The worst thing about online dating.......

[southeastoldcel]

Isn't that that's how so many people form actual relationships now and we are pretty much excluded from it. And thus other avenues(where we may have historically
had a 2-3% chance) are devalued.

Don't get me wrong, the above is bad and hurts us.

The worst part of it is actually on the 1-2% chance we ever manage to get into a semi-successful romantic relationship with a woman, the woman *constantly* has the option of just hopping back on online dating as an appealing option. It's impossible to maintain a relationship as an incel(even if a miracle happens and you ever get one)
when that option is so damn tempting for them........

30+ years ago dependent women who don't want to be alone may have been with a borderline-incel and had some frustrations about the relationship, but the one hope for the incel was the woman's reluctance to break something off and know that it may be awhile before she gets any quality attention/interest.

Now? It literally takes 45 seconds to re-load the pics, reactivate bumble and voila.....attention galore. And with that, even the smallest leverage the incel had to hang onto the relationship is gone.

 

[southeastoldcel]

The worst thing about online dating.......​

Normie tier statement ngl

it's all along a spectrum/continuum......discussions/arguments about whether someone is a very low tier 'normie'(got I hate these words) vs an
incel with a non-autistic personality who showers daily are dumb. The point is they aren't able to typically get romantic relationships and certainly not maintain them. And that's the bottom line.

 

[southeastoldcel]

I wonder how far that gets you out in real world/life when someone gives an honest answer devoid of malicious intent or sarcasm and was well thought out and logical to boot, and you just respond with thoughtless snarky repetitive non-sequitirs(and with no basis).......I would imagine not very far.

 

[ElTruecel]

It’s a cope

 

[PersonaPimp]

I have never obtained a match with a real foid who wasn't a catfish/scammer on a dating app despite always swiping right on every single foid I see.