Gepard
Recruit
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- Joined
- Aug 10, 2018
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I had Tinder once in the past, but in the end uninstalled when it turned out most of my ~10 matches were bots or just blocked me after the first message. There were a couple who seemed promising, but in the end they were turned off by my many medical conditions (My health is deteriorating)
That was about a year ago, ever since then I've been kind of coasting through life, talking to my only 3 friends, playing videogames, watching anime, coping... But recently the lack of female contact has felt rather heavier than before. I'm only 22, I feel like I'm about close to my "peak", and that doing LDAR right now would be too much. Still. At college, I see all these happy couples, cute girls, and I don't even have a single female friend.
So yeah, Tinder. Part of me tells me that it is a bad idea and that my experience will be about equal or worse than before, but deep down I feel like there's a sliver of hope, that maybe this time it will be different, that maybe I can ascend. Hope is a painful thing. I'm kind of rambling now, but I have no one else to talk to about this so I hope you'll excuse me.
I know there are others out there with these same thoughts, and surely there are people who use Tinder here, care to share anything? Do you think it is worth the attempt? Is LDAR the only solution, maybe? I'd like to hear from other collegecels, mostly.
That was about a year ago, ever since then I've been kind of coasting through life, talking to my only 3 friends, playing videogames, watching anime, coping... But recently the lack of female contact has felt rather heavier than before. I'm only 22, I feel like I'm about close to my "peak", and that doing LDAR right now would be too much. Still. At college, I see all these happy couples, cute girls, and I don't even have a single female friend.
So yeah, Tinder. Part of me tells me that it is a bad idea and that my experience will be about equal or worse than before, but deep down I feel like there's a sliver of hope, that maybe this time it will be different, that maybe I can ascend. Hope is a painful thing. I'm kind of rambling now, but I have no one else to talk to about this so I hope you'll excuse me.
I know there are others out there with these same thoughts, and surely there are people who use Tinder here, care to share anything? Do you think it is worth the attempt? Is LDAR the only solution, maybe? I'd like to hear from other collegecels, mostly.