>if u truly want to get laid u will
Not if I have to lose my identity
What I hate most about this forum and it's attitude is it advocates self-hate for not being sexually successful.
The best option most of these guys have is lowering themselves; Reducing their compassion, dumbing down their interests, changing anything about themselves that proclaims their individuality.
You could say many of them are volcel because they're unwilling to compromise. They're not interested in getting a gf if they have to lose themselves in the process, so they need a place to bitch about the penalty they've payed for simply being who they are; who they always were.
Eventually people here turn them against themselves, and that's bullshit. Sure, if you're not getting laid, you're probably the wrong type of soul to get laid, but it doesn't mean you're inherently bad, it just means no one wants to fuck you, probably for mostly superficial reasons.