It's Over The "What If" factor

[Deleted member 5712]

Many people here, including myself at times, can easily get caught up in finding hope or some form of optimism by dadreaming or contemplating a different life or lifestyle altogether than the one we are currently living.
>If I just kissed her...
>If I just worked out more...
>If I just paid attention to her flirting back then...
We constantly ask ourselves how we ended up here no matter how many times we claim we lost all hope. Some incels even trying to prove the JB[Whatever]] theories via surgery or travel or money.

I propose that our virginity is a CONSTANT all throughout the multiverse. There is no Door 1 got you a gf and Door 2 made a wife out of your oneitis. Your life went through different paths yes but all paths lead to inceldom. In one life you are a police officer that ended up a strung out virgin and died on the job. Another (YOU) was a serial killer because lack of sex. Yet an even other (YOU) created an amazing vaccine that saved billions of lives and you had wealth and fame but still lived a miserable life in a mansion due to no female validation.

We take the "What If"s as usually for the better and greater good in our lives but Im starting to think there never was a "good ending" for us to begin with. We play to lose.

 

[Deleted member 265]

thought was low iq post from first paragraph but turned into HIGH IQ in the next 2

 

[Deleted member 14577]

I don't bother with "what if"s

 

[Deleted member 1410]

JBW or JBB depends on your location, your environment and your attitude towards your community (whether on how you were raised, your biological makeup, or a combination of both), usually sets the tone, while biology (any attributes to your appearance DO factor in), your environment and morals (or lacktherof) and principles determine your success rate. there is no actual predetermination to whether you will or not, but the trifecta of biology/location/culture affects the outcome.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

That would fit into looks theory, with genetics being the constant.