Personality gets girls! That is, until you realize how your personality is calculated to according to females.
Here are three scenarios: one with an average, below average, and attractive looking guy approaching a female.
Let's say you are at a bar, and you are an average dude. Soft jawline, below 6 feet, and standard eye area. You approach a woman and ask her how she is doing.
She will turn to look at you, carefully looking at your facial features and posture. She starts responding to you, but the conversation seems one sided and she doesn't seem to enjoy your company. You try everything in the book, humor, intelligence, and bragging. Nothing seems to be working. Then she asks you what your job is:
If you have a 100k+ salary, she will give you her number at the end of the night and she will allow you to be her beta orbiter. If you are lucky, you will be her beta provider. However, if you are her provider, you may be lucky to get sex once every three months to a year. After a while, she will either break up with you or stay with you while cheating on the side.
If you have below a 100k+ salary, she will find an excuse to leave the conversation. You never speak to her again.
Let's say you are a below average looking dude. No visible jawline, cheekbones, very large eyelids, and below 5'10.
You try to start a conversation with her. She ignores you and tells you she isn't interested in talking to you and that she has a boyfriend. If you are confident and try talking to her again, she will move away from you or signal for help. You leave the bar feeling lonely, hopeless, and suicidal since you built up the courage to be social for weeks.
NOW let's say you are an attractive dude. 6'2, jawline that could cut titanium, hooded blue eyes, perfectly proportional lips and nose. You enter the bar and immediately she looks at you. You walk near her and she strikes a conversation with you. Your personality at this point is irrelevant, she laughs at all your jokes, seems obsessed with your hobbies and how much you like your career. After talking you bring her home and have sex. If you want to, you can commit to her and look forward to a nice relationship.
Here are three scenarios: one with an average, below average, and attractive looking guy approaching a female.
Let's say you are at a bar, and you are an average dude. Soft jawline, below 6 feet, and standard eye area. You approach a woman and ask her how she is doing.
She will turn to look at you, carefully looking at your facial features and posture. She starts responding to you, but the conversation seems one sided and she doesn't seem to enjoy your company. You try everything in the book, humor, intelligence, and bragging. Nothing seems to be working. Then she asks you what your job is:
If you have a 100k+ salary, she will give you her number at the end of the night and she will allow you to be her beta orbiter. If you are lucky, you will be her beta provider. However, if you are her provider, you may be lucky to get sex once every three months to a year. After a while, she will either break up with you or stay with you while cheating on the side.
If you have below a 100k+ salary, she will find an excuse to leave the conversation. You never speak to her again.
Let's say you are a below average looking dude. No visible jawline, cheekbones, very large eyelids, and below 5'10.
You try to start a conversation with her. She ignores you and tells you she isn't interested in talking to you and that she has a boyfriend. If you are confident and try talking to her again, she will move away from you or signal for help. You leave the bar feeling lonely, hopeless, and suicidal since you built up the courage to be social for weeks.
NOW let's say you are an attractive dude. 6'2, jawline that could cut titanium, hooded blue eyes, perfectly proportional lips and nose. You enter the bar and immediately she looks at you. You walk near her and she strikes a conversation with you. Your personality at this point is irrelevant, she laughs at all your jokes, seems obsessed with your hobbies and how much you like your career. After talking you bring her home and have sex. If you want to, you can commit to her and look forward to a nice relationship.
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