- Apr 10, 2022
A simple instance that will never happen in my lifetime again. I got my drivers license very late so I knew how hard it was to function as an adult without a car. I met this guy this semester on campus and we hit it up, one time he desperately had no ride so out of kindness I said "ill drop you off", and because he lives kinda far away from campus I thought it would be like a rare occasion. Like I said I know how horrible it is to have no ride so I only helped him as I didn't want to see him stranded. Before you knew it he asked me again the next week, I was thinking to myself "erm how have you been getting to campus and leaving campus this whole time when you never met me?". Before you knew it he started pestering me every single day and then I told him to stop and then he responded by saying im his best friend (a lie) because he only ever called me when it so happened to coincide with needing a ride. I blocked him immediately when he wouldn't stop. Whenever something isn't going right for you, dont try to make amends or negotiate or even compromise, just block. BLOCK always, it'll save you so much time. That is what happens when you try and be too kind. I can't help it that I care about people and really don't want to see others fail but then people take advantage of you. So now when theres someone that ever needs help I'll just look away, if I stay too long Ill end up helping regardless and I don't want to be used like that again.