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They made fun of me at work today

Well, the reality is they do exist, and the best we can do is find ways to cope with it. By all means, if you have any recommendations that could aid him, then let us know. I deal with it in my own ways, and they give me a little relief. As mine and OPs problems are very similar, I just thought I'd share what I do.

There are no solutions, but there are ways that can make it easier to deal with.
The best solution would, of course, and let's be honest here, to rid the world of such scum, so it cannot even procreate.
 
Absolutely
Maybe we got too emotional over your suggestion, but you have to admit, that this should not be the solution to such problems.

We should not have to take pills, alcohol, drugs and such to numb the pain and cope with bad treatment from bad people.
 
You won't ruin that guy. Take your filth if you want, and see where it leads you.
listen dude, i’m very well against drugs as well. But reality of the situation is, that if you’re going through humiliation after humiliation everyday, the alternative is either roping or quitting your job and becoming a neet. Nobody can take that shit everyday. I personally wouldn’t, i would had crushed out a long time ago. So it would benefit him if he took some light substance to help him get through the day. I would advise against hard drugs, but weed and alcohol wouldn’t kill. He could have a glass after work to calm down and cheer up. All in moderation of course. I would also recommend ashwagandha ksm 66 which isn’t a drug.
 
Maybe we got too emotional over your suggestion, but you have to admit, that this should not be the solution to such problems.

We should not have to take pills, alcohol, drugs and such to numb the pain and cope with bad treatment from bad people.
Yes, in an ideal world, but this realm is a hellscape. Again, I also emphasize it's not meant to be a solution, but merely a way get some respite.
 
Again, i deal with similar problems to him, so i just gave my two cents on what helps me. I also said with alcohol, if he can keep it in moderation, just to the weekends, then it could give some relief too. Obviously if it spirals into daily drinking then that's bad, im not advocating for that.
Just because it works for you doesn't mean it will work for him.
And I think, apart from that, that you're also fooling yourself.
Any dependence on any substance is crap and will ultimately take its toll.
You disagree, so be it. No need to be like an emotional foid when responding.
I've experienced enough crap in this context.
Enough young guys I've dealt with have died because of stuff like that.
My own addiction is driving me almost insane and causing severe depression.
Anyone who recommends that someone should cope with life's disappointments through alcohol or other drugs is no friend.
He either needs help himself or is simply clueless.

I like this guy, and I fear that with something like this he's treading on very thin ice and falling into an abyss from which even normies can only get out with great difficulty.
He could also go the healthy root, take supplements, daily exercise etc. which I also do, in addition to the kratom. I'm still here, and I feel better than when I wasn't on it.
As I said before, what applies to you doesn't necessarily apply to him.
Besides, I've taken a closer look at this drug. I think you're putting yourself in danger and fooling yourself.

But apparently, enough users here don't care if they die. Or lose the rest of their health. Yes, until that day comes! Then bitter tears of regret will flow...
Why don't you recommend, what you think he should do then?
In any case, stay away from all drugs and never use them for these purposes (as copium).
 
Dude, this is how it all starts. His problems should not be solved by taking substances, even if those were harmless.

His problems should not even exist because normies should not be treating him this way, if they were really making fun of him.

But then again, maybe it is just his perception, which is scewed.
You're absolutely right. And yes, I think he might be misjudging the situation, and it might not even have been about him.

Let's assume it really was a misunderstanding. How much more tragic would it be if he became an alcoholic/drug addict because of it...
 
Das meinte ich. Ich hatte aenliche Probleme nach meiner Schulzeit. Fuehlte mich von allen angestarrt, ausgelacht usw. . Jeder war eine potentielle Gefahr, ein Feind, wollte mir bestimmt was boeses.
Wie gut ich dieses elende Gefühl kenne und wie oft ich mich vermutlich diesbezüglich getäuscht habe...
 
You're absolutely right. And yes, I think he might be misjudging the situation, and it might not even have been about him.

Let's assume it really was a misunderstanding. How much more tragic would it be if he became an alcoholic/drug addict because of it...
I think you and @TooSomething need to actually learn more, about what OP has to deal with on a daily basis, and has done for years. Go through his threads. I have, and I've spoken directly many times in DMs and said posts about it. This office thing isn't just a one off.

Seems to me you're both doing what normfags do in this situation, which is to claim he misinterpreted it, or it's all in his head etc.

Anyways, I think this thread has dragged on long enough, so I'll agree to disagree. Ultimately he's his own man, and can make his own decisions. I gave my 2 cents, based on having similar experiences to the guy, as to what has made my life more manageable.

You're right though, what works for me may not for him.
 
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I think you and @
TooSomething
@TooSomething need to actually learn more, about what OP has to deal with on a daily basis, and has done for years. Go through his threads. I have, and I've spoken directly many times in DMs and said posts about it. This office thing isn't just a one off.
I have been following his threads for some time now and have also had a more detailed conversation with him.
Seems to me you're both doing what normfags do in this situation, which is to claim he misinterpreted it, or it's all in his head etc.
It would be possible. Because he has been working in that office for some time now and his colleagues might have gotten used to him by now.

I have a completely different perspective on his numerous experiences with strangers in public.
Anyways, I think this thread has dragged on long enough, so I'll agree to disagree.
Ok.
Ultimately he's his own man, and can make his own decisions. I just gave my 2 cents, based on having similar experiences to the guy.
And I threw my 10 euros in afterward because I presume to be an expert in this field due to my past.
Of course, he is old enough.
But he has absolutely no experience with these things.
While alcoholics, junkies and other lunatics were my everyday life for well over a decade.
I've seen how quickly you can brutally destroy yourself (apart from my own addiction career, of course).
 
Just ignore them and take your paycheck

Focus on getting that $$$ who cares about slut coworkers
 
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