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Serious This Forum Has Been A Depressing Disappointment (And Not For The Reasons You Might Think)

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Most of the users who troll this site or just post LDAR shit are on my block list, and most of them I forget the day after lol, but there's one user I can never forget

@FrothySolutions

He's too stupid to forget, he's left a mental imprint. Whenever I think of exhibit A for LDAR waste of space incels he comes to mind, he's basically the mascot for this forum

I've asked him many times why he didn't just pay for sex when he was in his 30's, or his 40's, and I think he's in his 50's now and still a virgin, and his responses are always retarded

He refuses to pay for sex decade after decade but spends time on reddit asking people how to get invited to college parties so he can get laid like Chad (you can't make this shit up)

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/gqlv5i/what_is_hookup_culture_and_where_can_i_find_it/



View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/ex7zs8/ive_47m_been_hanging_out_with_my_coworkers_for/



View: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/fviebv/serious_redditors_who_have_been_to_parties_with/



View: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/a1kpqm/how_can_you_throw_huge_rager_parties_without_a/


This guy is asking for a "mentor" and "life coach" at the age of 47:

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/mentors/comments/j70zkl/i_need_a_mentor_that_can_help_me_live_a_life_that/


Those reddit users are literally pleading with this guy to understand reason, just go read the back and forth responses, it is so annoying talking to that guy, he just won't accept reality, its frustrating even reading the responses because I remember our conversations being just like that lol

No matter what you say he responds in a way as if he's oblivious to the fact that he is an unattractive 47 year old with nothing going for him, he just won't accept that he doesn't have the same options as attractive normie males in college


Even if this is all an elaborate larp, the years I've been on this forum has shown me that @FrothySolutions encapsulates the average user on this forum PERFECTLY

That's how stupid the average user on this site is, I truly think he represents the average user because he has the same mindset as most users I've talked to:

1. Always complaining about "no validation" despite knowing he will never get it, goes out of his way to not try to do anything else in his life but complain and chase dreams

2. Always complaining about not "feeling loved", but in every other thread they degrade the very concept of "love" by using evolution psychology to rationalize women's thoughts and actions to robotic instinct (make up your fucking minds, if love just comes down to chemical reactions stop "mystifying" it like its something "special", you can't have it both ways)

3. Won't pay for sex because "I want to be validated", but always complaining about how badly they want to have sex (again make up your mind, you either want something or not, if you were starving you wouldn't refuse to pay for food because some other guy gets food for free)

4. Always complaining about their lives going nowhere, but "LDAR bro, its over there's no point trying anything"

This forum is peak retardation, it has truly been a disappointment being here lol


I am not joking when I say I came here having a positive impression of the average man and "what it means to be a man", and I'm going to leave this forum one day thinking that the average man is pathetic and someone I should never associate with or want to help, this forum alone has literally lowered my perception of men, I think nothing of men at this point, I'm not even joking here, every guy I see IRL now I automatically assume he's emotional and pathetic whereas I'd usually assume the opposite

Holy shit this forum is depressing lol, and not in the way you would think. The black pill was never depressing to me, to me it was a blessing, it was about knowing the truth so I didn't make mistakes and could improve my life. However learning how the average incel thinks and acts has been very depressing, I have no hope for men as a group or the state of masculinity in society. I can't even see myself thinking about helping anyone on this forum because I feel like my time and effort would be wasted, because they'd just chase their emotions anyways and end up becoming betabuxx or doing nothing with what I showed them

I remember when I would actually care about what would happen to a "fellow incel", now I don't really give a fuck because I know its happening to a fucking insect, my disappointment has reached the lengths in which I could even be "anti-incel" lol. If this forum was a psyop experiment to get people to "look down" on men it worked

Men are supposed to be stoic, cold, calculated, logical, that's what I've been told since the beginning, that was a standard to aspire to, that's a standard of strength and dependability

The average user on this site is emotional, lazy, stupid as fuck (by choice) and has no plans for life. That shit is so fucking depressing lol. From what I've observed of normie males IRL they are the same thing too but it isn't as extreme. There aren't any "men" like you hear about in all these stories, they don't exist anymore. If anything I'm glad I found this forum so I know exactly what not to be, but all in all it has been a disappointing and depressing experience


I've met a few users who are clearly on the right path but most are just going nowhere and its 100% their fault

You being ugly is not your fault

You not being able to attract women is not your fault

But you being a LDAR NEET with no goals and you spend all day doing nothing but complaining about life, watching anime, playing games, posting memes, etc is 100% your fault

Most of you have CHOSEN a shitty life, life doesn't stop at "women don't want to fuck me", if you think that you are a fucking retard
 
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JFL, why are you so much obsessed with him? At the point you make threads solely about him
 
It’s possible that some of the hardcore defeatists are probably infiltrators trying to “deradicalize” the community. They constantly spam “cope we are all subhumans and need to rope” or other stupid shit to derail the productive discourse. We should be coming up with solutions to solve inceldom in society and give each other non-cucked advice.
 
when the special snowflake intelligent wannabe is trying to trigger the whole community
 
You being ugly is not your fault

You not being able to attract women is not your fault

But you being a LDAR NEET with no goals and you spend all day doing nothing but complaining about life, watching anime, playing games, posting memes, etc is 100% your fault

Most of you have CHOSEN a shitty life, life doesn't stop at "women don't want to fuck me", if you think that you are a fucking retard[/USER]
No, life doesn't stop with women.
But it does impact many things.
And many of us who do NEET, it's because of disabilities and other contributing reasons.
Many choose, yes. But many are given their lives.
 
It’s possible that some of the hardcore defeatists are probably infiltrators trying to “deradicalize” the community. They constantly spam “cope we are all subhumans and need to rope” or other stupid shit to derail the productive discourse. We should be coming up with solutions to solve inceldom in society and give each other non-cucked advice.
I thought this in the beginning. At first I really tried to give this forum the benefit of the doubt and assume all the jokers and LDAR guys were larps, but I can't do it anymore, there are just too many of them, I can only assume they are in fact the average user

I still think about what you are saying, but at this point I lean more towards them being actual users
 
wtf I didn't know this guy was 47 :dafuckfeels:

I really don't see the appeal many guys here see in slaying, hookups and everything. I just wish I could have had a relationship, someone I could care for and bond with, have a family.

I don't see what kind of validation they're looking for, have sex with strangers and then leave, never see each other again? You might as well pay for sex then
 
No, life doesn't stop with women.
But it does impact many things.
And many of us who do NEET, it's because of disabilities and other contributing reasons.
Many choose, yes. But many are given their lives.
I don't believe the majority of NEETs on this forum are legit disabled, some are but It seems like most are just exploiting some loophole
 
lmao gtfo with this self improover bullchit, 90%+ of this site has given up, and rightfully so
 
I thought this in the beginning. At first I really tried to give this forum the benefit of the doubt and assume all the jokers and LDAR guys were larps, but I can't do it anymore, there are just too many of them, I can only assume they are in fact the average user

I still think about what you are saying, but at this point I lean more towards them being actual users
Well there are still good users who aren’t like that. But they are becoming a minority. The basis of this forum is apparently just venting. I guess it explains why the mods isn’t all defend people who make son stories
 
lmao gtfo with this self improover bullchit, 90%+ of this site has given up, and rightfully so
If you've given up, at least don't be an annoying cunt and keep complaining then, a reoccurring theme with these guys is that they can't make up their mind on their beliefs

If you gave up, THEN ACTUALLY GIVE UP (stop complaining about it)

If "love" is something special you missed out on, STOP speaking about it in terms of "evolution psychology" like its "just chemical reactions" whenever its convenient for you in another thread

If you refuse to pay for sex knowing its probably your only option, STOP complaining about not being able to have sex

Its so fucking annoying, these idiots won't make up their minds about what path they've chosen in life

If you are going to choose to suffer, STFU and suffer in silence, its the life you chose, accept it and STFU
 
i haven't given up, i'm just not exactly a fan of "masculinity" or what society gets you to do to become a real man :redpill:
 
I think he went insane from inceldom, it happens
 
:feelshaha: So fucking delusional , it's beyond over for him
 
:feelshaha: So fucking delusional , it's beyond over for him
Shut up bitch

You're balls havent even dropped yet nigga

Your opinion is literally worthless given your shitposting track record.
 
Shut up bitch

You're balls havent even dropped yet nigga

Your opinion is literally worthless given your shitposting track record.
I'm talking about @FrothySolutions
 
Most of the users who troll this site or just post LDAR shit are on my block list, and most of them I forget the day after lol, but there's one user I can never forget
You're just too demanding.
 
It’s possible that some of the hardcore defeatists are probably infiltrators trying to “deradicalize” the community. They constantly spam “cope we are all subhumans and need to rope” or other stupid shit to derail the productive discourse. We should be coming up with solutions to solve inceldom in society and give each other non-cucked advice.
High iq.
 
Men are supposed to be stoic, cold, calculated, logical, that's what I've been told since the beginning, that was a standard to aspire to, that's a standard of strength and dependability

The average user on this site is emotional, lazy, stupid as fuck (by choice) and has no plans for life.
Dude what? People here are emotional?

Most of us are basically emotionally dead JFL. :feelshaha: Having emotions is a huge plus to function in society and be a normie.

I literally don't know of any demographic more stoic, cold and emotionless than some of the users here. There is nothing more stoic than accepting life just how it is without chasing anything.
 
fake emotions
My point was that he is absolutely wrong with saying we are emotional retards or something. I'm literally a fucking corpse with no emotions. Do you think an emotional person could live in solitary confinement 24/7?

In a way that is also manly as fuck if you really think about it :feelshaha: Not needing anyone or anything and refusing to wagecuck for some asshole.

Manliness is a retarded concept anyway. They always say someone who is cold and doesn't need anyone or anything is manly but then they say incels are not manly. Which one is it? :feelstastyman:
 
It’s just a place to cope. Overall everyone here knows the core context.

1. Never get married and betabux a foid
2. You’ll never be loved like chad so no point trying
3. Money max is the only way and go to SEA or Eastern Europe to get cheap sex while having a passive income source (this is hard to do so ppl just ldar and cope with hobbies)

Most users leave this form in a better state than they arrived on this forum

Also chadfishing is a good cope that most ppl here need to do. It can help with socializing
 
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Most of us are basically emotionally dead JFL. :feelshaha:
JFL dude, emotionally dead but always complaining about not feeling "loved or validated", always responding with "I want more than sex I want someone who cares about me"

You definitely haven't spent much time on this forum, the average guy on this site is so desperate for some kind of "emotional outreach" than if a female hugged them they would start orbiting her

Pretty much all the users are larping, and I don't mean in the "pretending to be ugly sense", I mean in the "pretending to be black pilled" sense

A lot of users are just posturing, first chance they get to abandon the black pill they will take it, and they will probably end up like @BrendioEEE

He's a perfect example actually, always talking shit, black pill this, black pill that, when really at the end of the day he was just a lonely attention whore who started talking shit like he was a normie the moment he thought he had "ascended", and at the end of it all he got cucked lol

That's why I said in my last thread:
A lot of you are thinking "i'll never even get a woman" but most guys on this forum are pathetic and weak willed, statistically the majority of you reading this will be a betabuxx by age 30, that's just a fact

Statistically about 97 percent of men and 98 percent of women ages 25 to 44 aren't virgins (you can look it up), so most of the teens on this forum going on and on about "its over, I want to be loved" and guys in their 20's saying "its over, I want to be loved", are going to probably end up married to some used up whore at some point

That desperation and yearning to "be loved" and "feel desired" is only going to lead you to one path, betabuxx. For most of you its inevitable, you think you are never going to "make it", but what you don't realize is that years of desperation and loneliness is going to make you lower your standards over time, to where your criteria of "making it" is so low, that you'll delude yourself into believing that the crappy offer you finally accept was "a good deal"

If you are reading this, that's probably your future, that's the future of men who spend years obsessing about love and attraction, it will become your be all end all, you'll accept almost anything if you can get a taste of it, and you'll take any offers you can get after years of wanting it. Many of you are going to be "that guy" who is raising some other guys kid or dealing with some bitch with a ton of baggage and a high dick mileage, in some cases quite literally as the amount of inches of dick she's come across adds up to a mile
The majority of incels on this forum are weak willed and emotional, they are definitely going to be betabuxxers in the future, this forum is filled to the brim with future beta buxxers, because they don't have objective goals, they want to "feel validated", and after years of being starved of attention and affection they'll be willing to accept almost any woman who will treat them with a modicum of kindness

They'll gladly accept "starfish sex" despite making fun of it for years on this forum, again most users are just "posturing", especially the younger ones, if you aren't atleast in your 20's you really shouldn't even be here

In a way that is also manly as fuck if you really think about it :feelshaha: Not needing anyone or anything and refusing to wagecuck for some asshole.
Dude your situation has nothing to do with you being manly lol, it has to do with you being born in a country that would allow you to do that, do you have that little self awareness?

Do you think if you were born in the fucking Congo in Africa you could "refuse" to wagecuck

Your circumstances allow you to live as you do, not anything you personally did

Also lol at "not needing anyone", this reminds me of those single mothers supported by the welfware system calling themselves "independent"

You do need someone, be it your parents or "daddy government", but someone is footing the bill, and it ain't you

If it is you then congrats you are probably wealthy, now why are you even here on this forum, go out and live already, being here makes no sense
 
I felt so bad for this guy. Holy shit. He is visibly mentally ill and has been lost to delirium and delusion. I'm not gonna judge him. Many people get lost to illness like that and it is very sad to see such thing.
 
you are not low iq but you should be a bit less verbose imo
 
I just can’t understand how so many people in this board are unwilling to pay for what they are missing out on. “Other people get it for free”. So what? You’re going to miss out on something just because some other people can get it with less effort?
 
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Pretty much why I barely operate on this forum anymore. The quality has dropped significantly too. Too much stupid shit might as well rename the site to sewers.is.

Good thread.
 
“Other people get it for free”. So what? You’re going to miss out on something just because some other people can get it with less effort?
It’s so stupid, if I got money I’ll be hookermaxing. Even then to most people are still paying one way or another. Childish mentality basically.
 
LMAO, this perfectly describes all the "teen love" copers on this forum. Top tier delusional and defeatist thinking.

Ngl I liked @FrothySolutions . He could take a point, analyse it and break it down to give a logical and succinct counter. I would never have known he's delusionmaxxing on reddit if other guys didn't post this shit.
 
This place is a stop gap to looksmaxxing for teens and early 20's trying to act edgy online whilst being total pussies "I'm high-inhib bro". Some of these fuckers can't even jack off to real porn and only use hentai, that's the level on here.
 
Most of you have CHOSEN a shitty life

Nope. Shitty life chose us, just like winning one billion dollars at the Powerball is not you choice but life's "choice".

life doesn't stop at "women don't want to fuck me", if you think that you are a fucking retard

Most people have no foid because they have zero friends. That's a fact and that's also my case. Several members of this forum would meet someone if they had male friends and activities with them like sports knownledge associations etc.

Most of us only focus on finding a foid, but we should better find friends before, REAL friends IRL. I miss the time when I had plenty of friends to cope with, to talk about videogames 'til 5AM. I miss the times before the Covid when there was Lego Expositions in my area, concerts, cultural events, when there was Reloplaying Evenings every Friday from 9PM to midnight, I miss all this and this fucking Covid shit has destroyed everything like a fucking nightmare.

Human psychology is much more complicated than just "finding a foid" ; friends lead to meet foids, and maybe one foid will want to date you, and you'll fuck her and ascend. And even if no foid is interested, which is VERY likely, at least you would have male friends and people to talk to.
 
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He hasn't logged in for months already, and as much as I didn't find him the brightest either, let's just leave him be
 
Most people have no foid because they have zero friends.
Ehh, sure that’s part of it but it’s hardly the main reason. Looks and dark triad personality are more important.
 
Ehh, sure that’s part of it but it’s hardly the main reason. Looks and dark triad personality are more important.
I agree with this, but I'm pretty sure some one us, if dressed correctly with correct hygiene and a few males friends, could MAYBE meet and attract a foid.

I don't mean it's the case for all of us because it's completely over for 95% of us, having friends or not. I tried a billion times and even when I was positively interacting with friends, I never attracted any foid at all. All those foids played the "we're just here to be friends" shitty roleplay. Would've been much different if I had had a perfect face. They would have invited me at their homes for a coffee and it has absolutely nothing to see with coffee when foids say this.

But having male friends to cope with is a good point in itself.
 
Nope. Shitty life chose us, just like winning one billion dollars at the Powerball is not you choice but life's "choice".
If you are born poor its not your fault, if you die poor it is your fault

You are talking about "what happened" I'm talking about "what's happening"

You can't really change your looks, but you can change your living situation, you can change the opportunities you have the resources you have, etc

Basically this:


And even if no foid is interested, which is VERY likely, at least you would have male friends and people to talk to.
I'm sorry but "having friends" doesn't matter, they don't really have anything to do with your PERSONAL LIFE

After you are finished hanging out with your friends you will have to wake up to reality again and return to your shitty life

You guys are always looking for distractions, for escapism, that's what a "friendship" is, they seem really great when you are a child, but they don't really amount to much as an adult

Having a friend isn't going to get you laid
Having a friend isn't going to pay your bills
Having a friend isn't going to make you satisfied with life

You guys live separate lives from eachother, when they succeed you don't magically succeed too

You are going to get invited to weddings, get sent pictures of their new born children, etc, but nothing is going to be going on in your life, you will be the pathetic 3rd wheel. His wife will push you to try and hook you up with one of their friends (who won't want you anyways) and constantly remind you of the sad state of your life

Again, friends are nice to have when you are children and you don't have real life problems, and you don't have the weight of the world around you, but when life ACTUALLY STARTS (adulthood) friends aren't what is going to make your life enjoyable

You can't look outward in life for satisfaction, what makes life satisfying is what happens in YOUR life, not being around other people and trying to "siphon off" their happiness


you have the hardcore defeatists its a nice thing to find the balance of the 2
No it isn't "a balance" there shouldn't be any defeatists period. The defeatists should actually not half ass their position in life and just kill themselves already, they are literally half assing defeatism, they can't do anything right


It literally makes no sense at all you arbitrarily "wait a few more years" if you plan on doing nothing with your life and you are going to kill yourself, just end it already, let your parents "move on" before they reach an age in which they can actually die from stress lol


Also chadfishing is a good cope that most ppl here need to do. It can help with socializing

Getting a job, and actually having to interact with people helps with socializing (like being a cashier for example). Not talking to random whores through a phone, that's you larping, that's you pretending, it allows you to "distance yourself" from the situation

Much easier than having a face to face conversation with all the annoyances like "maintaining eye contact"
 
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when the special snowflake intelligent wannabe is trying to trigger the whole community
Nope. Shitty life chose us, just like winning one billion dollars at the Powerball is not you choice but life's "choice".



Most people have no foid because they have zero friends. That's a fact and that's also my case. Several members of this forum would meet someone if they had male friends and activities with them like sports knownledge associations etc.

Most of us only focus on finding a foid, but we should better find friends before, REAL friends IRL. I miss the time when I had plenty of friends to cope with, to talk about videogames 'til 5AM. I miss the times before the Covid when there was Lego Expositions in my area, concerts, cultural events, when there was Reloplaying Evenings every Friday from 9PM to midnight, I miss all this and this fucking Covid shit has destroyed everything like a fucking nightmare.

Human psychology is much more complicated than just "finding a foid" ; friends lead to meet foids, and maybe one foid will want to date you, and you'll fuck her and ascend. And even if no foid is interested, which is VERY likely, at least you would have male friends and people to talk to.
 

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