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The stages of enchantment done by refractory women

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For the good men who have not found a partner yet and do not know what to do, I will now give some tips. I do it only to help the good ones, since the women show preference for the bad (Eliphas Lévi is the one who first drew my attention to this fact). These tips are only for the disadvantaged to cope with the preferred and overtake them in the fierce competition for females.

The work of enchanting has three great stages. In the first, we have no contact with the one we wish to possess. In the second, we get the contact but the intentions are not revealed. In the third, the intentions are revealed. The seduction of strangers belongs to the first stage. The friendship belongs to the second. All relationships that happen after declaring what we want belongs to the third. Let us study the first one.

The model that guides all the work of enchantment is the narrowing of intimacy mixed with indifference and disinterest.

Set your gaze on a woman who is exaggeratedly "pretty", snooty, snobbish and unintelligent. You will see her deflecting from you. What will be happen in these moments is a rejection, a refusal derived of thoughts in her petulant turkey brain (I return the taunts of Karen Salmanshon, who compares us in her entire book to dogs that must be domesticated (she does it explicitly and literally). In spite of everything, I am referring only to futile women, those who tend to despise the sincere men, not the others. I limit this observation exclusively to the field of love and I do not extend it to other fields). What will she be thinking? It is easy to guess: you are just an idiot more like any other, who has nothing interesting because, if it were not so, it would have some filly next to it and would despise all the others. Therefore, it is waste of time to stay flirting in this mode because at ladies that will correspond will be only the very "ugly" and boring (according to social conventions. Since beauty does not exist from an objective perspective, it is meant to be "ugly" those who do not consider themselves attractive to the point of despising and disdaining the sincere love of the "uninteresting" or "erased") that feel rejected and not the best (according to the same social conventions. The modern society overestimates the feminine beauty and blames only men for it. But in truth, women who look in the mirror and consider themselves "pretty" are often the first to despise and feel superior to ordinary women and men). Only the desperate accept harasser men.

The most desirable ones keep the guard continuously closed and it is hopeless for us to try to penetrate. What you have to do is get them to open their guard willingly. To allow opening, you must transmit rejection or indifference (it is not a question of simulating but of acquiring an internal state of true neutrality that will reveal itself in its attitudes). You must find a silent way of telling her, as if you did not want to do it, that she is uninteresting and that you do not notice her. To do so, simply ignore her presence, avoiding looking at her body and face. But that is not all.

Once you have done so, you will have her bothered, as you may notice by her gestures and movements (touching the hair, move herself around more, touching in clothes, talk loudly to be noticed, etc). You will begin to be observed, with peripheral or focal vision. Surprise her, greeting her in a dare, fearless way, before there is time to think and then look in her eyes while extremely serious but still with some indifference. If you can catch her looking at you, there will not be another output besides to correspond to its greeting. The contact will have been established. Then, if you want to start a conversation, speak in command tone, with a serious voice, and always attentive to emotional "counterattacks"; jokes of bad taste, cynicism, etc. If you notice the opening, make the move but with the care of not going above or below the allowed. If the barrier remains, that is, if the woman still keep herself closed, giving no sign of an opening for an attack, then disagree of her opinions, provoke a discussion but do not end it. So offer a phone number to continue it, giving a waiting period.

In extreme cases, it is necessary to impress her very much, "horrifying her" (the first author who mentioned this "horror" strategy, as I recall, was Eliphas Levi. Its precise meaning here is simply to counteract the feminine convictions about the beautiful or the correct and never, ever, to threaten it or expose it to any real or imaginary dangers. This contradiction must always have a beneficial or harmless final result to the woman and never harmful. It is similar to what boys instinctively do to impress girls at school when they pretend to eat frogs, geckos, etc. They scream, they run, and they laugh. In "Hitch" with Will Smith, the calculated and harmless "horror" is described by the term "shock", equally prone to misinterpretation, and there is a very interesting example) in a calculated way. Do not go "horrify" her in any manner: impress her correctly so the result is not a disaster. A good way to mark her imagination to keep it thinking about you for a long time is assuming yourself as a machista (enlightened, conscious, peaceful and protective, of course) because your rivals always pretend (and therefore they will not be sincere nor true) they are feminists to please. What matters here is to stand out as a different, secure guy, who is not afraid to show his convictions (without exaggeration) and that does not need anyone. Regarding this detail, Eliphas Lévi tells us the following:

"The one who wants to make himself loved (we attribute to man only all these illegitimate maneuvers, supposing that a woman does not need it) must, at first, insinuate himself and produce any impression in the imagination of the person who is the object of his greed. May it cause admiration, astonishment, terror [cough] and even horror (Levi is merely describing the process of seduction/conquest, as it happens in real life, regardless of whether or not the perpetrator has scruples, and not in recommending that emotional harm must be done to the person being seduced. In other words, he is saying that the one who seduces impresses upon the psyche of the desired person, for good or bad, be it harmless or harmful) if he has no other resource. It is necessary, at any cost, that in the eyes of that person he should stand out from ordinary men, and that he may reside, willingly or by force, a place in their memories, in their fears or even in their dreams. The Lovelace are certainly not the confessed ideal of the Clarices, but they constantly think of them to censor them, to curse them, to pity their victims, to wish his conversion and his repentance. Soon they will want to regenerate them through abnegation and forgiveness; then the secret vanity will tell them that it would be charming to win the love of a Lovelace, to love and resist him; when said that she wanted to love him, she blushes, renounces it a thousand times more and ends up loving him a thousand times more; later, when the supreme moment arrives, she forgets to resist him." (LÉVI, 1885/2001, page 337)

"It could be said that love, especially in women, is a true hallucination. In spite of another foolish motive, it will often be decided by the absurd. Deceive Gioconda, because of a hidden treasure? How horrible! Well, if it is a horror, why not perform it? It is so good to do a little horror every now and then!" (LÉVI, 1855/2001, page 338)

Levi refers to a small (and therefore harmless) horror. His explanation helps to understand why the feminine gender feels so attracted by certain evil and wicked men. They impress them strongly, much more than certain good men. To overcome them, you must master this skill and use it for good, in the right way. If you use it for evil, will attract bad consequences for you.

Some women usually show themselves initially open but, after the contact, they become muted to disconcert us, observing how we get out of this embarrassing situation and having fun at our expense. In this case, be short and direct (without being aggressive or uncontrolled) in your comments, taking the initiative of ending the conversation before look embarrassed. If you are on the phone, take the initiative to disconnect; if you are talking face-to-face, take the initiative to end the dialogue and walk away without looking back. Postpone the investees for another day, giving her a good lesson. That will impress her. Normally, in the following contacts the lesson takes effect and makes her more amiable... Do not make the attacks while the guard is closed (that would be harassment. Investing against the closed guard of a woman is the same as trying to force her will or to violate her free will, something that is detestable and has the effect of disgust).

The conquest of a lady has stages ranging from the moment we do not know her until the phases in which we have to continuously reconquer it in marriages or other long-lasting relationships. In all phases it is necessary to dribble the resistances (not insisting against them and seeking alternative ways) and give it back the consequences of her own decisions. The passage of the phases could be synthesized more or less as follows:

1. Subtly greet every interesting woman who goes by and look at you. One of them will answer you. When a lady look at you, there is a fraction of a second when you should greet them, If you wait too long, you will miss your chance. The moment to greet her is the moment that hovers in the feminine mind a doubt resulting from the state of surprise. You can also ignore the presence of the beauty in a first moment, for a good time, and surprise her with a stare into the eyes accompanied by an greeting almost imperceptible before the recovery of the surprise.

2. Establish the contact as if did it not give much importance to the fact.

3. Look fixedly into the eyes, demonstrating power.

4. Talk in protective command tone.

5. Talk little, let her talk.

6. Get close to kiss her. If she looks away, stop and try another day. If she does not dodge, continue.
 
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For the good men who have not found a partner yet and do not know what to do, I will now give some tips. I do it only to help the good ones, since the women show preference for the bad (Eliphas Lévi is the one who first drew my attention to this fact). These tips are only for the disadvantaged to cope with the preferred and overtake them in the fierce competition for females.

The work of enchanting has three great stages. In the first, we have no contact with the one we wish to possess. In the second, we get the contact but the intentions are not revealed. In the third, the intentions are revealed. The seduction of strangers belongs to the first stage. The friendship belongs to the second. All relationships that happen after declaring what we want belongs to the third. Let us study the first one.

The model that guides all the work of enchantment is the narrowing of intimacy mixed with indifference and disinterest.

Set your gaze on a woman who is exaggeratedly "pretty", snooty, snobbish and unintelligent. You will see her deflecting from you. What will be happen in these moments is a rejection, a refusal derived of thoughts in her petulant turkey brain (I return the taunts of Karen Salmanshon, who compares us in her entire book to dogs that must be domesticated (she does it explicitly and literally). In spite of everything, I am referring only to futile women, those who tend to despise the sincere men, not the others. I limit this observation exclusively to the field of love and I do not extend it to other fields). What will she be thinking? It is easy to guess: you are just an idiot more like any other, who has nothing interesting because, if it were not so, it would have some filly next to it and would despise all the others. Therefore, it is waste of time to stay flirting in this mode because at ladies that will correspond will be only the very "ugly" and boring (according to social conventions. Since beauty does not exist from an objective perspective, it is meant to be "ugly" those who do not consider themselves attractive to the point of despising and disdaining the sincere love of the "uninteresting" or "erased") that feel rejected and not the best (according to the same social conventions. The modern society overestimates the feminine beauty and blames only men for it. But in truth, women who look in the mirror and consider themselves "pretty" are often the first to despise and feel superior to ordinary women and men). Only the desperate accept harasser men.

The most desirable ones keep the guard continuously closed and it is hopeless for us to try to penetrate. What you have to do is get them to open their guard willingly. To allow opening, you must transmit rejection or indifference (it is not a question of simulating but of acquiring an internal state of true neutrality that will reveal itself in its attitudes). You must find a silent way of telling her, as if you did not want to do it, that she is uninteresting and that you do not notice her. To do so, simply ignore her presence, avoiding looking at her body and face. But that is not all.

Once you have done so, you will have her bothered, as you may notice by her gestures and movements (touching the hair, move herself around more, touching in clothes, talk loudly to be noticed, etc). You will begin to be observed, with peripheral or focal vision. Surprise her, greeting her in a dare, fearless way, before there is time to think and then look in her eyes while extremely serious but still with some indifference. If you can catch her looking at you, there will not be another output besides to correspond to its greeting. The contact will have been established. Then, if you want to start a conversation, speak in command tone, with a serious voice, and always attentive to emotional "counterattacks"; jokes of bad taste, cynicism, etc. If you notice the opening, make the move but with the care of not going above or below the allowed. If the barrier remains, that is, if the woman still keep herself closed, giving no sign of an opening for an attack, then disagree of her opinions, provoke a discussion but do not end it. So offer a phone number to continue it, giving a waiting period.

In extreme cases, it is necessary to impress her very much, "horrifying her" (the first author who mentioned this "horror" strategy, as I recall, was Eliphas Levi. Its precise meaning here is simply to counteract the feminine convictions about the beautiful or the correct and never, ever, to threaten it or expose it to any real or imaginary dangers. This contradiction must always have a beneficial or harmless final result to the woman and never harmful. It is similar to what boys instinctively do to impress girls at school when they pretend to eat frogs, geckos, etc. They scream, they run, and they laugh. In "Hitch" with Will Smith, the calculated and harmless "horror" is described by the term "shock", equally prone to misinterpretation, and there is a very interesting example) in a calculated way. Do not go "horrify" her in any manner: impress her correctly so the result is not a disaster. A good way to mark her imagination to keep it thinking about you for a long time is assuming yourself as a machista (enlightened, conscious, peaceful and protective, of course) because your rivals always pretend (and therefore they will not be sincere nor true) they are feminists to please. What matters here is to stand out as a different, secure guy, who is not afraid to show his convictions (without exaggeration) and that does not need anyone. Regarding this detail, Eliphas Lévi tells us the following:

"The one who wants to make himself loved (we attribute to man only all these illegitimate maneuvers, supposing that a woman does not need it) must, at first, insinuate himself and produce any impression in the imagination of the person who is the object of his greed. May it cause admiration, astonishment, terror [cough] and even horror (Levi is merely describing the process of seduction/conquest, as it happens in real life, regardless of whether or not the perpetrator has scruples, and not in recommending that emotional harm must be done to the person being seduced. In other words, he is saying that the one who seduces impresses upon the psyche of the desired person, for good or bad, be it harmless or harmful) if he has no other resource. It is necessary, at any cost, that in the eyes of that person he should stand out from ordinary men, and that he may reside, willingly or by force, a place in their memories, in their fears or even in their dreams. The Lovelace are certainly not the confessed ideal of the Clarices, but they constantly think of them to censor them, to curse them, to pity their victims, to wish his conversion and his repentance. Soon they will want to regenerate them through abnegation and forgiveness; then the secret vanity will tell them that it would be charming to win the love of a Lovelace, to love and resist him; when said that she wanted to love him, she blushes, renounces it a thousand times more and ends up loving him a thousand times more; later, when the supreme moment arrives, she forgets to resist him." (LÉVI, 1885/2001, page 337)

"It could be said that love, especially in women, is a true hallucination. In spite of another foolish motive, it will often be decided by the absurd. Deceive Gioconda, because of a hidden treasure? How horrible! Well, if it is a horror, why not perform it? It is so good to do a little horror every now and then!" (LÉVI, 1855/2001, page 338)

Levi refers to a small (and therefore harmless) horror. His explanation helps to understand why the feminine gender feels so attracted by certain evil and wicked men. They impress them strongly, much more than certain good men. To overcome them, you must master this skill and use it for good, in the right way. If you use it for evil, will attract bad consequences for you.

Some women usually show themselves initially open but, after the contact, they become muted to disconcert us, observing how we get out of this embarrassing situation and having fun at our expense. In this case, be short and direct (without being aggressive or uncontrolled) in your comments, taking the initiative of ending the conversation before look embarrassed. If you are on the phone, take the initiative to disconnect; if you are talking face-to-face, take the initiative to end the dialogue and walk away without looking back. Postpone the investees for another day, giving her a good lesson. That will impress her. Normally, in the following contacts the lesson takes effect and makes her more amiable... Do not make the attacks while the guard is closed (that would be harassment. Investing against the closed guard of a woman is the same as trying to force her will or to violate her free will, something that is detestable and has the effect of disgust).

The conquest of a lady has stages ranging from the moment we do not know her until the phases in which we have to continuously reconquer it in marriages or other long-lasting relationships. In all phases it is necessary to dribble the resistances (not insisting against them and seeking alternative ways) and give it back the consequences of her own decisions. The passage of the phases could be synthesized more or less as follows:

1. Subtly greet every interesting woman who goes by and look at you. One of them will answer you. When a lady look at you, there is a fraction of a second when you should greet them, If you wait too long, you will miss your chance. The moment to greet her is the moment that hovers in the feminine mind a doubt resulting from the state of surprise. You can also ignore the presence of the beauty in a first moment, for a good time, and surprise her with a stare into the eyes accompanied by an greeting almost imperceptible before the recovery of the surprise.

2. Establish the contact as if did it not give much importance to the fact.

3. Look fixedly into the eyes, demonstrating power.

4. Talk in protective command tone.

5. Talk little, let her talk.

6. Get close to kiss her. If she looks away, stop and try another day. If she does not dodge, continue.)s me
 
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