I have recently read a book written by a certain psychologist about, essentially, changing your attitude and eliminating impulsive passivity (that is: being passive as the first reaction to the emergence of a problem). In terms of being employed and being successful in your career, it's cool, in terms of inceldom, cope and bluepill almost as big as the entirety of the mgtow movement. With one BIG exception.
In the book (which I don't want to advertise, but I'll mention its name at the very end) there is an ongoing motif of three seconds. It is stated, multiple times, that during three seconds, human brain decides what the first plan of action in any given situation, including social situations, should be, and it is completely instinctive. The scientific proof given is rather weak and there's definitely way too many anecdotal examples, but nonetheless, in many different studies only partially mentioned in the book, it has been repeatedly proven that the first impression is what defines one's way of thinking about the other man.
Now, obviously, it's not meant to be a revolutionary statement, but think about it this way. Considering what we know about women since the free and anonymous Internet communication has been established and they started revealing just how much looks matter, just how low they rate most men and how ridiculously entitled they are in terms of their demands, the fact that it takes three seconds to make all the necessary assumptions about the other man is BLACK-PILL maximum gigantum.
If you are below average in terms of looks, if you are inhibited, if you have anxiety, depression, just outright shyness or even once make a facial expression that is not perfectly happy and that is the first time a foid sees or otherwise interacts with you, it forever engraves your image as a man unpleasant to interact with in her brain. The neuronal connection has been established, there's no undoing it, now she associates you with negative emotions, discomfort, and it will inevitably lead to ostracization if you indeed are depressed and continue not being perfectly happy friendly smiley all the time.
This thought process leads to inevitable conclusion, the gigantic blackpill that EVERY FOID YOU HAVE INTERACTED WITH SO FAR SUBCONSCIOUSLY DISLIKES YOU AND IS VERY UNLIKELY TO EVER CHANGE HER STANCE. Considering the fact that the stimuli which lead to you being perceived as unpleasant to hang out with are largely independent of your action/ extremely difficult to fight with as a chronically lonely man (looks, face, height, social skills, depression, anxiety, severe shyness), you effectively cannot change yourself so that the next time you met a new foid, she would at least have a neutral or mildly positive first impression.
So it is over.
The book is 3 seconds. The power of thinking twice.
In the book (which I don't want to advertise, but I'll mention its name at the very end) there is an ongoing motif of three seconds. It is stated, multiple times, that during three seconds, human brain decides what the first plan of action in any given situation, including social situations, should be, and it is completely instinctive. The scientific proof given is rather weak and there's definitely way too many anecdotal examples, but nonetheless, in many different studies only partially mentioned in the book, it has been repeatedly proven that the first impression is what defines one's way of thinking about the other man.
Now, obviously, it's not meant to be a revolutionary statement, but think about it this way. Considering what we know about women since the free and anonymous Internet communication has been established and they started revealing just how much looks matter, just how low they rate most men and how ridiculously entitled they are in terms of their demands, the fact that it takes three seconds to make all the necessary assumptions about the other man is BLACK-PILL maximum gigantum.
If you are below average in terms of looks, if you are inhibited, if you have anxiety, depression, just outright shyness or even once make a facial expression that is not perfectly happy and that is the first time a foid sees or otherwise interacts with you, it forever engraves your image as a man unpleasant to interact with in her brain. The neuronal connection has been established, there's no undoing it, now she associates you with negative emotions, discomfort, and it will inevitably lead to ostracization if you indeed are depressed and continue not being perfectly happy friendly smiley all the time.
This thought process leads to inevitable conclusion, the gigantic blackpill that EVERY FOID YOU HAVE INTERACTED WITH SO FAR SUBCONSCIOUSLY DISLIKES YOU AND IS VERY UNLIKELY TO EVER CHANGE HER STANCE. Considering the fact that the stimuli which lead to you being perceived as unpleasant to hang out with are largely independent of your action/ extremely difficult to fight with as a chronically lonely man (looks, face, height, social skills, depression, anxiety, severe shyness), you effectively cannot change yourself so that the next time you met a new foid, she would at least have a neutral or mildly positive first impression.
So it is over.
The book is 3 seconds. The power of thinking twice.
