This will be a very long post but it's something I've always wanted to get off my chest and this is the best place to do that. Hoping a few of you can relate. Basically the curse of my life has been the fact that I get no IOIs from women whatsoever ever no matter what I try or do. Seeing women show interest in other random guys is bad enough but it's fleeting and temporary. It repeats over and over again sure but I've somewhat learned to live with it. The ultimate pain for me is the curse of always somehow managing to have a better looking friend throughout my life and watch them live the sort of life that I am denied right in front of me. It is so close yet so far.
One thing I always hear people say is that true incels never have friends and a good social life/circle but I say you have never truly experience the true horrors of inceldom until you see your social circle thrive with girls while your life rots and the years go by watching it happen for those around you and never you.
I thought the best way to illustrate this is in pictures. I grew up in the UK in a place and time when the thing that mattered most to girls was who was the loudest or the most aggressive or toughest rather than looks so the true realisation of inceldom didn't hit me until secondary/high school, college and after. I thought girls would appreciate my looks after these times but that never happened because I don't have looks.
For starters here is my best friend for life who is also unfortunately my best looking friend. Serbian but looks italian. Constant interest from girls his whole life but is still self conscious and has low confidence. He actually had to delete his Facebook back before the Tinder days because random girls were adding and messaging him so often on it and now he can't use it becaue his 10/10 girlfriend gets jealous. I'm constantly asked by girls in clubs if he's single and have watched him get approached by girls of all types for our whole friendship. Funny thing is his only reason for going out is to help me get laid which has never worked. Every girl in his workplace wants him and have asked him out :-
Best friends older brother. Taller version of my best friend basically. Grew up idolising this guy. Every girl in school wanted him and eventually, as he looked better with age, the same thing happened with my best friend:-
Another close friend. Part hawaiian but gets mistaken for Asian. Again girls ask me about him whenever they see him and have always been blown away when they see him:-
My friend from school who I went the pub with regularly during my years just after school when I was hoping to meet a girl. He always did well and met his future wife during that time which meant I had to move on and find other friends (that's not me on the right btw, that's his brother):-
Another of my best friends who always got a lot of interest (on right in both pics and I'm on the left). I actually remember being out just me and him and a flock of fat overweight girls on a hen do spotted him and all begged him to go with them because they were looking for a sexy man and acted like I wasn't even there. Stuff like that happened a lot even though he spoke to women like shit when he was drunk:-
My best friends cousin who is also Serbian. We went to stay with him over there for a week. Tip - do not go to Serbia. Skinny model type girls and guys who look like him. A ginger English guy like me had no chance there. Don't think anyone even looked me in the eyes the whole holiday. He is a gamer guy with very little money who has a geeky personality but it didn't stop him getting a cute girlfriend and constant interest whenever he leaves the house:-
https://imgur.com/a/InpsT
A friend of my best friend who came on a lads holiday to Magaluf with us. Despite being out of shape he got interest left right and centre from girls and does whenever I go out with him here too because well...face:-
https://imgur.com/a/Qsfzt
After leaving school I went to college after taking a couple of years out. This was my friend during my college years. We also did work experience together. All the girls in the college class liked him and the girls on the work experience liked him:-
https://imgur.com/a/C0mXJ
I worked with this guy for 2 years during my previous job and sat next to him. I had to sit and watch daily as all the girls in the office flirted with him or looked right through me at him whenever they came into work. I also went to clubs with him and he told me he thought I looked better than him. He asked a group of girls who looked better out of me and him to prove it to me and...well you can guess what they said:-
https://imgur.com/a/Az2zL
This guy is my second best friend and probably my 2nd best looking friend too. He goes between being out of shape to in shape but no matter what he always gets interest but doesn't have the confidence to do anything about it. He is very self conscious but still girls are telling him how handsome he is. We work together and a new cunt girl who works with us laughs at his smallest of jokes whereas she doesn't even look at me:-
https://imgur.com/a/NHpRV
A few other friends who I know through my second best friend. These guys all do better in a month than I have done in my life:-
https://imgur.com/a/penMt
And here's me:-
https://imgur.com/a/FW1rK
So THAT is why I hate being incel basically.
One thing I always hear people say is that true incels never have friends and a good social life/circle but I say you have never truly experience the true horrors of inceldom until you see your social circle thrive with girls while your life rots and the years go by watching it happen for those around you and never you.
I thought the best way to illustrate this is in pictures. I grew up in the UK in a place and time when the thing that mattered most to girls was who was the loudest or the most aggressive or toughest rather than looks so the true realisation of inceldom didn't hit me until secondary/high school, college and after. I thought girls would appreciate my looks after these times but that never happened because I don't have looks.
For starters here is my best friend for life who is also unfortunately my best looking friend. Serbian but looks italian. Constant interest from girls his whole life but is still self conscious and has low confidence. He actually had to delete his Facebook back before the Tinder days because random girls were adding and messaging him so often on it and now he can't use it becaue his 10/10 girlfriend gets jealous. I'm constantly asked by girls in clubs if he's single and have watched him get approached by girls of all types for our whole friendship. Funny thing is his only reason for going out is to help me get laid which has never worked. Every girl in his workplace wants him and have asked him out :-
Best friends older brother. Taller version of my best friend basically. Grew up idolising this guy. Every girl in school wanted him and eventually, as he looked better with age, the same thing happened with my best friend:-
Another close friend. Part hawaiian but gets mistaken for Asian. Again girls ask me about him whenever they see him and have always been blown away when they see him:-
My friend from school who I went the pub with regularly during my years just after school when I was hoping to meet a girl. He always did well and met his future wife during that time which meant I had to move on and find other friends (that's not me on the right btw, that's his brother):-
Another of my best friends who always got a lot of interest (on right in both pics and I'm on the left). I actually remember being out just me and him and a flock of fat overweight girls on a hen do spotted him and all begged him to go with them because they were looking for a sexy man and acted like I wasn't even there. Stuff like that happened a lot even though he spoke to women like shit when he was drunk:-
My best friends cousin who is also Serbian. We went to stay with him over there for a week. Tip - do not go to Serbia. Skinny model type girls and guys who look like him. A ginger English guy like me had no chance there. Don't think anyone even looked me in the eyes the whole holiday. He is a gamer guy with very little money who has a geeky personality but it didn't stop him getting a cute girlfriend and constant interest whenever he leaves the house:-
https://imgur.com/a/InpsT
A friend of my best friend who came on a lads holiday to Magaluf with us. Despite being out of shape he got interest left right and centre from girls and does whenever I go out with him here too because well...face:-
https://imgur.com/a/Qsfzt
After leaving school I went to college after taking a couple of years out. This was my friend during my college years. We also did work experience together. All the girls in the college class liked him and the girls on the work experience liked him:-
https://imgur.com/a/C0mXJ
I worked with this guy for 2 years during my previous job and sat next to him. I had to sit and watch daily as all the girls in the office flirted with him or looked right through me at him whenever they came into work. I also went to clubs with him and he told me he thought I looked better than him. He asked a group of girls who looked better out of me and him to prove it to me and...well you can guess what they said:-
https://imgur.com/a/Az2zL
This guy is my second best friend and probably my 2nd best looking friend too. He goes between being out of shape to in shape but no matter what he always gets interest but doesn't have the confidence to do anything about it. He is very self conscious but still girls are telling him how handsome he is. We work together and a new cunt girl who works with us laughs at his smallest of jokes whereas she doesn't even look at me:-
https://imgur.com/a/NHpRV
A few other friends who I know through my second best friend. These guys all do better in a month than I have done in my life:-
https://imgur.com/a/penMt
And here's me:-
https://imgur.com/a/FW1rK
So THAT is why I hate being incel basically.
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