Thought experiment: no distractions, trying 100% of the time

[Deleted member 7448]

Let's have a little thought experiment.

Imagine you. The you that exists right now.

Now image you changed your lifestyle. You don't relax any more. You don't watch tv or distract yourself in other ways, such as playing video games or taking walks or whatever.

All you do now, except for going to work for the wages, is for "self-improvement". You go to the gym, you take classes, you actually do something proactive. You try to fix all the flaws that are technically fixable. You try to make even more money or whatever.

Now, has your hypothetical you's life improved, or is he just more miserable?

I'd probably give up in 1 week. I've literally spent all my free time on my PC since I've been 9 years old. I guess this is some sort of mental disorder, on top of my other quirks and various physical unattractive traits.

 

[blackcel]

I'd obviously become a Chad and then start making fun of all the loser incels.

Well, accorting to IT that is what's supposed to happen.

 

[Figthcel]

The thing is girls dont want loner nerds. Which is what I am. I would have to go out and try to socialize. Which I dont enjoy.

I tried to force myself to talk to people more, been trying for years, but I am just not interested in that stuff which they do.

Also I wont dress nicer, I prefer simple looks.

And working out doesnt help me look better.

Its over.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

The thing is girls dont want loner nerds. Which is what I am. I would have to go out and try to socialize. Which I dont enjoy.

I tried to force myself to talk to people more, been trying for years, but I am just not interested in that stuff which they do.

Also I wont dress nicer, I prefer simple looks.

And working out doesnt help me look better.

Its over.

What about money? Imagine you only worked, slept, and if your job doesn't allow overtime or something, you just tried to work for yourself. If that's all you did, would you at least become rich?

For some reason on this site people forget that being rich is the ultimate form of power. Sure, women are scum and you won't find a good gf or wife or whatever, but being rich would make life very very different. Hell, you wouldn't even need women if you were rich.

I'm a retard though so I can't get rich even if I had 1000 lifetimes.

 

[ItalianLegionary]

Let's have a little thought experiment.

Imagine you. The you that exists right now.

Now image you changed your lifestyle. You don't relax any more. You don't watch tv or distract yourself in other ways, such as playing video games or taking walks or whatever.

All you do now, except for going to work for the wages, is for "self-improvement". You go to the gym, you take classes, you actually do something proactive. You try to fix all the flaws that are technically fixable. You try to make even more money or whatever.

Now, has your hypothetical you's life improved, or is he just more miserable?

I'd probably give up in 1 week. I've literally spent all my free time on my PC since I've been 9 years old. I guess this is some sort of mental disorder, on top of my other quirks and various physical unattractive traits.

I doubt it will ever work. First of all, my lifestyle is pretty active. This did not sort any effect in the past years, don't see what should do now.
I actually take classes, only to see some fucking professor spewing obvious notions and teaching you nothing about critic thought and logical relations.
There is not much that can be fixed in, on, and about me. I simply am.
Sadly so.

 

[Figthcel]

What about money? Imagine you only worked, slept, and if your job doesn't allow overtime or something, you just tried to work for yourself. If that's all you did, would you at least become rich?

For some reason on this site people forget that being rich is the ultimate form of power. Sure, women are scum and you won't find a good gf or wife or whatever, but being rich would make life very very different. Hell, you wouldn't even need women if you were rich.

I'm a retard though so I can't get rich even if I had 1000 lifetimes.

Money is a great cope you are correct. I have been steadily improving my work and motivation. Less games, no watching of tv shows, less porn.

I have no idea how many hours I work, but I work on weekends and in the evenings on various projects.

Unless my social situation improves or I snap, which could happen, I want to leave the city and buy a house to spend the rest of my life there in solitude. I need to do that in 5 years before I get too old.

My hope is that this community and the blackpill will help me focus on making more money to save my life.

So that is at least some purpose I have.

You dont need to be too bright to make money. Find motivation. Do it for yourself. Look for things that you are good at. Almost everyone has some talents.

 

[Curious0]

I would need at least 1 hour a day to chill and browse the Internet, otherwise I would burn out

 

[SirIncel]

I don't have enough energy for that shit.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I doubt it will ever work. First of all, my lifestyle is pretty active. This did not sort any effect in the past years, don't see what should do now.
I actually take classes, only to see some fucking professor spewing obvious notions and teaching you nothing about critic thought and logical relations.
There is not much that can be fixed in, on, and about me. I simply am.
Sadly so.

The thing about classes. It's crazy how every class I've ever taken felt like a waste of time. Sometimes I feel like it's a giant conspiracy. Except for the highly technical stuff, everything just seems garbage propaganda and bullshit.

I don't have enough energy for that shit.

I have no energy either. Getting out of the house is a huge effort.

 

[guerillahubris]

i dont think i can ever break my habit of playing games and browsing the internet all day everyday when im not at uni

 

[Deleted member 7448]

i dont think i can ever break my habit of playing games and browsing the internet all day everyday when im not at uni

It's hard, I couldn't do it. I finished uni and I now work, and except for those 8-9 hours a day I'm working, I just play games and browse the internet. I think I might actually do this till I die.

 

[Felix97]

I'd probably give up in 1 week. I've literally spent all my free time on my PC since I've been 9 years old. I guess this is some sort of mental disorder, on top of my other quirks and various physical unattractive traits.

Same. I've forgotten how to socialize. I was quite extroverted till I started gaming and stuff at the age of 12. Exactly the time where your personality developes. People notice these things within seconds. A guy that I never met before told me to go out more often, after I've spoken to him for like 5 secs.

 

[Gokugetem]

Kek. Aside from a movie night every Friday, the only time I spend in front of a screen is at work or when I am eating or in bed. I struggle to get even 3 or 4 hours of gaming in a week.

Self improvement is a meme boyos. I honestly believe I am the best version of myself that I could possibly be at this point in time and it hasn't made the slightest bit of difference.

You must know that already, otherwise why come here vs some redpillers forum?

 

[Hunter]

id feel a bit happier but it wont change me being an ugly ethnic manlet.

 

[TrueAlphaMale]

Self improvement is a distraction

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Kek. Aside from a movie night every Friday, the only time I spend in front of a screen is at work or when I am eating or in bed. I struggle to get even 3 or 4 hours of gaming in a week.

Self improvement is a meme boyos. I honestly believe I am the best version of myself that I could possibly be at this point in time and it hasn't made the slightest bit of difference.

You must know that already, otherwise why come here vs some redpillers forum?

Of course self-improvement is a meme.

But why are you so busy? Sounds quite miserable to have so little free time.

 

[Gokugetem]

Of course self-improvement is a meme.

But why are you so busy? Sounds quite miserable to have so little free time.

I work a fair amount, I have a terminally ill parent that needs a lot of help, I do some volunteer work, I spend a couple hours in the gym 6 days a week, I garden, and I raise a couple different animals. Then there's the more mundane stuff like grocery shopping, car/home maintenance, and other shit that I constantly fall behind on.

And when I do have extra time I still find myself wasting it trying to meet women just because life isn't depressing enough already. At least in a few more years or so I will be too old to be a decent father to any children and I can give up on trying to find someone while knowing that I gave it my all.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I work a fair amount, I have a terminally ill parent that needs a lot of help, I do some volunteer work, I spend a couple hours in the gym 6 days a week, I garden, and I raise a couple different animals. Then there's the more mundane stuff like grocery shopping, car/home maintenance, and other shit that I constantly fall behind on.

And when I do have extra time I still find myself wasting it trying to meet women just because life isn't depressing enough already. At least in a few more years or so I will be too old to be a decent father to any children and I can give up on trying to find someone while knowing that I gave it my all.

You sound like a good person.

Why volunteer when your life is hard enough already?

 

[Deleted member 4760]

Did that and it didn't work.

 

[Gokugetem]

You sound like a good person.

Why volunteer when your life is hard enough already?

Thanks, I appreciate that. I never hear that IRL but it's nice to be told that every once in awhile.

Honestly? I love children a lot (not in a pedo way). The only reason I didn't become a teacher is because I knew that wouldn't be enough money to comfortably raise a family with, and so I decided it would be better to get a STEM degree instead. JFL.

Since it is painfully obvious that I am never going to become a father, volunteering to work with underprivileged kids is now as close as I can get. I despise single mothers and shitty parents who create those kinds of situations but it's not the kids fault, and they benefit from having a male role model so ultimately it's good for everyone.

As far as the other volunteer stuff I do, a lot of that is through work so I mostly do it in an attempt to be social while doing some good for the community and/or environment.