Venting The reason why nofap is so hard for me

[janoycresva]

At the end of the day, if I really wanted to, I could commit to nofap forever with no problem. However, the last two times I broke my streaks were a result of me feeling entitled to having the simple and small pleasure of masturbation. Why did I feel entitled? Well, it was because when I compare myself to the average western man, my hedonistic activities are slim to none when I'm on no fap. I don't drink, I don't smoke, I never go out with friends, in college I have no friends, I don't play video games, I study hard, I take cold showers, I undergo acne scar surgeries that hurt like hell, and I work myself until I'm almost passing out in the gym (especially recently). Thus, I wanted some small pleasure in my life and that was masturbation and drinking coffee while watching a YouTube video on Friday after class. On nofap, my only pleasure consisted of Youtube Videos and Coffee w/a pastry. This is of course, like I said, compared to the Western man. I know many have it much worse. In the end, if I was a Chad, nofap would be a breeze.

Anyways, I'm close to a relapse and need help.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

Chad has Stacy make him breakfast, skips his classes, drinks a 6 pack of beer and then bangs Stacy. Later that day he will drink another 6 pack and devour a whole pizza without gaining a single pound due to his superior genetics.

Later that night before bed he will jerk off to pornhub because sex with Stacy is boring to him already.

 

[janoycresva]

Chad has Stacy make him breakfast, skips his classes, drinks a 6 pack of beer and then bangs Stacy. Later that day he will drink another 6 pack and devour a whole pizza without gaining a single pound due to his superior genetics.

Later that night before bed he will jerk off to pornhub because sex with Stacy is boring to him already.

didn't help me much bro, if anything I'm closer to a relapse now

 

[Incellectual]

Nofap doesn't make sense for incels. the reason why nofap somewhat works for normies is that they can get sexual release from foids or at least can get it in a reasonable timeframe. If you can't get sex ever all you are doing is sexually frustrating yourself which isn't good. As an incel its better to low fap with no porn instead. You don't get addicted/go over bored and you still get sexual release.

 

[tehgymcel420]

I used to do nofap but there isn't any point to it. The small bit of pleasure I get from fapping is all I have, there is no reason to deny myself that much even.

 

[janoycresva]

Nofap doesn't make sense for incels. the reason why nofap somewhat works for normies is that they can get sexual release from foids or at least can get it in a reasonable timeframe. If you can't get sex ever all you are doing is sexually frustrating yourself which isn't good. As an incel its better to low fap with no porn instead. You don't get addicted/go over bored and you still get sexual release.

i think you are right, but I have to get those images out of my head from porn so shouldn't I do at least 2 months of straight no fap?

 

[Anonymous MG]

Nofap doesn't make sense for incels. the reason why nofap somewhat works for normies is that they can get sexual release from foids or at least can get it in a reasonable timeframe. If you can't get sex ever all you are doing is sexually frustrating yourself which isn't good. As an incel its better to low fap with no porn instead. You don't get addicted/go over bored and you still get sexual release.

Just fap to still images and you'll do fine.

Hell, I fap to stories because they can paint a picture in my head.

 

[janoycresva]

Just fap to still images and you'll do fine.

Hell, I fap to stories because they can paint a picture in my head.

thanks

 

[Anonymous MG]

thanks

Vivacious lemon stories are better than porn, and unlike porn it's actually beneficial to enjoy such a story.

Still images can also take advantage of your imagination, why do you think there's porn magazines?

 

[Incellectual]

i think you are right, but I have to get those images out of my head from porn so shouldn't I do at least 2 months of straight no fap?

nah doing no fap will fuel your lust for porn tbh. Going cold turkey usually makes you fail since all you can think about is doing whatever your trying to stop. Try masturbating to your imagination or to some very mild porn (preferably no sex involved, like just a picture of a hot girl with or without clothing).

 

[Anonymous MG]

nah doing no fap will fuel your lust for porn tbh. Going cold turkey usually makes you fail since all you can think about is doing whatever your trying to stop. Try masturbating to your imagination or to some very mild porn (preferably no sex involved, like just a picture of a hot girl with or without clothing).

Yeah, it really fucks with your productivity and peace of mind overall.

 

[Justdone]

i think you are right, but I have to get those images out of my head from porn so shouldn't I do at least 2 months of straight no fap?

Better quit hardcore porn before it interferes with circulation and eye concentration. I stopped years ago because it messed up my productivity and sleeping cycle.

 

[ShadowMonk]

Masturbate!
Just don't watch internet porn or instawhore. It's the instasex media that rots the brain. Not stroking it.

 

[rabitter]

You're right tbh. Incels have few pleasures in life. Barely any vices.

Personally the only reason I keep on hopping on the no-fap train (and keep on failing, sadly) is because I want to moneymaxx and fapping really saps the productive energy out of me.

Masturbate!
Just don't watch internet porn or instawhore. It's the instasex media that rots the brain. Not stroking it.

Being incel rots the brain.

 

[acnescarcel]

didn't help me much bro, if anything I'm closer to a relapse now

lol

 

[Guest2]

Do LessFap with no porn

 

[Deleted member 6470]

Try to fap to vanilla stuff.

 

[Cuyen]

I'm pretty much same as you. I never drunk alcohol in my life,never do drugs nor smoke. I'm also doing sports and eat healthy since I know myself. And yeah,nofap is so hard for me as well. but also I see it pointless