Serious This is in my opinion the most insulting thing a Redditor(or anyone) can tell you when you ask for advice. I’ll tell you what to actually do

[Yunoo]

“Get a personality”
This statement is genuinely frustrating, because it implies that I am a robot with no internal thoughts and it is too ambiguous to be helpful.

Redditors LOVE to say this one, but they can’t actually articulate how to do it past “get a hobby” or “read books”. Tons of us have already done that stuff including me


In my case, I do have a personality(everyone does) and my personality is amazing.

The issue is I have trouble showing it to the world. I need to learn to express myself. If Redditors said that instead of “get a personality” they’d sound a lot less rude and be more helpful



Redditors also LOVE to assume that you have a bad personality. If they manage to convince you of this it will hurt your self esteem a lot because you haven’t actually done anything wrong and there isn’t much to improve.

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

: G-g-get a personality just like you .

 

[Grodd]

"Personality" is just a buzzword they use, it lacks any kind of meaning.

 

[Yunoo]

"Personality" is just a buzzword they use, it lacks any kind of meaning.

I think they mean become interesting but even that won’t help you make friends or get a gf if you are starting from absolute 0

 

[Yunoo]

"Personality" is just a buzzword they use, it lacks any kind of meaning.

They want you to believe that you are just insufferable to be around or there is something morally wrong with you.

 

[nihilum]

"Personality" is just a buzzword they use, it lacks any kind of meaning.

 

[nihilum]

: G-g-get a personality just like you .

 

[iblamemyself_0]

redditfags assume you're insufferable when your ideologies & views don't align with theirs, which ironically represents them as the ones with a substance-lacking personality jfl

 

[Yunoo]

redditfags assume you're insufferable when your ideologies & views don't align with theirs, which ironically represents them as the ones with a substance-lacking personality jfl

That’s true. To be fair, there’s a notable amount of incels that are racist or misogynistic or whatever. There are tons of chads and HTNs like that too though and it doesn’t stop them from succeeding socially

 

[electricSon90]

The worst part is when you call them out on defining what constitutes a good personality . They switch up and say, "Oh being a nice person doesn't mean having a good personality, you have to be extroverted and you have to do this and do that". All these people do is move the goalposts.

 

[Yunoo]

The worst part is when you call them out on defining what constitutes a good personality . They switch up and say, "Oh being a nice person doesn't mean having a good personality, you have to be extroverted and you have to do this and do that". All these people do is move the goalposts.

If you are an introvert you can’t force yourself to be an extrovert for long.

 

[DJmaxxingMusicCel]

: "Get a personality!!!"
Translating
"You should become a extraverted, agreeable cuckold."

 

[Yunoo]

: "Get a personality!!!"
Translating
"You should become an extraverted, agreeable cuckold."

I think you are better off going to looksmax.org for advice on how to improve socially. They give you real actionable steps you can take to improve. Not that I like looksmax.org. It’s just better than reddit

 

[DJmaxxingMusicCel]

I think you are better off going to looksmax.org for advice on how to improve socially. They give you real actionable steps you can take to improve. Not that I like looksmax.org. It’s just better than reddit

Social anxiety is mostly out of people's controls. Some people have naturally low inhib. Some people have inhib so high that they don't go outside.

You can not really 'learn' to not be socially anxious. You just need to win the genetic lottery to avoid incel looks that lead to bullying, which directly leads to social anxiety. Which all of us have lost, because we are on this forum. Looks does not just make foids hate you, it makes everyone hate you.

 

[Yunoo]

Social anxiety is mostly out of people's controls. Some people have naturally low inhib. Some people have inhib so high that they don't go outside.

You can not really 'learn' to not be socially anxious. You just need to win the genetic lottery to avoid incel looks that lead to bullying, which directly leads to social anxiety. Which all of us have lost, because we are on this forum. Looks does not just make foids hate you, it makes everyone hate you.

You can definitely reduce anxiety through exercise, diet and exposure. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations and you’ll improve. Whether or not you can remove it completely depends on the individual

 

[DJmaxxingMusicCel]

You can definitely reduce anxiety through exercise, diet and exposure. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations and you’ll improve. Whether or not you can remove it completely depends on the individual

Anxiety can only be removed by wholly stopping the stressor. For many, this is just leaving toxic, normie-infested environment.

 

[INVERTER]

Redditors are NPCs who repeat whatever is most updooted. They have the personality of a lesser AI