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Venting There is no point in making friends.

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Other than using them as tools for God knows what, either for status, for power, for the ego trip, etc there's no other reason to form any friendship, Even if you try to build some sort of comradery with people, they don't seem to be in it or as dedicated as you are. And even if to some miracle you succeed in that, it will turn into some gay ass hierarchy bullshit where the more you have guys in the group, the more likely you will be the emotional punching bag that is also supposed to like it because otherwise they will mock you even harder for it.

Not to mention they always lead to nowhere, yea you meet up, have fun, etc, but after all of that is over, what's next? You guys fuck off back to your homes as if nothing ever happened and then focus on your real ambitions. Some get so focused that they don't care about that shit no more.

Other than building a network where you can status and powermaxx, friendships are pointless. Especially in adult life. They used to make more sense when you were a kid. At least then you had something to bond over such as video games, toys, legoes, etc. Most adult friendships are basically dick measure contests seeing who got fucked more by life or not and how much money they make.

Most friendships are souless and you will realise you are more happy the more lonely you are. It will suck at the beginning, yes, but other than experiencing a humiliation ritual from normies, I'd say this is better.

Just penguinmaxx.

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the more likely you will be the emotional punching bag that is also supposed to like it because otherwise they will mock you even harder for it.
I used to have this "friend" that would sometimes invite me to events but not tell me who else was going to be there. The people who were there would usually mock me and use me as entertainment because I was an ND homeschooler while they were all NT public schoolers. One of the times this happened was shortly before I began college and it has become one of the traumatic cornerstones of my adult life. Thankfully I have cut this person off.
 
Having friends is generally helpful for helping with loneliness somewhat, building networks which is what people stress about,making memories to look back fondly and gaining allies. If you want something, or need something a friend can help you with that with practically no cost because of your friendship. If you need people to back you up, generally your friends would do that.

I remember in my autism therapy this autistic woman who was there told me the importance of friends. Her grandfather or father I cant recall which was a man with average grades. Despite being average he became CEO of a company due to his friend. He became CEO of a company because he was friends with someone in the upper class.

thats the point of friends to make allies with who have your back and as well as have fun and enjoy life. Unfortunately those type of friends arent common and are rare. Especially for incels since we are perceived as the bottom tier of men the type that is easy to pick on.
 
I had no trouble making "friends" in my formative years, but they were all pointless time wasting like you say. No real camaraderie. Certainly no trust among us. And as you get older, it turns into weird bragging contests about how much you wageslave and do shit for others, at least for where I live in Rust Belt White Trash land.

Socialization for me has always felt like a shaming ritual that it's impossible for me to be content being alone. When being around others has never once in my life been beneficial. It's just wasting time and spending more money to not be alone.
 
I don't want to socialize with any normies at all. Their sole existence makes me want to throw socializing into the window.
What's the point in socializing if you won't see the person ever again in your life?
 
Everything always ends up being a competition for normie men, so I'm not interested in making friends with them. It's only going to get worse as society continues decaying. Men can no longer afford to be mere participants or citizens of society, and have instead become competitors. For jobs, education, pussy, assets. No one has your back in a low trust society. People like me who have severe trust issues are a symptom of that.

Not even other subhumans are immune to this inclination. I'm only worried about myself and my own prosperity because of this. I do think there are good people out there you can meet still, but the chances of finding them are infinitesimal. I don't think it's worth the hassle.
 
Other than using them as tools for God knows what, either for status, for power, for the ego trip, etc there's no other reason to form any friendship, Even if you try to build some sort of comradery with people, they don't seem to be in it or as dedicated as you are. And even if to some miracle you succeed in that, it will turn into some gay ass hierarchy bullshit where the more you have guys in the group, the more likely you will be the emotional punching bag that is also supposed to like it because otherwise they will mock you even harder for it.

Not to mention they always lead to nowhere, yea you meet up, have fun, etc, but after all of that is over, what's next? You guys fuck off back to your homes as if nothing ever happened and then focus on your real ambitions. Some get so focused that they don't care about that shit no more.

Other than building a network where you can status and powermaxx, friendships are pointless. Especially in adult life. They used to make more sense when you were a kid. At least then you had something to bond over such as video games, toys, legoes, etc. Most adult friendships are basically dick measure contests seeing who got fucked more by life or not and how much money they make.

Most friendships are souless and you will realise you are more happy the more lonely you are. It will suck at the beginning, yes, but other than experiencing a humiliation ritual from normies, I'd say this is better.

Just penguinmaxx.

Penguin Mountain GIF
Your in too deep, bro, sorry. Its like asking "whats the point in shoes, if i can just walk without them".

Yep, you CAN do that, but its much better to walk with shoes than barefoot all the time.

Also, its ingrained into our ape brains that "apes together, strong. Ape alone, bad" no matter how you slice it.

So dont try to "big brain" your way out of every mild incovenience that life has to offer.
 
Online friends mog irl friends
 
There’s no point in anything
 
So dont try to "big brain" your way out of every mild incovenience that life has to offer.
You don't think I wanted friends, motherfucker? And I mean genuine friends, not some faggots around that tolerate you just for the sole reason of having fun around the fact you have certain weaknesses or disadvantages.

Also, once you start to figure out that the concept of friendship exists only to encourage and outright enforce social connections for the sole reason of survival, that's when the concept loses its meaning entirely. Once you figure out that the whole point of it is to ensure the survival of your group, what would be the point to pursue friendships when at their core are just primal?

Besides, we all know modern day relationships are superficial so that only fuels the futility of it.
 
People don't even want to be friends with me lol. That's a truecel trait right there.
 
brotherhood is a myth
 

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