This is the beta males programming. They are programmed to feel joy sacrificing themselves for an ungrateful foid that cucks him, and for the kids he believes are his. There is nothing wrong with following one's biological programming.
This life is not for everyone. First, only a small % of males can be Chads in their lifetimes, I'd say about 1% of males are Chads at the present moment, since some Chads are older, balding, and others are too young.
Now, there is nothing wrong with Chads following their biological programming. If going to parties and fucking random girls make them happy, let them be happy. This is nothing but his genes screaming for him to be the Chad he was born to be.
"strive" is the operational word here. Some people in .is still believe in "strife" and "ascension".
Let me tell you the news:

if you're born a beta male, (i.e.: K-selected, slow-life history strategy, etc.), you'll find ECSTATIC JOY in becoming a slave to pussy. The beta male brain will dump its dopamine reserves every single time his pores produce a drop of sweat by doing pointless favors for m'lady. Being a cucked drone worker is the beta male biological drive, just like the praying mantis male biological drive is to be decapitated after fucking. He was born for that.

If you're born a Chad (i.e.: good-looking r-selected, fast-life history strategy, etc.) you'll find ridiculous the idea of wasting your time and resources on a single foid when you could be impregnating several foids instead. A fast-life Chad is biologically programmed to feel no joy doing favors for m'lady, but to feel joy in pumping and dumping random foids often.

If you're born omega (i.e.: ugly, short, non-NT, r or K selected doesn't matter, fast or slow life history strategy doesn't matter) you'll be lifelong tortured by biological drives you can't fulfill --- be these drivers to "get a GF" or to "fuck whores" by the hundreds --- whatever your life-history strategy genes tell you to do, you won't be able to --- and these unmet desires will torture you.
Brother, there is no such thing as "ascension" from your genetic programming anymore than a Redback Spider male can "ascend" by refusing to get eaten by the female after mating. "Ascension" is a myth, we are what we are.