s sad really
 
just fucking lol at this shitheap of a fucking article and this girl has written a fucking dissertation on some made up fucking shit.

jfl.

yu can disprove this in about twenty minutes with tinder. just fucking change your pics to a chad and watch as your 0 matches don't fall to negative numbers but go up instead
 
Tinder is for gigachads to get ONS with 3/10 girls.

Pretty much anytime a guy is bragging about getting laid on anonymous forums it´s an almost guaranteed LARP or the guy is exagerrating. Nobody that consistently gets laid with girls from Tinder posts on Tinder message boards or any online forum for that matter.
 
Kek, it's exactly what I thought is happening, all sub 8 males are giving up on tinder. Just go to tinder/okcupid subs on reddit. Hundreds of posters are complaining they are not getting any match/reply after trying over the years. I am sure their user base is shrinking, because it's bound to shrink. All these dating apps are nothing but chad's electronic portable harems. They pulled out this bs from their ass in order to save their business.
Here’s another example of women only being able to perceive attractive men. Only the top 20% of men are attractive to women so this is hardly an issue since majority of the male user base is AVERAGE looking. I bet this article is written because men are waking up, and knowing about female hupergamy, are deleting this app in droves. This article is basically trying to get back as many bluepilled cucks as they can to pump those stats up
Exactly, it's a chad made for chads looking for sluts harem app.
 
Hmm, maybe the women want to choose a Chad and not be messaged because they think it means he just wants to "use" them. This is when personality comes in to play, they want a Chad who'll be with them for a little while. They all want Chad but not to be tossed aside right away. So basically the article is saying "you choose the Chad" which is how Bumble operates I think.
 
Kek, it's exactly what I thought is happening, all sub 8 males are giving up on tinder. Just go to tinder/okcupid subs on reddit. Hundreds of posters are complaining they are not getting any match/reply after trying over the years. I am sure their user base is shrinking, because it's bound to shrink. All these dating apps are nothing but chad's electronic portable harems. They pulled out this bs from their ass in order to save their business.

president
 
Just be ugly theory
 
Lol. She sounds like she’s trying to refute the Atomic Blackpill but sounds mostly like platitudes.

“Sociologist”
“Sociologist”
“Sociologist”

And this is what they’re saying? They need to throw their degrees in the trash and start again.
 
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it's true, switched my pics to black ops-cel and im getting hundreds of matches begging me for dick
 
What a stupid bullshit.
 
Jessica Carbino, the so called Tinder sociologist, relationship and online dating 'expert' is a shill for pro online dating and social media and should not be trusted.
A single google search reveals this.



My ass.
 
So basically we now know that this Jessica Carbino got her degree (which is among the easiest to get) by sucking dicks and that she learned almost nothing in these years. Not sure how she even has a job lol.

Edit: Watched a video. This bitch got her job by sucking dick. Her bosses use her as a free sex tool I guess. No intelligence in her. Zero.
 
It’s like we’re teenagers and they are still trying to convince us that Santa exists.
 
Paid for by Tinder (R) TM (((nikud)))
 
So basically we now know that this Jessica Carbino got her degree (which is among the easiest to get) by sucking dicks and that she learned almost nothing in these years. Not sure how she even has a job lol.

Edit: Watched a video. This bitch got her job by sucking dick. Her bosses use her as a free sex tool I guess. No intelligence in her. Zero.
She gets her employment by getting (((corporations))) pay her by shilling for social media companies, like tinder, bumble or whatever.
 
bfl.gif
 
Tinder is for gigachads to get ONS with 3/10 girls.

Pretty much anytime a guy is bragging about getting laid on anonymous forums it´s an almost guaranteed LARP or the guy is exagerrating. Nobody that consistently gets laid with girls from Tinder posts on Tinder message boards or any online forum for that matter.
only one dude I can confirm on 8Chan hooked up with some chubby slut.
 
poor 10/10 male models cant get any women on tinder...
 
This has gotta be satire. If I had to guess, this is supposed to be lifefuel for the bluepilled 5/10 who still think they can get an LTR on Tinder.
"Wow, this study shows women aren't shallow so I guess I'll keep using their app more and find my soulmate!"

On a related note, a few days ago I saw the ugliest motherfucker I've ever seen casually scrolling through tinder in public, only liking 8/10+ stacies. JFL. Take the pill.
 
Just went to the tinder sub in reddit and all i see is guys bragging, one having 700 matches, and girls posting guys theg matched, 0 complaint in the front page

Just type "no match" in the search box.

Not many people can get 10+ matches on tinder because the number of chads is statistically very very small, most of them who are saying they are inundated by matches are LARPing coper. Within a couple of years all sub 8 will leave tinder, it's already happening in bumble and okc is almost dead quite a long time ago.
 
Wow, I guess I must've been hot shit all along, eh?
Explains why I've gotten no matches in the past week.
 
its over for chad
 
Even day "game", if I can call my approach this way, gets me more matches than this shitty depressing app, at least I can chat with a girl for a couple of seconds before being rejected.
 
Unsurprisingly, she offers absolutely no evidence for her claim. The only negative of being too attractive is she might think you're a catfish.
 
Unattractive chad for tinder:

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Just type "no match" in the search box.

Not many people can get 10+ matches on tinder because the number of chads is statistically very very small, most of them who are saying they are inundated by matches are LARPing coper. Within a couple of years all sub 8 will leave tinder, it's already happening in bumble and okc is almost dead quite a long time ago.

Read what i sai, obviously i know many guys barely get 2 matches, i'm one of them. But the guy i replied too talked about it like there dwas a widespread phenomena of most guys leaving tinder, i said it's not the case and a big percentage of guys are happy with their tinder their performance, else they won't vote those positive posts on the front page.
 
She's just trying to secure all the top chads all to herself.
 
Kek, it's exactly what I thought is happening, all sub 8 males are giving up on tinder. Just go to tinder/okcupid subs on reddit. Hundreds of posters are complaining they are not getting any match/reply after trying over the years. I am sure their user base is shrinking, because it's bound to shrink. All these dating apps are nothing but chad's electronic portable harems. They pulled out this bs from their ass in order to save their business.

Yeah this shit needs to be outlawed.
 

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