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Zielony4

Zielony4

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Being in a long term relationship, having a FWB, or having a ONS is literally the easiest thing on the planet. No effort needs to be put in on anyone's part at all. It all happens naturally. Serendipity. You meet someone online or in person, and as much as I hate this term, and i'm annoyed I have to use it, "One thing leads to another."

For us incels, it's IMPOSSIBLE for this to happen because of our genetics.

If we incels were destined to be in relationships, it would have happened already. In our early teens or early twenties, maybe mid twenties max; and it would happen naturally. The whole looksmaxing meme and approaching women is all bullshit. A stupid gimmick. For normies and chads, the relationships happen without any sort of effort. You aren't supposed to put in effort. Two attractive people gravitate towards eachother and have sex. The stuff on cucktears that is said is all Bullshit. Forming non platonic relationships 'just happens.' Another term I hate very much. If it doesn't happen like that, it's because of uncontrollable shit like facial features, height, race and frame. It's either the easiest thing ever, or it's like us, impossible. Two edges with nothing in between.  :'( :'( :'(
 
Yes. This is why others get so angry at the idea that attractiveness is out of our control. They think that because they're in relationships, they've "worked hard" and therefore "deserve it." When the reality is that it just came naturally for them.
 
JUST B URSELF is actually perfectly correct advice.
 
Grotesque said:
JUST B URSELF is actually perfectly correct advice.

Yep. Either you have it or you don't. Where you stand is determined pretty quickly.  :'(


a-virgin-nigger said:
Beautiful post

The blackpill itself isn't beautiful  :'(


KyloRen said:
Yes. This is why others get so angry at the idea that attractiveness is out of our control. They think that because they're in relationships, they've "worked hard" and therefore "deserve it." When the reality is that it just came naturally for them.

Yea, like the meme with chad saying to just go up to the girl and approach them. That never works for us, it's seen as 'creepy' which is known by pretty much everyone by now to be considered ugly. A 6'3 facially perfect chad still thinks he worked for the relationships they are in. Most people in relationships still think that nonsense.


KyloRen said:
Yes. This is why others get so angry at the idea that attractiveness is out of our control. They think that because they're in relationships, they've "worked hard" and therefore "deserve it." When the reality is that it just came naturally for them.

Yea, like the meme with chad saying to just go up to the girl and approach them. That never works for us, it's seen as 'creepy' which is known by pretty much everyone by now to be considered ugly. A 6'3 facially perfect chad still thinks he worked for the relationships they are in. Most people in relationships still think that nonsense.
 
Preach. I wish the PUA fags would recognize this.
 
We were fucked from day one
 
what if youre an unatracive female?
 
Yeah the only reason this won't happen is if you have subhuman looks or a subhuman brain (autism) or both.
 
This right here. Fakecels don't exist. There are only truecels and slayers.
 
newcel997 said:
what if youre an unatracive female?

What are you implying, that women can be incel?
 
Jockcel said:
This right here. Fakecels don't exist. There are only truecels and slayers.

Fakecels do exist, and they're among us
 
OTaKu_WarrIOr_N said:
Fakecels do exist, and they're among us

They're not fakecels. They are straight-up slayers. Even 1 slay with a regular girl = slayer.
 
Jockcel said:
OTaKu_WarrIOr_N said:
Fakecels do exist, and they're among us
They're not fakecels. They are straight-up slayers. Even 1 slay with a regular girl = slayer.
So what about the people who've gotten kisses?
 
ITS the easiest thing in the world for chads

its phyiscally impossible for incels

its very hard and taxing for normies.

that is all
 
Jockcel said:
OTaKu_WarrIOr_N said:
So what about the people who've gotten kisses?
Still incel
If they were attractive enough for a female to willingly kiss them, then they aren't too ugly, and thus are probably not incel
 
OTaKu_WarrIOr_N said:
Still incel
If they were attractive enough for a female to willingly kiss them, then they aren't too ugly, and thus are probably not incel[/quote]

Then why did the said female not fuck them too? If they were attractive enough they would have been fucked as well.
 
TheVman said:
ITS the easiest thing in the world for chads

its phyiscally impossible for incels

its very hard and taxing for normies.

that is all
 
The thing is this. As incel you slide down a path you just can't escape no matter how hard you try. Normies, chad and stacy will have no such problems with it. It may take a while for them but they will reach lifes milestones regardless if they try or not.

Born incel with shit genetics and/or mental illness/retardation > No friends or just a few most of the time also losers like you > social skills suffer > social value for you is low > other people male and female don't care about you > you get lonely and isolated > miss out on important life milestones like getting a girlfriend/wife or a good job/career > social value drops even further > start cope > rope
 
True, true.

There are plenty of unattractive people with friends and in relationships, though.

What piece are we missing?

What the fuck makes us so damn undesirable, besides our looks?
 
QuantumDummy said:
True, true.

There are plenty of unattractive people with friends and in relationships, though.

What piece are we missing?

What the fuck makes us so damn undesirable, besides our looks?

Having no friends and also being mentally retarded because of our inceldom > no social circle > low social value
 
grayjedi90 said:
Having no friends and also being mentally retarded because of our inceldom > no social circle > low social value

Can confirm.
 
Grotesque said:
JUST B URSELF is actually perfectly correct advice.

It would be so easy to be yourself if you were a fucking Chad. God fucking dammit!
 
Jockcel said:
If they were attractive enough for a female to willingly kiss them, then they aren't too ugly, and thus are probably not incel

Then why did the said female not fuck them too? If they were attractive enough they would have been fucked as well.
[/quote]

If a female kisses you, it's an indicator that you aren't ugly.
 
Zielony4 said:
What are you implying, that women can be incel?

it was meant to be ovious but women can be undatable too.
they go through the same struggles as a man would to het a relationship
 
newcel997 said:
it was meant to be ovious but women can be undatable too.
they go through the same struggles as a man would to het a relationship

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
 
Zielony4 said:
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

you dont think they have truobles as well? even if shes autistic and ugly as fuck
 
Definitely not.

NO women can be incel at all. No matter how deformed or ugly. You could easily just look around to see this.
 
Zielony4 said:
Definitely not.

NO women can be incel at all. No matter how deformed or ugly. You could easily just look around to see this.

not incel persay, but struggling to find a bf/gf or fwb
 
newcel997 said:
not incel persay, but struggling to find a bf/gf or fwb

A woman struggling to find a FWB. That's the funniest shit I heard all year. Men are willing to be platonic friends and throw money at women for nothing on return. Women can never lose. I wish they could.
 
Zielony4 said:
A woman struggling to find a FWB. That's the funniest shit I heard all year. Men are willing to be platonic friends and throw money at women for nothing on return. Women can never lose. I wish they could.

would you be her fwb? besides a lot of women get rejected evety time they aproach someone


Zielony4 said:
A woman struggling to find a FWB. That's the funniest shit I heard all year. Men are willing to be platonic friends and throw money at women for nothing on return. Women can never lose. I wish they could.
there are women who get turned down by every man they aproach. even if they have sex to offer
 
Zielony4 said:
A woman struggling to find a FWB. That's the funniest shit I heard all year. Men are willing to be platonic friends and throw money at women for nothing on return. Women can never lose. I wish they could.

women can get rejected. if she gets regected every time is she not struggling?
 
Zielony4 said:
 It all happens naturally....

For us incels, it's IMPOSSIBLE for this to happen because of our genetics....

If we incels were destined to be in relationships, it would have happened already....

Dont tell this to me and then leave. At least kill me after.


newcel997 said:
women can get rejected. if she gets regected every time is she not struggling?

You must be fucking kidding
 
IsolationHurts said:
Dont tell this to me and then leave. At least kill me after.



You must be fucking kidding



Lol. Looks like he waited till the post was old to reply, but it just bumped the post anyways.
 
KyloRen said:
Yes. This is why others get so angry at the idea that attractiveness is out of our control. They think that because they're in relationships, they've "worked hard" and therefore "deserve it." When the reality is that it just came naturally for them.

Just-World doesn't get invoked enough around here.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_hypothesis
 
A Good Friend said:
Just-World doesn't get invoked enough around here.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_hypothesis

Pretty much, yes.
 
Zielony4 said:
Being in a long term relationship, having a FWB, or having a ONS is literally the easiest thing on the planet. No effort needs to be put in on anyone's part at all. It all happens naturally. Serendipity. You meet someone online or in person, and as much as I hate this term, and i'm annoyed I have to use it, "One thing leads to another."

For us incels, it's IMPOSSIBLE for this to happen because of our genetics.

If we incels were destined to be in relationships, it would have happened already. In our early teens or early twenties, maybe mid twenties max; and it would happen naturally. The whole looksmaxing meme and approaching women is all bullshit. A stupid gimmick. For normies and chads, the relationships happen without any sort of effort. You aren't supposed to put in effort. Two attractive people gravitate towards eachother and have sex. The stuff on cucktears that is said is all Bullshit. Forming non platonic relationships 'just happens.' Another term I hate very much. If it doesn't happen like that, it's because of uncontrollable shit like facial features, height, race and frame. It's either the easiest thing ever, or it's like us, impossible. Two edges with nothing in between.  :'( :'( :'(


COPE

I’ve heard of very few SUCCESSFUL relationships where there is no effort involved. Maybe pump and dump doesn’t require effort but I seriously doubt an LTR works without it.
 
I had some long term (1-3 yr) relationships and they failed miserably because I was a huge dumbass.
So it's not that easy.

Initiating is hard, but then finding things to talk about and bonding with the person you have started the relationship is just as hard, if not harder.
Or maybe it's just me, since my social skills suck so much
 
A Good Friend said:
Just-World doesn't get invoked enough around here.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Just-world_hypothesis

That, halo effect and depressive realism can't be mentioned enough.
 
I have to disagree it only just happens for chads and chadlites, most normies also struggle to attract femoids if they are only average looking. While they do not need to necessarily approach or try as hard as incels do, they will also encounter rejection however most of them do end up in romantic relationships through their social circle.
 
Yep, i fully agree, basically after puberty you find out your place in society.
Only two thing can happen from there, you LDAR and accept it or go ER.
 
newcel997 said:
my sister would prove you wrong there

I would date your sister. But your sister would not date me.
 
As someone who has seen the Chad life through chad friends, I gotta say one thing never fucking leads to another. What happens is that they meet, the girl doesn't run away, Chad goes in for the kiss when he deems it appropriate. If she reciprocates Chad goes further. Chad is always basically on the edge of raping (in the retarded modern sense) a girl with his advances. I don't think I EVER saw the girl initiate under her own will. If she did was it was because of a dare. I've heard about the mythical girl who initiates stuff on her own, but never seen it with my own eyes.
 
Zielony4 said:
I would date your sister. But your sister would not date me.

pm me if you really believe that. ill give you her email
 
newcel997 said:
pm me if you really believe that. ill give you her email

Maybe in a few days. This isn't the best day to be rejected. Where does your sister live?
 

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