Serious Thinking of doing my first approach next semester

[janoycresva]

I spend most of the time in the University dining hall. Now, there's this one Spanish femoid who always has long leather boots and looks like a bad bitch tbh tbh ngl. One time, she was covering up the whole coffee station and taking an extremely long time preparing her cup. I'm a coffee addict so I was lurking behind her waiting for her to finish up. Anyways, after 3 minutes of waiting, she turned around while stirring the coffee and gave me a look like she was scared. I didn't want to creep her out so I just left the area, sat down somewhere and waited 5 minutes before going back to pour myself a cup.

I was thinking that next semester, since I always see her making coffee, maybe instead of waiting. I'll pull up right next to her and say "excuse me miss", while slightly affectionately shoving her to the side (PUA technique, establishing physical connection). I'll proceed to pour myself a cup of black coffee. The idea is that she will strike up a conversation with me because women love guys that are coffee lovers. Since I'm drinking the coffee black, I think she'll think I'm cultured because of my appreciation for the actual taste of the bean rather than for the milk and sugar. She might say something like, "You drink it black, like that?" and I'll be like "of course, I like the actual taste of coffee". Boom, that opens a lane for me to get a number.

The shoving part is a joke but I legitimately thought about this happening in the past as I was pouring my coffee around femoids. Nobody has ever said anything to me though.

Could this work? I saw her talking and walking with a guy who looks like Mort from Family Guy, unless he's a homosexual (a lot of guys here are), I may have a shot.

 

[IHateMySelf]

Ask her: "Oye,maraca estupida,querí culiar"???. Everything will be fine

 

[janoycresva]

Ask her: "Oye,maraca estupida,querí culiar"???. Everything will be fine

nice try bud

 

[PPEcel]

don't think about it.

just do it.

get it over with.

 

[Dunarote]

if you are thinking about it it is over. When a man sees a girl he likes there is a fire burning inside him forcing him to approach her. This fire tells him what to do and what to say. If you do not feel it inside you do not even bother

 

[Indari]

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[janoycresva]

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im not aware. what?

 

[Smallondick]

I saw her talking and walking with a guy who looks like Mort from Family Guy, unless he's a homosexual (a lot of guys here are)

 

[Indari]

im not aware. what?

 

[Deleted member 6470]

Keep it clean shaved, it would help your confidence.

 

[janoycresva]

Keep it clean shaved, it would help your confidence.

what my ass and cock? or my face?

 

[Guest2]

what my ass and cock? or my face?

You already have one of them sorted...

 

[wasted12years]

No one would take me serious if i cold approached in this small town of mine where i live. They're either already taken or wants chad, could be different in the city but who knows.

 

[ihaveno1]

I saw her talking and walking with a guy who looks like Mort from Family Guy

lifefuel for jewcels

 

[Incel Wizard]

Go for it, I wish you luck.

 

[janoycresva]

Go for it, I wish you luck.

thank you

 

[Valiant Virgin]

I spend most of the time in the University dining hall. Now, there's this one Spanish femoid who always has long leather boots and looks like a bad bitch tbh tbh ngl. One time, she was covering up the whole coffee station and taking an extremely long time preparing her cup. I'm a coffee addict so I was lurking behind her waiting for her to finish up. Anyways, after 3 minutes of waiting, she turned around while stirring the coffee and gave me a look like she was scared. I didn't want to creep her out so I just left the area, sat down somewhere and waited 5 minutes before going back to pour myself a cup.

I was thinking that next semester, since I always see her making coffee, maybe instead of waiting. I'll pull up right next to her and say "excuse me miss", while slightly affectionately shoving her to the side (PUA technique, establishing physical connection). I'll proceed to pour myself a cup of black coffee. The idea is that she will strike up a conversation with me because women love guys that are coffee lovers. Since I'm drinking the coffee black, I think she'll think I'm cultured because of my appreciation for the actual taste of the bean rather than for the milk and sugar. She might say something like, "You drink it black, like that?" and I'll be like "of course, I like the actual taste of coffee". Boom, that opens a lane for me to get a number.

The shoving part is a joke but I legitimately thought about this happening in the past as I was pouring my coffee around femoids. Nobody has ever said anything to me though.

Could this work? I saw her talking and walking with a guy who looks like Mort from Family Guy, unless he's a homosexual (a lot of guys here are), I may have a shot.

1. You sound very high inhibition.

2. You're overthinking it.

You're playing out the scenario as you'd like it to go in your mind. I hate to break it to you, but this probably isn't how it will go.

This is one girl, remember. By all means, approach her. But don't spend forever conjuring up the 'perfect' strategy to do it. Because chances are you'll only be disappointed.

I'm not trying to put you off. It's good that you want to approach. But I've been where you are, and now, over 150 approaches later, I know it's not worth overthinking.

 

[janoycresva]

1. You sound very high inhibition.

2. You're overthinking it.

You're playing out the scenario as you'd like it to go in your mind. I hate to break it to you, but this probably isn't how it will go.

This is one girl, remember. By all means, approach her. But don't spend forever conjuring up the 'perfect' strategy to do it. Because chances are you'll only be disappointed.

I'm not trying to put you off. It's good that you want to approach. But I've been where you are, and now, over 150 approaches later, I know it's not worth overthinking.

thank you, thats good advice.

 

[Valiant Virgin]

thank you, thats good advice.

No problem. My first ever approach was a girl on whom I'd fixated like you are with this Spanish girl. I saw her in passing at my local mall and she smiled at me. I was stunned because I never get (what I thought was) an IOI like this and thought I was onto a winner. For weeks I thought about the best time/place/strategy to approach her. I psyched myself up and eventually spoke to her as she left her work. I said "do we know each other?" She said "no" and walked off. That was it. After weeks of psyching myself up, it was over as soon as it started.

Ultimately, this experience taught me that there's no point in fixating on one girl. On any given day you go out you will see girls you find attractive so there are countless opportunities to approach.

 

[janoycresva]

No problem. My first ever approach was a girl on whom I'd fixated like you are with this Spanish girl. I saw her in passing at my local mall and she smiled at me. I was stunned because I never get (what I thought was) an IOI like this and thought I was onto a winner. For weeks I thought about the best time/place/strategy to approach her. I psyched myself up and eventually spoke to her as she left her work. I said "do we know each other?" She said "no" and walked off. That was it. After weeks of psyching myself up, it was over as soon as it started.

Ultimately, this experience taught me that there's no point in fixating on one girl. On any given day you go out you will see girls you find attractive so there are countless opportunities to approach.

well, i might be worse off than you, these femoids ignore me and if they don't, they look at me like they're scared. Probably because I'm a pretty big guy with a huge ass but my face is scarred up srs, makes me kinda look like a monsta freak lmao

 

[Deleted member 9229]

 

[Michael15651]

don't think about it.

just do it.

get it over with.