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https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/2h79ei/ladies_why_do_you_hate_indian_men_so_much/
Poor guy, had the curse of being born Indian, which sucks because he seems like a decent dude.
Poor guy, had the curse of being born Indian, which sucks because he seems like a decent dude.
I'll be honest to your questions, receptive to any advice you have. But please be HONEST to me.
This is not a troll question. But I am seriously tired and I am starting to hate women. I need help, I don't want to go to therapy at this point. I went to school in Indiana. Girls at school just fucking stare away all the time they cross me/see me. This messed up my expectation form women. I would often be shocked when a girl smiles at me or talks to me... and I freak out. In my entire, life I approached 3 girls. Got numbers 2 times. Called one of them and it blew without a date. Blame my lack of experience. Had sex once, passed out. Don't even remember how to have sex, now.
Then the internet, reddit, Quora, Yahoo Answers- Indian women boasting about how they date only white guys, White girls constantly rejecting Indian guys, racist rants from white dudes, feminists claiming all Indian men are sex-starved misogynists- this just reinforced my beliefs about women. (Like Buddha said, You become what you think. I became what others thought I am. May be I would make a great specimen for "consequences of racism" 50 years from now when the west accepts racism towards non-black minorities.)
Back to our TOI, Now every time I cross someone on the sidewalk, I just assume they hate me. I even laugh aloud at some women when they forcibly stare away. NO I DO NOT STARE AT THEM. I just see this in my peripheral vision or through my shades.
In a professional setting, I don't have any difficulty in communicating with men/women. But in a social setting, I just want to die.
About me if you think you can help, Indian, 23, not ugly(got quite a few messages on dating sites but form women whom I don't connect well with/are too far away), once interesting, once happy, strong/fit, sensitive, usually respectful and honest.
No, I don't have a small penis. Measured it multiple times the night a girl at the bar mocked me about" Indian guys having tiny wee wees". Neither do I smell like curry, or rape women(as the feminists say) What I have done? Tried everything from hypnotherapy to meditation, been working out for 3 years, have a few good hobbies, started watching sports even if I hated it, stopped gaming even though I loved it. I fucking tried.
Today, I gave up. Went to the washroom at work and cried for the second time in my adult life. (first time was when I lost my bro) I don't want to waste my youth pining over this. But at the same time I feel that I am being denied love, just because of my race. While I do understand, I have to earn my manhood, I don't understand why I deserve this treatment everywhere- restaurants, campus, work, on the streets, at the gym.
Why do you hate me? How can I change it? Nobody in real life or even reddit knows I have these thoughts or issues- I am your regular fun loving, nice guy.
** I can't change my skin color, my face is not disgusting either. Any other suggestions? ** **TLDR: Random rant about my shitty life. Thanks. **
This is not a troll question. But I am seriously tired and I am starting to hate women. I need help, I don't want to go to therapy at this point. I went to school in Indiana. Girls at school just fucking stare away all the time they cross me/see me. This messed up my expectation form women. I would often be shocked when a girl smiles at me or talks to me... and I freak out. In my entire, life I approached 3 girls. Got numbers 2 times. Called one of them and it blew without a date. Blame my lack of experience. Had sex once, passed out. Don't even remember how to have sex, now.
Then the internet, reddit, Quora, Yahoo Answers- Indian women boasting about how they date only white guys, White girls constantly rejecting Indian guys, racist rants from white dudes, feminists claiming all Indian men are sex-starved misogynists- this just reinforced my beliefs about women. (Like Buddha said, You become what you think. I became what others thought I am. May be I would make a great specimen for "consequences of racism" 50 years from now when the west accepts racism towards non-black minorities.)
Back to our TOI, Now every time I cross someone on the sidewalk, I just assume they hate me. I even laugh aloud at some women when they forcibly stare away. NO I DO NOT STARE AT THEM. I just see this in my peripheral vision or through my shades.
In a professional setting, I don't have any difficulty in communicating with men/women. But in a social setting, I just want to die.
About me if you think you can help, Indian, 23, not ugly(got quite a few messages on dating sites but form women whom I don't connect well with/are too far away), once interesting, once happy, strong/fit, sensitive, usually respectful and honest.
No, I don't have a small penis. Measured it multiple times the night a girl at the bar mocked me about" Indian guys having tiny wee wees". Neither do I smell like curry, or rape women(as the feminists say) What I have done? Tried everything from hypnotherapy to meditation, been working out for 3 years, have a few good hobbies, started watching sports even if I hated it, stopped gaming even though I loved it. I fucking tried.
Today, I gave up. Went to the washroom at work and cried for the second time in my adult life. (first time was when I lost my bro) I don't want to waste my youth pining over this. But at the same time I feel that I am being denied love, just because of my race. While I do understand, I have to earn my manhood, I don't understand why I deserve this treatment everywhere- restaurants, campus, work, on the streets, at the gym.
Why do you hate me? How can I change it? Nobody in real life or even reddit knows I have these thoughts or issues- I am your regular fun loving, nice guy.
** I can't change my skin color, my face is not disgusting either. Any other suggestions? ** **TLDR: Random rant about my shitty life. Thanks. **