This is sooo brutal man. Fuck.
I saw some comment above saying he should go ER. Dk who said it. I disagree. Even that would be too humiliating. Imagine being remember as the 50yo virgin who went ER.
There's really no way to go about this with dignity. Personally as a 28 yo incel, i pretend to be obsessed with my job and barely even sleeping, which is socially acceptable and my relatives leave me alone. (It's the opposite, I'm actually lazy af, but they dk that bc I live alone). But at 50 no excuse would ever work. All his relatives know he's an absolute loser.
He should've roped long ago. Personally I had already made the decision to rope if it gets to this point, but postponed it to 30 bc it's scary and bc I'm looking up possible surgeries that may legit help and saving up. I'd never let it get that far.
He's not strong like some comments are pretending, he's just stupid. I also find those comments condescending, they might as well say "man you're sooo strong for not roping despite being such a worthless loser, kudos to you, i showed this to my gf and she agrees btw".
There's three ways about this:
1. Wait to die, which it sounds like he'll do. But it could be like 40 or more years of this shit. Idk how he will cope.
2. Just rope at home and wait for someone to find him rotting months later. Humiliating but after all who cares.
3. Save face by betabuxing some single mom and having an intentional car crash with her and the kid (so the kid doesn't go around blaming him and calling him a loser, and the foid so she doesn't instantly go back to fucking chads and make him look like a loser). Relatives will think it was an accident and that he was successful in the end.
Once again, I will never feel sorry for guys like this, this is a grave they dug themselves by being childish and not getting over their egos, he could have had sex 100 times by now if he started in his 20's.
Also, here's the sad reality that retards who refuse to pay for sex don't get.
IF YOU FINALLY GET LUCKY AND GET A GIRLFRIEND
YOU'LL BE A SEXUALLY INEXPERIENCED LOSER WHO WILL BE UNABLE TO SATISFY HER
SO SHE WILL LEAVE YOU (LONG BEFORE YOU CAN GAIN ANY EXPERIENCE)
SO IF YOU GET LUCKY AGAIN, THE CYCLE WILL REPEAT
So all you guys thinking one day you are going to "make it" and settle down, you are fucking retarded.
A woman in her 20's already has a "game plan" in the bedroom.
She knows what she likes
She knows what men like
She's become accustomed to a certain level of performance (which men who are used to having sex are accustomed to dishing out)
You will be nothing but a disappointment, a "nice guy" she dates for a week or two and has unenthusiastic starfish sex with, out of desperation to "find someone", but she'll leave shortly after that, because it was just a fluke you got her anyways, and she has way better options.
Lastly, the longer you wait, the more is expected of you. A woman in her 40's fucking another man in that age range, is expecting him to be a veteran in the bedroom, and you won't even be able to make her cum once, because you have no experience at all.
You have to be a childish fool to refuse to pay for sex decade after decade.
I disagree, first off there's nothing complicated about having sex, and also, you could just pretend to be experienced and it wouldn't raise any red flags that you suck at it, bc most chads are stupid anyway