You guys are Exhibit A for my thread lol
You really planning on putting yourself through all of that shit for a
CHANCE at a used up hole who will probably leave you or cheat on you anyways? All of this planning and effort just isn't worth it
I think for a lot of you its the reached the point where you've forgotten the real reason why you wanted to be in a romantic relationship and that reason is on longer your goal, but the relationship is the goal itself, you've become lost in the pursuit of something so long that its become an obsession
Your goal now is just to "be in a relationship" and its no longer about the
perks of being in a relationship
You know like, being happy, being genuinely cared for, being able to trust someone romantically, etc
More likely than not you won't ever be able to do any of those things, you are just blindly chasing the "status" of "finally being in a relationship" like its some hill to plant a flag on, to the point where you are describing annoying and depressing circumstances like they are just a "worthwhile" series of events that are acceptable just to be in a relationship