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TheGrayWolf

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Not venting, just asking if anyone hates aging – apart from not having a gf.

When I think about my age, and really think about what it "means", I get even more depressed. I'm almost 28! 10 years ago I was 17, in 10 years I'll be almost 40!

And like many of you I guess I didn't go through a lot of the vital "stages of development".

Hence I still feel like I'm 18-20, considering my looks/face didn't change and my experiences didn't change at all even going back many years before I turned 18 — I still live at home, still a loner, still social anxiety (any prescribed meds worked shit), zero romantic experience etc.

But I'm almost 30 and it's killing me. THAT is too old to start anyway. I don't even know how to "behave" socially and NOT be boring.

Anyone +/– my age can relate?
 
Not venting, just asking if anyone hates aging – apart from not having a gf.

When I think about my age, and really think about what it "means", I get even more depressed. I'm almost 28! 10 years ago I was 17, in 10 years I'll be almost 40!

And like many of you I guess I didn't go through a lot of the vital "stages of development".

Hence I still feel like I'm 18-20, considering my looks/face didn't change and my experiences didn't change at all even going back many years before I turned 18 — I still live at home, still a loner, still social anxiety (any prescribed meds worked shit), zero romantic experience etc.

But I'm almost 30 and it's killing me. THAT is too old to start anyway. I don't even know how to "behave" socially and NOT be boring.

Anyone +/– my age can relate?
when i really look at it my life has still been getting better overall and i just got 29 the 9th october , 30 soon , for me it was like a slow progress both in terms of looksmaxx and money , i'm blackpilled af but i still believe you can improve.
 
Will be 25 soon.
 
when i really look at it my life has still been getting better overall and i just got 29 the 9th october , 30 soon , for me it was like a slow progress both in terms of looksmaxx and money , i'm blackpilled af but i still believe you can improve.
Good take but for me the main problem is I never experienced, and never will experience, young love. Not only am I short and ugly but I'm also boring, autistic and have social anxiety (the former 2 aspects matter more).
 
Do you agree or you don't mind? Are you still a KHHV (excluding escorts)
I'm still a kissless virgin and I've progressively gotten angrier/more worried etc... the older I've got
 
It doesn't get better.

When you are young, you only have the problem of sex. That is bad enough, but when you get older, you have the problem of differentiation, which is the different jobs, life outcomes, money, etc. people have.

Basically, you are expected to be sexy when young, and rich when old, and failure to accomplish either results in social ostracization, rejection, and finding yourself miserable.
 
30 is a brutal age my friend. Gone are the days of youth, none which really pleased me. :feelsbadman:
 
I'm in my late 20s but I look like I'm in my early 20s., Some people are mistaken me for being a student jfl. I'm not unsure if I'm just lucky to be ageing slowly or something to do with not looking mature due to not hitting those development milestones

One thing that bugs me is I can't relate to people of my own age because they seem way more mature than me - and it's due to reaching those important milestones that I never did
 
In my thirties, pretty much feel like a teenager or early twenties trying to hit the milestones people do at those ages.
 
it is what it is
 
I'm in my late 20s but I look like I'm in my early 20s., Some people are mistaken me for being a student jfl. I'm not unsure if I'm just lucky to be ageing slowly or something to do with not looking mature due to not hitting those development milestones
Yup, I relate. I'm 27 but don't look it (short, skinny, face not defined at all, some people called me 'miss', others think I'm a child (an off-duty policeman asked for my driver's license when I was 22 and was just about to drive off, because I "look so young" – obviously not my fault, it's just I have zero hard angles in my face, no cheekbones and a very strange "balloon" head due to issues during puberty.
 
i turned 26 this year, i actually cried on the day i did because i missed out on basically everything

i will never recover
 
I'm approaching 30 yo, the small fire of youth that was still burning within me even 5 years ago is dead to the wind. Some 10 years ago I was 20 yo, and I'll be 40 yo in some 10 years. What a life to be had as an incel male.
 
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I will be 29 in December the last of my 20's. I don't mind getting older I have my future scheduled and hopefully nothing interferes with it.
 
Getting rejected by a younger thot for being 30 is brutallll

Ascend in your 20s
 
I still feel like a child even though I'm a crippled old man.

Ofc, I'm not a stupid child, now. But I was.
 
Hitting 30 is painful. You have very, very little time left at that age.

You get tired all the time, the norwood reaper is knocking on your door, its hard to lose weight, you get aches and pains, wrinkles
 
I'm 27 and plan on joining the 27 club
 

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