It's Over The urges begin if I miss 2 fap sessions

[RegularManlet]

I usually fap once at night in bed to help fall asleep and not be bored trying to fall asleep.

Then once more in morning in bed to get rid of the morning wood and its comfy to just chill in bed before getting up, I am an incel with not much to do.

Last night I was tired and did not fap and then this morning I thought fuck it I won't do it I will break the cycle but I already have urges lol

Guess I am nofapping but it probably will not last, I get more energy when I do not fap in the mornings but I don't think my nightly faps really effect much, it's nice not having to wipe the cum away and shit with tissues though especially since I am really hairy.

 

[Socio Cynical]

I've heard from sexhavers that men often need the release to sleep, since you don't have a woman to fuck you resort to jacking off.

 

[RegularManlet]

I've heard from sexhavers that men often need the release to sleep, since you don't have a woman to fuck you resort to jacking off.

I find I can sleep pretty well with it, I might start doing my nightly sessions only but no morning stuff at all.

Idk I have done weeks of nofap before involved with limiting screen time and excercising and that still has me laying awake lying in bed for awhile. Laying awake in bed is torture for me since I am so lonely and friendless I have nothing to reflect on but my loneliness and virginity.

 

[ZeroCel]

Idk I have done weeks of nofap before

Was it worth it?

 

[RegularManlet]

Was it worth it?

Yes and No

You don't get anything out of it really, its more the fact that you are not weighed down by the negatives of fapping, but there are no positive gains from abstaining, it just makes you hornier, you find lower SMV foids way more attractive than you usually would.

But in a way yes, when I have gone weeks at a time without fapping I got a sort of placebo out of it because I thought I was gonna self improoooooove

I do get a bit more energy when I do not fap though, because fapping in the morning makes me tired, and I will avoid fapping by getting out of bed shortly after I wake up, so I also get more time in the day in a way too because I am not fapping. It feels hard to nofap with no social life though.

 

[Socio Cynical]

Laying awake in bed is torture for me

Just be glad you don't suffer from constant sleep paralysis, waking nightmares, auditory hallucinations, night terrors, and sleepwalking on top of all that shit.
I can't ever get a nights rest.
Sometimes I do drugs just to get a deep sleep. I'd take Ketamine if I had the money.

I thought I was gonna self improoooooove

Every time I try nofap I give up because I can't find a reason to try so hard.

 

[RegularManlet]

Just be glad you don't suffer from constant sleep paralysis, waking nightmares, auditory hallucinations, night terrors, and sleepwalking on top of all that shit.

Yeah I am grateful for that, I guess torture was an extreme word idk why I used it, but it is tedious and very boring and my mind does wander to dark places, I can have some dreams sometimes where I wake up with a shitty sleep because of it though, that is annoying.

Every time I try nofap I give up because I can't find a reason to try so hard.

Yeah there is no reason, like ok I have this extra energy but I am still incel.

 

[Socio Cynical]

Yeah there is no reason, like ok I have this extra energy but I am still incel.

It's the same with jobs, like why would I work as an incel and have to listen to my boomer coworkers complain that their wife was too tired to wake them up with his usual morning blowjob.

 

[RegularManlet]

It's the same with jobs, like why would I work as an incel and have to listen to my boomer coworkers complain that their wife was too tired to wake them up with his usual morning blowjob.

Never had a job like that lol, job is a bit different probably because you can trade your time for money and you have time as an incel.