I have reached a new low in my life over the past year after getting rejected by a younger colleague. Since that didn’t work, I thought, why not try going after older women. Please note—specifically for IT users who are lurking—I have approached many women in real life and swiped thousands of times on Tinder with zero matches.
Anyway, about a year ago I was on a two-week work trip, something you could call a mission in a professional context. There was this 45-year-old woman in the group. At first sight, I thought she looked cute, but after a few days I realized I was developing a crush on her. I tried many cold approaches throughout the trip. Eventually, I felt she thought it was better to spend time around other men in the group, who are married and of course height mogg and face mogg me. Keep in mind that this 45-year-old woman looked at least 10 years older than her actual age. At one point, I cried myself to sleep in the hotel knowing she was distancing herself from me. When we got back, we exchanged a few messages, but then nothing. Since she works in a different office far away from mine, I never saw her again... Maybe that was for the better.
But I didn’t learn my lesson. About 3–4 months later, a new woman joined the office where I work. She’s 50 but looks closer to 60. Like the other woman, she has never been married. Since I was desperate to date anyone, I also made some moves (cold approach of course) to see if she would respond positively. At some point I felt she didn’t want me around, since her replies were very short. That’s when I stepped back. Later she became friendly again, and I thought I should try once more, so I sent her a few messages on WhatsApp. Her very late responses confirmed for me that she wasn’t interested.
In my defense, the first crush recently had some work matter with me, and she was respectful and kind. I mention this because I know IT lurkers might think I acted immature or even unhinged.
But the point of this thread is not simply about me being rejected. It’s about the extreme level of humiliation and mental destruction that comes from being rejected by wrinkled women discarded by Chad, who in past times would have been invisible on the dating market. The insane and distorted dating market has now made it so that even older women can easily reject you, because they have thousands of men lining up for them.
Reminder: this is not the West, this is Iran. You might say Iran is different from other Arab countries, but please take into account that Islamic culture is still there even if most people try to overlook it.
The rejections from these two women have crushed my confidence to such a point that I am certain my pain will not go away with anything other than suicide.
TL;DR: Never sink so low as to dumpster dive ....... it will only destroy what little worth you have left.
Anyway, about a year ago I was on a two-week work trip, something you could call a mission in a professional context. There was this 45-year-old woman in the group. At first sight, I thought she looked cute, but after a few days I realized I was developing a crush on her. I tried many cold approaches throughout the trip. Eventually, I felt she thought it was better to spend time around other men in the group, who are married and of course height mogg and face mogg me. Keep in mind that this 45-year-old woman looked at least 10 years older than her actual age. At one point, I cried myself to sleep in the hotel knowing she was distancing herself from me. When we got back, we exchanged a few messages, but then nothing. Since she works in a different office far away from mine, I never saw her again... Maybe that was for the better.
But I didn’t learn my lesson. About 3–4 months later, a new woman joined the office where I work. She’s 50 but looks closer to 60. Like the other woman, she has never been married. Since I was desperate to date anyone, I also made some moves (cold approach of course) to see if she would respond positively. At some point I felt she didn’t want me around, since her replies were very short. That’s when I stepped back. Later she became friendly again, and I thought I should try once more, so I sent her a few messages on WhatsApp. Her very late responses confirmed for me that she wasn’t interested.
In my defense, the first crush recently had some work matter with me, and she was respectful and kind. I mention this because I know IT lurkers might think I acted immature or even unhinged.
But the point of this thread is not simply about me being rejected. It’s about the extreme level of humiliation and mental destruction that comes from being rejected by wrinkled women discarded by Chad, who in past times would have been invisible on the dating market. The insane and distorted dating market has now made it so that even older women can easily reject you, because they have thousands of men lining up for them.Reminder: this is not the West, this is Iran. You might say Iran is different from other Arab countries, but please take into account that Islamic culture is still there even if most people try to overlook it.
The rejections from these two women have crushed my confidence to such a point that I am certain my pain will not go away with anything other than suicide.
TL;DR: Never sink so low as to dumpster dive ....... it will only destroy what little worth you have left.
