The Strange Ability To Easily Refuse Friendships

[Feeshtu]

I made a post yesterday about seeing a foid that I hadn’t seen in a few years.

But, it got me thinking.

How is it so easy for people to refuse to be someone’s friend?

I know some of my incel brothers here have made posts about not wanting friends.
Maybe you could show me where I am wrong.

At times, I myself have not wanted friends.
But, it’s been brief moments.

Most of the time, I would do anything to get a friend and do anything for a friend.

Ask of Feeshtu and Feeshtu will do so.

It seems these people must have a lot of friends.
Or have just been too traumatized by past bad friendships.

How does one have so many friends that they don’t have space in their lives for one more?

Is it just a judgement?
That I am not good enough?

I tell you surely, I would be friends with literally anyone.

Be my friend and I will never forsake you.
I will stand my ground to defend you against your enemies, no matter the odds.

And that is another point.
How is it that they abandon their friends so easily?
As if all the good times have been forgotten.

The irony of being the best friend someone could have…..is that I have no friends.

 

[Xul]

Im not reading all that but i will tell most people to their face i dont like them to avoid more talking, i think im medium inhib depends on the day.

 

[guessthatsit]

I relate to this post bro. Ive always tried to be a good and loyal person in friendships but people have walked all over me like a carpet so now I don't even try to make friends.

 

[KetamineCel]

all my friends treated my like shit i still stayed trying to be “friends” because i knew no one else would want to be

 

[La Longue Fourchett]

I love my free time and being able to spend my time how I wish.
With friends, you gotta have a phone call when all you want is to go to bed. Or your weekend gets ruined because they found a "nice" restaurant.
A wise sage once said that men rape women physically and go to jail. But women can rape men of their time and face no consequences.
Kinda how I see most friendship

 

[elf]

Mostly festering melancholia faulty pair bonding ability and anhedonia