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I just wanna be loved, but don’t think I’m worthy
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It’s not manly but sometimes I want to be held by a girl I’m in a relationship with because I’m not the most stoic, manly guy out there and sometimes I’d like someone to have my back while at the same time providing intimacy.
I’m not talking about using said person as a therapist or what but it’d be nice to have a girl offer to cuddle you or have her be the spoon after a tough day or whenever you feel down. Rub your hair while you lay her head in her lap. She doesn’t have to solve my problems. She can help, but she doesn’t have to solve them for me. She would be my biggest fan, my number one supporter. I could come to her if there’s anything on my mind, anything bugging me, with no fear of being judged. I would do all that for her, too.
I’d also cuddle the shit outta her lol.
God this is so disgustingly beta but I’ve been on r/rolereversal lately and other than some of the more weird stuff (mainly involving sex or totally emasculating the guy), a lot of it seems lovely, having the female in the relationship be the protector to the man, or the rock.
I guess this is due to me being submissive because of my shyness, timidness and lack of charisma. I identify with a lot of the art or stories posted there because I think that would be more ideal with my personality. I also sometimes gravitate towards fiction with this stuff (particularly anime and manga since you’ll find it more often than other forms of media). I’m sure if I was a manly, extroverted Chad I wouldn’t ever think about these things, but I’m not. I don’t even want to be this guy. But it’s the only guy desirable to women. No girl wants a dude who’s anxious, timid, short, unattractive, or cries a few times a year. No girl wants a depressed dude. No girl wants to hear my deepest, darkest thoughts or my insecurities. Because that is weak. I’m expected to not be insecure and have all my shit together because of my gender. I can’t have her be a shoulder to cry on or be a source of strength when I’m weak. Shit doesn’t work like that.
But I’ll never be loved. No woman will ever love me. Even if I became Chad tomorrow no woman will ever love me the way I want to because women aren’t wired that way. The blackpill has destroyed any hope of me ever fulfilling my hopes and dreams of having a close, loving bond in a romantic, sexual relationship with a girl.
But it’s better to accept the truth than lie to yourself.
Women want scum of the earth like Jeremy Meeks. Good looking, tall, lean men who treat people like shit and dominate. Not men like me.
I can’t even call myself a man lmao, I could never win a fight and whenever people bully me I either cower like a scared animal or react with rage but in a way that makes me look pathetic. I could never protect myself or a girl.
I need to stop clinging to this shit or I’ll go insane.
I deserve to be euthanized.
oh yeah IT won’t touch this and if this post makes it there with a high amount of upvotes/comments I will eat my own shit for a week
I’m not talking about using said person as a therapist or what but it’d be nice to have a girl offer to cuddle you or have her be the spoon after a tough day or whenever you feel down. Rub your hair while you lay her head in her lap. She doesn’t have to solve my problems. She can help, but she doesn’t have to solve them for me. She would be my biggest fan, my number one supporter. I could come to her if there’s anything on my mind, anything bugging me, with no fear of being judged. I would do all that for her, too.
I’d also cuddle the shit outta her lol.
God this is so disgustingly beta but I’ve been on r/rolereversal lately and other than some of the more weird stuff (mainly involving sex or totally emasculating the guy), a lot of it seems lovely, having the female in the relationship be the protector to the man, or the rock.
I guess this is due to me being submissive because of my shyness, timidness and lack of charisma. I identify with a lot of the art or stories posted there because I think that would be more ideal with my personality. I also sometimes gravitate towards fiction with this stuff (particularly anime and manga since you’ll find it more often than other forms of media). I’m sure if I was a manly, extroverted Chad I wouldn’t ever think about these things, but I’m not. I don’t even want to be this guy. But it’s the only guy desirable to women. No girl wants a dude who’s anxious, timid, short, unattractive, or cries a few times a year. No girl wants a depressed dude. No girl wants to hear my deepest, darkest thoughts or my insecurities. Because that is weak. I’m expected to not be insecure and have all my shit together because of my gender. I can’t have her be a shoulder to cry on or be a source of strength when I’m weak. Shit doesn’t work like that.
But I’ll never be loved. No woman will ever love me. Even if I became Chad tomorrow no woman will ever love me the way I want to because women aren’t wired that way. The blackpill has destroyed any hope of me ever fulfilling my hopes and dreams of having a close, loving bond in a romantic, sexual relationship with a girl.
But it’s better to accept the truth than lie to yourself.
Women want scum of the earth like Jeremy Meeks. Good looking, tall, lean men who treat people like shit and dominate. Not men like me.
I can’t even call myself a man lmao, I could never win a fight and whenever people bully me I either cower like a scared animal or react with rage but in a way that makes me look pathetic. I could never protect myself or a girl.
I need to stop clinging to this shit or I’ll go insane.
I deserve to be euthanized.
oh yeah IT won’t touch this and if this post makes it there with a high amount of upvotes/comments I will eat my own shit for a week
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