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RageAgainstTDL
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I modified profile based on feedback. No luck.
If people could take some time to help me out, it would be greatly appreciated. I've never had luck on here and not dated in quite some time. If it's my appearance or something else, I'd like to know. What "league" should I be going for? How do I rate? etc etc.
If I may ask; how attractive am I? Cause I get no attention OLD or in real life.
I do a lot with my life but never are not interested at these events, classes etc either.
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So let's see. We have a 26 year old man who has a proper job (teacher) and is well styled with semi-professional pictures and a totally normal/average face, and he is incel in 2019 posting on a Tinder feedback forum looking for help to figure out what he can do differently.
If there's any point to this, it's that we probably shouldn't really feel that bad about being incel or take it too personally. We're actually probably not monsters or even that horrifying looking. Standards are just going higher and higher every year at an incredible rate. If I saw this guy on the street I would never guess he is incel. His biggest flaws are an early receding hairline, mild facial asymmetry, and a bit of weak jawline, but I'd say he's completely normal and very average looking. 20 years ago he would certainly have a committed girlfriend by now who loved him and they might even be planning a family by now.
It should be at least somewhat reassuring to know that if normal guys are becoming incel too then maybe we're actually more normal than we think and we shouldn't be so hard on ourselves.