I've said this before in other threads and i will say it again. It's not God's fault that lookism and hypegamy rule our soycieties.
We have strayed so far from the lives and societies that God intended and instructed us to live in. The suffering we have is due to mankind's action, which our forefathers and other people directly or indirectly chose for us in previous generations. Their sin causes our suffering, not God. It is no wonder that in a world of increasing godlessness and atheism and degeneracy, that lookism and hypergamy has increased.
Following the way God wants us to live is basically an opposite way to how soyciety wants us to live. Sources like the Bible tell us marriage is between one man and one woman. But modern soyciety says that marriage can be between any number of people, and that men and women don't really exist and that gender is fluid and on a spectrum. To them, marriage or a relationship could be Chad having a harem of 10 women while the women's looksmatches rot away alone. That is the standard soyciety has set for us in the modern day.