MaxZM98
Socially constructed loser
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Reading this post and then seeing the replies made me wish I wasn’t born a male. I get that asking for cuddles on the first date is strange and not socially-aware, but the amount of vitriol thrown at him is just so disheartening for me.
as someone who is really emotionally-starved and can hardly remember the last time I’ve hugged anyone, it feels so shit thinking that because i was born male, i'm going to be demonised just for stepping slightly out of line. If I did finally find someone into me, i’d probably be too afraid to be physically intimate with them because i’m terrified of coming across like this guy in the post. I feel like i’m being attacked my natural human need for affection, as if i’m a bad person for wanting that somehow. a hug would cheer me up for the whole week.
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