Serious Therapist

[Johny.speiz]

Any one has experienced this situation?

So, I have been to see a therapist.
We have a group therapy, afterwards we do have an individual meeting with the therapist.

After unpacking my trouble-most issues in my life during my precedent visit, I decided to go back to the therapist to seek some solutions to my problems.

Today, there was no one present for the individual therapy, so I thought I’m going to have more time to discuss my problems. But, as soon as I show up, the therapist told me firmly she will only have 15 minutes for me, thus she was supposed to stay for the whole hour, according to the schedule. She lied that she gave me extra 45 minutes before, but in fact, I stayed only 15 minutes over time (and I didn’t even asked for it). This really made me angry.

The « therapy » was basically revolving around why I was so anger because she cut the consultation, even arguing that this could be the cause of my social problems with others. I naively explained my standpoint, and heard what she had to say. At the end, it went to nowhere, so I told her I have other problems than to discuss my approach to her visits and behavior, she ended it abruptly at that moment. I asked her why she is cutting time with me, even though we have an unused schedule, and she's paid for it, no matter how many clients come. The « therapist » replied to me that she will not explain herself, and asked me out.

 

[Vodaccenu]

(((therapy)))

 

[Dude420]

Psychotherapy isn't a hard science, no guarantee that their "treatment" will fix your problems, especially if the therapist isn't particularly competent/intelligent, you might not even be able to identify the true roots of your problems together and waste your time attempting to fix something which is vaguely related or purely symptomatic.

 

[Deleted member 3291]

never saw one but I am going to a psychoatrist in October to get prescribed medications for my adhd

 

[Fontaine]

Psychotherapy as it stands today is a fraud, but every incel should try to get into the field because it will not go away, it is the best job available on the market today, and depressed teenagers sent by their parents need more blackpill therapists to guide them.

 

[Dude420]

Psychotherapy as it stands today is a fraud, but every incel should try to get into the field because it will not go away, it is the best job available on the market today, and depressed teenagers sent by their parents need more blackpill therapists to guide them.

How did you come to this conclusion?

 

[Fontaine]

How did you come to this conclusion?

Best income/discomfort ratio. It's literally being paid to have dinner table conversations. Theoretically, you're supposed to intensively analyze your patient and guide him through complex shit; in reality, the average therapist has the IQ and energy of a blowfish.

Now, consider that by talking to people in the comfort of a house, you make in a day what a Chinese factory worker makes in a year of constant pain and getting yelled at by supervisors. Such disparity of outcome, such unfairness is almost too unreal to believe.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

Femoid therapists are just women who've taken an easy route through life. She slutted around in high school, bullying ugly boys constantly. Got into a university to do an easy, shit course like psychology. Again, she slutted it up, every weekend she'd fuck new Chads and have the most degenerate sex, while ignoring ugly men. Now she puts minimal effort (just like she has all her life) into what she does, just whiling away the years and still holding onto the vague hope of holding down a Chad to marry, completely ignoring ugly males again.

Did you really expect serious help from this woman?

 

[Spite]

Never gone, would never go.

 

[Fontaine]

Femoid therapists are just women who've taken an easy route through life.

Instead of being jealous of these dumb sluts, do the same thing

The therapy niche isn't too overcrowded yet. There is at most two therapists in medium-sized cities, and ten in big cities. Plenty of headway.

 

[Deleted member 6214]

Instead of being jealous of these dumb sluts, do the same thing

I wish I could but my parents would kick me out if I chose that course

 

[Dude420]

Best income/discomfort ratio. It's literally being paid to have dinner table conversations. Theoretically, you're supposed to intensively analyze your patient and guide him through complex shit; in reality, the average therapist has the IQ and energy of a blowfish.

If you are a somewhat decent psychologist with the desire to help your patients you have to deal in an empathic manner with the traumas of your patients, can be pretty heavy/exhausting to do, particularly when you are chaining patients. But most psychologists are moving away from psychoanalysis to practice behavioral cognitive therapy because it is easier and mostly only does surface work instead of dealing with the roots(traumas) of the patients' problems. So I guess I kind of agree.

 

[Incellectual]

I've seen so many therapists and I've only liked 2 overall. All the foids I had to see were worthless and offered nothing. I went to a therapeutic boarding school once for a year and the therapist I had there was chill and he didn't make me do the dumb exercises/therapy things everyone else had to do. The last one I went to fired me because he said I would never get better and that I'm stuck this way.

If you are a somewhat decent psychologist with the desire to help your patients you have to deal in an empathic manner with the traumas of your patients, can be pretty heavy/exhausting to do, particularly when you are chaining patients. But most psychologists are moving away from psychoanalysis to practice behavioral cognitive therapy because it is easier and mostly only does surface work instead of dealing with the roots(traumas) of the patients' problems. So I guess I kind of agree.

most psychologists are quacks tbh. I've legit a bunch just whip out a dsm (not even the current one with one. She had the DSM III) and find the closest thing to whatever you were describing and go with that. With this method I've been "diagnosed" with numerous things that don't even make sense in combination or are literally impossible to have together. Most barely think about your case and will try to "fix" it in the quickest, easiest way possible.

 

[Fontaine]

I've seen so many therapists and I've only liked 2 overall. All the foids I had to see were worthless and offered nothing.

Offering something else than "be positive, bro" to depressed ugly male teenagers is why I study psychology and will ultimately open my therapy clinic. The current situation in therapy is positively criminal.

If you are a somewhat decent psychologist with the desire to help your patients you have to deal in an empathic manner with the traumas of your patients, can be pretty heavy/exhausting to do, particularly when you are chaining patients. But most psychologists are moving away from psychoanalysis to practice behavioral cognitive therapy because it is easier and mostly only does surface work instead of dealing with the roots(traumas) of the patients' problems. So I guess I kind of agree.

I'm already quite used to true human suffering (contra most therapists).

The hardest part of being a therapist is getting the diploma; there is a lot of BS to swallow and regurgitate.

 

[Incellectual]

Offering something else than "be positive, bro" to depressed ugly male teenagers is why I study psychology and will ultimately open my therapy clinic. The current situation in therapy is positively criminal.

I'm already quite used to true human suffering (contra most therapists).

The hardest part of being a therapist is getting the diploma; there is a lot of BS to swallow and regurgitate.

there needs to be more male therapists tbh. Its full to the brim with foids who only work in that field because they wanted to party and fuck their entire education.

 

[CompleteFuckingLoser]

I went to a therapist twice in my life.

The first was for my anger issues I had as a child. It was a very positive experience and it definitely stopped me from hurting myself (punching walls, hitting my head on shit, other autistic stuff).

The second time I went to the therapist was for depression. Going to a therapist for depression is a HUGE scam. They want to keep bringing you back for as long as possible.
I went for about a year, but I realized like a month in that the therapist (who was the same person who helped me before) was really just trying to keep my parents paying. Complete scam.

I would always feel anxious and depressed before going to the therapist, which was what I was trying to solve in the first place. Eventually I left and my life improved drastically.

 

[Fontaine]

there needs to be more male therapists tbh. Its full to the brim with foids who only work in that field because they wanted to party and fuck their entire education.

I will never forget the dead eyes and total lack of anything interesting to say of my female therapists when I told them I hated being ugly and celibate.

 

[Deleted member 12256]

They are frauds, they only want your money. For me therapy doesn't really works and it won't help you.

 

[blackcel]

Shit poll. You have answers to 4 different questiosn but you can only select two answers.

But yeah, I went to therapy and it did help a lot. Probably because there was someone to hold me accountable for the shit I said I was going to do to improve myself, and not treat me like a piece of shit if I do fail to reach my goals. Also nice to have someone to challenge your thinking.

Going to the therapist was my own decision, and chose exclusively male therapists. I don't think therapy will work for anyone who is forced to do it. I did end up having one female psychatrist and she was by far the most useless of the lot.

 

[Johny.speiz]

Femoid therapists are just women who've taken an easy route through life. She slutted around in high school, bullying ugly boys constantly. Got into a university to do an easy, shit course like psychology. Again, she slutted it up, every weekend she'd fuck new Chads and have the most degenerate sex, while ignoring ugly men. Now she puts minimal effort (just like she has all her life) into what she does, just whiling away the years and still holding onto the vague hope of holding down a Chad to marry, completely ignoring ugly males again.

Did you really expect serious help from this woman?

Actually, this particular therapist looked smart and was showing an intention to help, during my first visit. I believed she might be a good therapist. By the way, I had to attend a group therapy, so I didn't really choose her, but individual therapy is included, so I took the opportunity.

Last visit, she showed how manipulative and how of a liar she is, turns everything to her advantage, instead of helping me to solve my troubles.
Heard she is married, to whom it's out of my knowledge, may be a chad or not.

Shit poll. You have answers to 4 different questiosn but you can only select two answers.

My bad, forgot to mark the poll "unlimited choice".

there needs to be more male therapists tbh. Its full to the brim with foids who only work in that field because they wanted to party and fuck their entire education.

Problem is most of them are foids.
Went to a few male therapists, they were all useless.
One was probably a betacuck, other was a soyboy, next was too preoccupied about his image and spent more time and efforts in marketing than really helping his patients, but was very good in billing.

It's really hard to chose a good therapist, especially a men, and moreover a competent one.