The worst part about being an incel is that you overhype sex

[Deleted member 306]

BY NO MEANS AM I IMPLYING THAT SEX IS NOTHING AND IT DOESN'T MATTER LIKE SOME NORMIES DO. On the contrary, it's good and quite beneficial for you both phycially and mentally. My point is that it's not as super special awesome as we make it out to be. As years go by, we become more desperate so sex starts becoming even more important to us to the point that it is all we can think about sometimes. All these Normies that have had sex were never so hyped about it. They did it at a reasonably normal age and it happened naturally for them so they didn't build up desperation like we did.

Incels like us, on the other hand, did not manage to get laid by our early 20s so we started obsessing over sex. We end up glorifying and overhyping it which makes us crave it even more. It's a fucking loop. We are so desprate that we overvalue sex and because we think it's so amazing we end up craving it more and become more desperate. And as time goes by this desperation and frustration grow stronger. There is no escape from the incel loop.

 

[non_factor]

Again,it's not about sex,but the validation that comes with it.

 

[Deleted member 56]

Again,it's not about sex,but the validation that comes with it.

This. A million times. If I want sex I will fuck an escort. Won’t fix my inceldom though.

 

[IdealMaxilla]

the validation part is a meme too

when incels get sex its not like when chad does, there is very little validation in it. women will almost go out of their way to make it seem like you just got lucky, or had to work for it.

when she fucks chad she gushes all over his cawk and screams how hot he is

 

[Deleted member 306]

the validation part is a meme too

when incels get sex its not like when chad does, there is very little validation in it. women will almost go out of their way to make it seem like you just got lucky, or had to work for it.

when she fucks chad she gushes all over his cawk and screams how hot he is

Incel don't get sex. Although, I do agree on what you said. It's certaintly not as satisfying as what chad gets.

 

[IdealMaxilla]

Incel don't get sex. Although, I do agree on what you said. It's certaintly not as satisfying as what chad gets.

the desire for sex to get validation as an ugly male is misguided. the desire to get a girlfriend to fill some whole in your life is misguided. there is no escape from being ugly and the low serotonin lifestyle that comes with it unless you somehow get lucky with surgery coping.

 

[Red Shambhala]

Incels like us, on the other hand, did not manage to get laid by our early 20s so we started obsessing over sex. We end up glorifying and overhyping it

This.
The way sex and females are worshipped, glorified, deified here is just sick. And pathetic. Honestly. That female worshipping! It's disgusting! This sometimes feels like a cult where women are worshipped as goddesses who withhold their mercy from men who are not worthy. And since only these goddesses can give mere mortals' lives meaning, you can just as well kill yourself if you don't find favor in the goddess's eyes. This place needs some atheists who bring down the gods.

 

[Deleted member 306]

the desire for sex to get validation as an ugly male is misguided. the desire to get a girlfriend to fill some whole in your life is misguided. there is no escape from being ugly and the low serotonin lifestyle that comes with it unless you somehow get lucky with surgery coping.

Sex improves looks and self perception though.

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This.
The way sex and females are worshipped, glorified, deified here is just sick. And pathetic. Honestly. That female worshipping! It's disgusting! This sometimes feels like a cult where women are worshipped as goddesses who withhold their mercy from men who are not worthy. And since only these goddesses can give mere mortals' lives meaning, you can just as well kill yourself if you don't find favor in the goddess's eyes.

I like your analogy. This wouldn't have happened if we were "normal". It's liek food. The more starved you are the more important it is to you.

 

[nausea]

This.
The way sex and females are worshipped, glorified, deified here is just sick. And pathetic. Honestly. That female worshipping! It's disgusting! This sometimes feels like a cult where women are worshipped as goddesses who withhold their mercy from men who are not worthy. And since only these goddesses can give mere mortals' lives meaning, you can just as well kill yourself if you don't find favor in the goddess's eyes. This place needs some atheists who bring down the gods.

best post describing IDOLATRY

 

[Deleted member 306]

It’s not about sex but about the potency of the halo effect.

If it was just about sexual gratification I’d just get an escort; but it’s not. It’s much deeper than that.

It's about the idea that someone likes you.

 

[BlaKdaGGeRz]

the desire for sex to get validation as an ugly male is misguided. the desire to get a girlfriend to fill some whole in your life is misguided. there is no escape from being ugly and the low serotonin lifestyle that comes with it unless you somehow get lucky with surgery coping.

Whats the point of living then jeeeeeez. Maybe the buddhist monks are right when they try to control their desires... imagine if we had no desire to feel validation from women. Just enjoy the day.. nice sunshine... beautiful nature.... nothing but that. No desire to get validation from women or sex... now that I think about it its so silly. Why do we care so much about validation from dumb bitches when we already taken the black pill and know their twisted nature? Like actually. Who the hell cares. Well... yes I have to admit I DO care only because of this feeling of longing for validation and also my sex drive... two desires....

 

[nausea]

Whats the point of living then jeeeeeez. Maybe the buddhist monks are right when they try to control their desires... imagine if we had no desire to feel validation from women. Just enjoy the day.. nice sunshine... beautiful nature.... nothing but that. No desire to get validation from women or sex... now that I think about it its so silly. Why do we care so much about validation from dumb bitches when we already taken the black pill and know their twisted nature? Like actually. Who the hell cares. Well... yes I have to admit I DO care only because of this feeling of longing for validation and also my sex drive... two desires....

because we are biochemical machines

we are fucking trapped

no escape

 

[IdealMaxilla]

Whats the point of living then jeeeeeez. Maybe the buddhist monks are right when they try to control their desires... imagine if we had no desire to feel validation from women. Just enjoy the day.. nice sunshine... beautiful nature.... nothing but that. No desire to get validation from women or sex... now that I think about it its so silly. Why do we care so much about validation from dumb bitches when we already taken the black pill and know their twisted nature? Like actually. Who the hell cares. Well... yes I have to admit I DO care only because of this feeling of longing for validation and also my sex drive... two desires....

There is a point to living and thats up to you to find it's just not in the cards to draw happiness from validation of females as a sub-Chad male and you have to accept that. Monk tier is advanced but admitting you are genetic trash to females and will never get the things you wanted from them is a big step. Most incels here are too deluded and low-sentience to make that step.

 

[BlaKdaGGeRz]

because we are biochemical machines

we are fucking trapped

no escape

This is implying there is something else other than this machine. A soul type thing. Maybe the Gnostics are right, do not reincarnate and do not go back into the light.... escape and go to our true realm (God's Realm aka Heaven aka Nirvana aka Realm of the True Light (not false one) aka what if this is just cope....)

 

[A Good Friend]

the desire for sex to get validation as an ugly male is misguided. the desire to get a girlfriend to fill some whole in your life is misguided. there is no escape from being ugly and the low serotonin lifestyle that comes with it unless you somehow get lucky with surgery coping.

Whats the point of living then jeeeeeez. Maybe the buddhist monks are right when they try to control their desires... imagine if we had no desire to feel validation from women. Just enjoy the day.. nice sunshine... beautiful nature.... nothing but that. No desire to get validation from women or sex... now that I think about it its so silly. Why do we care so much about validation from dumb bitches when we already taken the black pill and know their twisted nature? Like actually. Who the hell cares. Well... yes I have to admit I DO care only because of this feeling of longing for validation and also my sex drive... two desires....

I'm afraid it doesn't work that way. Killing the validation of sex just leads to anhedonia, then eventually death. Once you can't appreciate one aspect of nature like sex, you eventually cannot appreciate even the setting sun.

 

[BlaKdaGGeRz]

There is a point to living and thats up to you to find it's just not in the cards to draw happiness from validation of females as a sub-Chad male and you have to accept that. Monk tier is advanced but admitting you are genetic trash to females and will never get the things you wanted from them is a big step. Most incels here are too deluded and low-sentience to make that step.

Thing is for me if I normie maxx and looksmaxx and get a good job I can probably actually find a normal looking GF... who will cuck me eventaully but. Yea I admit im not a truecel since I haven't lookmaxxed to the actual max yet but still im 24 years and kissless virgin. Hopefully I can escape inceldom. But honeslty whats the point if all I get are Chad's scraps.

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I'm afraid it doesn't work that way. Killing the validation of sex just leads to anhedonia, then eventually death. Once you can't appreciate one aspect of nature like sex, you eventually cannot appreciate even the setting sun.

Very true in fact I had anhedonia once i started sertraline due to my reduced sex drive it sucked felt like doing absolutely nothing.

 

[nausea]

I'm afraid it doesn't work that way. Killing the validation of sex just leads to anhedonia, then eventually death. Once you can't appreciate one aspect of nature like sex, you eventually cannot appreciate even the setting sun.

yea I too suspect we will never fool our brain , too much complexity

I WANT LOBOTOMY NOW

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Very true in fact I had anhedonia once i started sertraline due to my reduced sex drive it sucked felt like doing absolutely nothing.

been on sertraline for years but never got anedonia, got anorgasmia at times ...

 

[BlaKdaGGeRz]

yea I too suspect we will never fool our brain , too much complexity

I WANT LOBOTOMY NOW

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been on sertraline for years but never got anedonia, got anorgasmia at times ...

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Could of just been my mental problems i don't know.

 

[Deleted member 60]

BY NO MEANS AM I IMPLYING THAT SEX IS NOTHING AND IT DOESN'T MATTER LIKE SOME NORMIES DO. On the contrary, it's good and quite beneficial for you both phycially and mentally. My point is that it's not as super special awesome as we make it out to be. As years go by, we become more desperate so sex starts becoming even more important to us to the point that it is all we can think about sometimes. All these Normies that have had sex were never so hyped about it. They did it at a reasonably normal age and it happened naturally for them so they didn't build up desperation like we did.

Incels like us, on the other hand, did not manage to get laid by our early 20s so we started obsessing over sex. We end up glorifying and overhyping it which makes us crave it even more. It's a fucking loop. We are so desprate that we overvalue sex and because we think it's so amazing we end up craving it more and become more desperate. And as time goes by this desperation and frustration grow stronger. There is no escape from the incel loop.

and worst of all, this means we will likely be disappointed if we finally get it. Fuck this life.

 

[Deleted member 306]

and worst of all, this means we will likely be disappointed if we finally get it. Fuck this life.

Yep. But we won't so don't worry.

 

[Indari]

Yes I am like this with social interaction and probably sex too. It is impossible not to. It pisses me the fuck off when normies act like they are nothing. They go way overboard in downplaying it, like both aren't essential parts of life.

 

[Deleted member 306]

Yes I am like this with social interaction and probably sex too. It is impossible not to. It pisses me the fuck off when normies act like they are nothing. They go way overboard in downplaying it, like both aren't essential parts of life.

If you have something you don't appreciate it much.