I've been married for nine years, and with my husband for 14 years. We met in college. I went to law school and was studying abroad one summer in Barcelona. I was pissed that he wouldn't come visit me. I wound up having a lot of flings there, with guys and girls—nothing serious though.
After Spain, I took a break from law school and got a random advertising job. After a few months, I started feeling exhausted. I thought I had mono, but I was actually pregnant. I wasn't sure if it was my boyfriend's or from someone I'd met in Spain. My boyfriend left the decision up to me, but he was happy when I decided I didn't want to keep it because he wasn't in a place to think about having kids.