Thinking of doing speed dating

[CRASH THE CUCK]

There is a speed dating event in the hood that reads thus:



How Speed Dating Works in Detroit

When you arrive at the Detroit venue you will be greeted by our friendly professional hosts. Once everyone has arrived and registered we will briefly explain the format of the evening. The ladies will then be asked to make their way to their allocated table. Once the ladies are seated the gentlemen will be asked to proceed to their first date.

You will have 4 minutes to chat to each date, once the 4 minutes is over we will ring a bell to indicate the time is up and for the gentlemen to move to their next date. Four minutes is long enough to see if you click with the person you are talking to and whether you would like to see them again and also short enough if you don't.

At the end of each date you have a brief few moments to make some notes on the person you have just dated. This is something to help jog your memory for the post event matching process the next day.

Half way through the event you will have an interval break so you can nip to the toilet or top up your drink. Once all the dates are over you have the opportunity to stay on at the venue to mingle freely with others. Please remember to take your dating card home with you to assist you in entering in your ticks and potential matches.



Post Event

No later than 11am the following morning our matching system will be unlocked for you to enter your ticks from the previous evening. You have all day to tick as many people as you like from the night before. We guarantee you will find someone you will want to see again, otherwise we will give you your next Speed Dating event for free!

Find a Speed Dating event near you ...

 

[CRASH THE CUCK]

How can this not work?

Guaranteed dates and free speed dating event free if (when) I have no matches

 

[Mr.Breb]

Depends on how truecel you're. In my case, I know I would get rejected always

Even if you get a foid you would have missed all your teenage though

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Never heard of this idea, stay safe tho and good luck

 

[Hoppipolla]

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D9_kTZCEAFY

(sorry. I love Peep Show. XD )

 

[Pancakecel]

There must be some great personalities in detroit

 

[CRASH THE CUCK]

There must be some great personalities in detroit

I want to approach this polish hole in the factory

 

[Pancakecel]

I want to approach this polish hole in the factory

Go for it

 

[GloriousFight]

I’m genuinely curious as to how this will go, please give it a try and report back

 

[CRASH THE CUCK]

Go for it

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2-LYJllOZ_w

 

[CRASH THE CUCK]

I’m genuinely curious as to how this will go, please give it a try and report back

it happens in october

 

[McFlurryCel]

Never heard of this idea, stay safe tho and good luck

 

[CRASH THE CUCK]

I’m genuinely curious as to how this will go, please give it a try and report back

from soyddit

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I've done many speed dating events with mixed results as a very average looking guy. I used to do them a lot maybe 8-10 years ago, but have recently been going to a few again this year. I've got to know the hosts of some of these events quite well and, as a data geek, we've got to talking about the pattern and psychology of them a lot.

Some things to note:

• People are still going to judge you based on looks just like they do on OLD. Sometimes you see the expression they can't even hide on their face before you've even opened their mouth. Other times you can have what you thought were the most engaging and interesting conversations, and you still don't get a match with them.
• Your mood and attitude going in to the event on the night I find frankly to be more of an indicator of how things will go than anything. If you go in to it not eager to want to actually go on dates, you're probably going to carry that attitude over on to the people you interact with.
• At a majority of events, by about the 7th-8th date - generally around half way through the event - women tend to get really snappy. Almost without fail there will be women who complain bitterly about being asked the same questions over and over, complaining about having to talk about themselves etc - in a really bitter manner - and often before you've even said much more than "hello". I've had this almost consistently at each event where it's more, shorter dates, rather than event organisers who run their event in a fewer but longer format (eg, 12-15x5min instead of 8-10x8min).
• One of the amusing conversations I've had with multiple event hosts is how they can pretty much predict at the start of the night who will match with who before the event starts, particularly of the more attractive attendees. Long story short, the hosts know from the events which guys the more attractive women will select with almost comical accuracy (yes, it's always the best looking of the guys in attendance).
• Women are extremely selective compared to guys with who they'll even select to match with. Typically women will only select two to four guys to be interested in even meeting with; guys on the other hand it's usually between 50 and 66% they're willing to meet again.
• In my experience, I tend to have more matches with people whom I get to talking about goals and dreams, rather than passions and interests. Knowing and being able to talk about what you want for the future seems to be a better predictor than what you do in your spare time etc.
• If you have a MOS friend at the event, try to organise it either: a) If you want a break and a chance to debrief, collect your thoughts and not get lost among the who's who, ask them to start him 6-7 numbers behind yours, so he becomes your break in the middle OR
  b) If you'd rather not have that break, and want to meet more people, ask to have your number start one number behind his. That way if there's more people at the event than dates (ie, you don't meet everyone due to numbers) you don't end up together through the cycle.
• In my experience it's verrry rare that the woman will be the one to reach out and make contact after the event. Happens occasionally, but take that's a sign she felt there was a better option.
• There will unfortunately be times where everyone you meet seems to be in a bad mood - and it can be because the person ahead of you got everyone on a bad foot. I discovered at one event right at the end of the night that the guy in front of me reeked, so by the time I met them all, they were pretty put off the evening.
• For women, who usually stay seated - it is highly likely you're not going to remember all the guys. Guys get a mnemonic - we can remember you by where you were sitting in the room, and where we moved from and two. Women don't get that advantage, so you may easily forget everyone who comes your way.

Hope this helps.

 

[BasedGoyslopReviews]

if you go for it, try to imply the foids are on your level, or rather, that you find them to be within your league. It will curbstomp their ego for a moment

 

[Seven7]

You're either low IQ, mentalcel or fakecel.

 

[SupremeFroggy]

 

[NEB.feelsdevil]

Detroit

You moved from the UK to Detroit?

 

[Izayacel]

if you go for it, try to imply the foids are on your level, or rather, that you find them to be within your league. It will curbstomp their ego for a moment

 

[hatepilledandrich]

You moved from the UK to Detroit?

Detroit is not that bad now, big investments and stuff.

 

[NEB.feelsdevil]

Detroit is not that bad now, big investments and stuff.

It's definitely better than Rhode Island

 

[underballer]

Based